Jimmy Potter

when you send out nudes, you don't know where they might end up. i've started sending less and less out, now that i've found myself on tumblr twice. it's a strange feeling of embarrassment, unwelcome flattery and arousal – seeing your nude among other guys'

I backuped/burned them to discs for easy storage. Deleted those I no longer have interest, because why bother keeping them when you don't see them anymore? Have thought about storing them on the cloud, but this method is virtually not safe due to the possibility of data leaks. I sure won't want my private collection to be exposed to the world, nor having the feds easily track me down.

Cheating is not about activities, it is about trust. if you promise your partner to never eat a doughnut, and you have one anyway, then it is cheating. It's simple- if you think your partner would be upset that you watch porn, or you feel you have to hide it from them, it is cheating. if the two of you can watch some porn together before having sex, then it is not cheating.

Probably the one with Parker London

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@semurg30: I have a straight drinking buddy who admitted he went to a gay club a few times to "support a friend" whatever that means. I wish I found that endearing…honestly I felt creeped out a little for some reason I couldn't quite articulate. I didn't find it supportive...more like that feeling a black person probably gets when a white friend feels they've the right to use the N word.  Not the same thing at all but I don't want straight friends in the gay part of my world and I don't want to be the token gay friend that gets them off the hook every time they do something douchey. With strangers I don't care where they go. But I don't want straight friends trying to bond with me about how supportive they are. I can stomach a somewhat homophobic friend who's at least honest about their feelings and boundaries...I don't want a fake supposedly supportive friend...those are the worst. I'm sorry, but if you don't like your straight friends to be a part of your gay life, maybe you don't consider them really friends. Why are some of you guys trying to push your gay life apart from the other part of you. It's all you. And if your friends give you grief about how you live your life, they're not your friends. And about those bars. Everyone can go to straight bar, noone is talking about who'd go there and who wouldn't, but to go or not to go to gay pub, there has to be a discussion. I never went to gay pubs or maybe I did actually because I never knew where they were and these days I just don't go out anymore that much. I know there's this club where gay ppl would go on sundays, other nights were for everyone.

Well I'd use it to share, to seed. I mostly seed european pr0n

I thought i'd be shocked by this topic.. but I wasn't :rotfl:

Okay, thanks everyone for your feedback! I actually need the CompTIA A+ certification in order to gain access to some entry-level IT jobs/internships. My college doesn't have any support in obtaining the certifications (except from my current IT studies), so I basically have to study for the exam on my spare time and take it in a few months. I've already obtained an old computer system that I can dissect and learn from, hopefully that will help.

Whistle Use a can opener Burp on purpose (even if I really know that it would help me feel better) Write in a perfectly straight line on a paper without lines Shave without cutting Keep eye contact when talking to someone And many others!! YAY TO CLUMSINESS!! ;D ;D

I think - just like sexuality, our fetishes just are. I think the choice lies in how we express them and what we do about them. I also have a theory that some fetishes are based on things/events/lifestyle at the time our sexuality was kicking in - e.g. my "thing" is voyeurism - strangers getting changed in a locker room - open showers etc - i'm not sure if it is coincidence or not but my sexual awakenings coincided with more school swimming trips, sporty club stuff etc - i also love speedos lol and love seeing men's feet (not kissing etc just looking) - so to me it all coincides with that time.. so i always think "was it i got lucky at the time or did it sort of manifest because I was around that atmosphere?" I look at it like this. Fetishes are easier to not act upon, or only slightly act upon. E.G. A middle aged 60s housewife who was actually a lesbian may have had a fair bit of torment/confusion but a 60s housewife into bondage will not be crying herself to sleep over it.. if that makes sense ? As sexual liberation has changed/gone forward, I think we are seeing the stigma of most fetishes fade or at least not be  so - there are some glaring exceptions - scat is an obvious one if you are not - like you say - attracted to men's feet then so be it..  i think bondage is interesting but my pain threshold is -20 lol - in other words we are all different.. makes it fun