@hhsq:
kumar777, I am quite shocked by some things you are saying about fems and flamboyance. But I'm trying to be understandful. Here is a piece of advice, if you are open to it, of course - which I belive, you may be -: work on your judgements. Think about them. Think about how they could aply to you and hurt you. Think about how they are directed thowards people who feel, who suffer, who laugh, who are people, like everyone else. Empathy, I believe, is the right word for it, and the right thing to pursue. Besides, those people don't shame the gay movement, they don't make it feel weaker. Femininity is not a synonym for weakness. The sheer fact that they are men who act in a feminine way in a super conservative country makes them VERY strong! Think about that!
Apart from that, I wish you luck on dealing with your dificulties. We all here, in one way or another, have our dificulties, no matter where in the World we are.
You are right. It is so wrong of me to label people so easily. Its their way of life and I should respect it