Gay asian

twinkerzzz

can you tell me what you think of them? i mean ive been kinda reading some of the articles about this and they say that some white guys (old and ugly) like them but the hot ones dont and the asians go for whites , supposedly they're so desperate that theyd go out with the first type(old and ugly) so its just funny to me i just wanna know what you guys think and what your communities are like thank you

well i find this post really basic to say the least…....
Yes race can come into the importance of the 'type' of man which we seek and represents the ideal man for each of us - but you put it so crassly & it is a little off the mark in my book.

Firstly you are talking about literally millions and millions of males (Asians)
Then you are talking region:
There are Indian subcontinent Asians who are known as Asians , India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka...
There are Far East Asians, Korea, Phillipines, Vietnam, Cambodia, and all the others
Then there are Chinese Asians ....
Then there are East Asians and Asians who live in other parts of the world, Britain has many Indian subcontinent Asians, America has many Far East Asians.....for example...

So be careful about making generalised statements. Many Asians of all backgrounds love & have sex with Asians.
Where Asians are a minority population, the issue of multiculturalism may occur Nationally ie. the 'rice-queen' phenomena in America. Mixed race people - 'Asian+other' will also be present in multicultural societies and the issue of sexualising race may become more diverse and open to much more opportunity to explore different cultures and attitudes to life.

So with that said, maybe the next time you visit a multicultural centre with a healthy gay scene - try and go to a number of bars, shops, parks where gay people express themselves openly and observe how in reality, each person has a partner because they genuinly like each other beyond the idea of race, and that many people of many different races fall in love for many different reasons and in many different ways.

bostone737

I'm white, far from old and ugly, and I love my Asians!

raphjd

For this conversation, we're talking about east Asians {China, Japan, Korea, etc}.

Now the other way around… what I've observed is there are far fewer whites (gay men and women) that prefer Asian men, especially when you talk about the younger whites. Why is that...

It's natural to tend toward your own race and culture.

You also have to look at the % of Asians and white in countries like the US and the UK. There'd be a lot of lonely white people if everyone preferred Asians.

Gay white boys (those in their 20s) don't go for Asians because I think they've got certain stereotypes about how Asians look and act, and that just turns them off.

I think most of this is due to them coming out of the closet and being insecure and trying to keep as much security as possible by being with someone they can relate to the most.

For their parts, John Cho and B.D. Wong has shown that you can be Asian, not speak with an accent, and be good looking. Unfortunately they're not bigger in the media.

I don't find BD Wong attractive at all. John Cho is a good looking, but I still get grossed out about him because of the "House" episode he did.

Some of you may be old enough to remember the show "Designing Women". The part where they go to Japan was funny. There was a stand up comic who is Japanese American and had a massive Georgia accent.

leeward

I find many peoples views regarding race to be generally very narrow. Among the developed countries, Americans tend to have the highest levels of ignorance of foreign cultures coupled with a lack of curiosity and disinterest in learning about other cultures. I read somewhere that most American high school seniors have difficulty finding Iraq on the world map.

David J. Keeling wrote in Global Ignorance Geographic Illiteracy, Western Kentucky University 2/2003 : Although most Americans are more aware today of distant lands such as Afghanistan, Iraq, North Korea and Venezuela due to recent media reports on political and economic crises in these countries, few have the ability to find these places on a world map or to discuss critically their cultural characteristics. This lack of geographic awareness permeates all segments of our society, from students to presidents, and from ordinary citizens to senators and businesspeople.

This is the same kind, depth and scope of ignorance which led to Americas catastrophic involvement in the middle east. I believe that George Bush did not even know the difference between shiite and sunni, much less cared about it, before invading Iraq.

Rather than accepting responsibility to learn about foreign cultures, most gay Americans appear to be quite bigoted about other gays of different nationalities, quite a poor mark for a subclass of people who themselves demand to be treated more equally by the straights in society.

pleblanc

There is many kind of asian and when you look very closely it is quite easy to see the difference between a Thai and a Korean…
Right now i think that a handsom and tall Japanese (young man) is the most sexy thing on earth!
A movie like ''No Regret'' show very nice and hunky Korean.
I think that asian are so interesting because: homosexuality is so wrong in there culture...
Please get over your stereotype: the new generation of asian is so cool!
I am white: but for me beauty (i realy mean arrousal) have no color, shape or size...

Hobbestails

I've always been fond of cute asian guys. I dated a Fillipino for two months but it didn't work out.

gzlong

I am an east asian gay man. Once, my boss, a mid-age straight man asked me " why asian women like to have snowy white skin(he prefers tan petite asian girls)" I answered in questioning way "why white people like to be tan?"

So think of asian gays like white, white gays like asians, my personal opinion is the opposite attraction. There are so many examples in our lives of opposite attractions. Married people want unmarried, unmarried people want to get married, blah blah blah…

Is it in our gene that to be attracted by features we our own do not have? I don't know.

But my personal think is gaymen are still men in the first place, men like sex, so does it really bother if the partner is different race? And no offence, few friends in my gay friends circle(over 200 east asian bitches ;D) are fond of white guys, they think asians are more cute though white, black, brown are cute, too of course.

leatherbear

Informative discussion indeed ??? I have a chat buddy from another site that is of Asian descent and bless his heart he is determined to "marry" a white man and not just any white man but a supermodel type. He is always so unhappy about being rejected but is mired in this destructive cycle beyond all hope or reason.

Your comments have helped me to understand perhaps where his mind is in this matter!!!

raphjd

we speak english very well here in our country so that stereotype that asians don't know squat about english is dead wrong

I've lived in Japan and South Korea and I can say for a fact that a lot of people in both countries pretend not to speak english, even though it's taught very early on in school.

kickbackla

when it comes to me and asians culture is entirely beside the point and central to it.

i've fucked (or been fucked) by every race, body type, age, etc. But most of my boyfriends have been asian, and i'm happy to admit that many asian men happen to have physical characteristics that turn my crank. It's very superficial but also common. It's the physical things that you are attracted to physically which lead to introductions, conversations, and getting nasty.

But culture rears its ugly head, of course. My asian boyfriends have been very americanized. I can't help it…I have to be able to relate fundamentally with a person to date long-term. Of course I'm culturally ignorant, but this isn't a special burden of US citizens. Everyone is culturally ignorant except for really good anthropoligists (who are only just pretending) and those talented and lucky few who actually have lived within different cultures.

At the end of the day, the teeming masses only know what they see surrounding them. Who gives a shit whether they can correctly identify an arbitrarily-decided shape on a map that has been designated "Iraq"? We could train dolphins to do this. I'm not preaching ignorance…i think it's actually important that I know where Iraq is on a map, accepting that this doesn't mean that i know anything about Iraqis.

you see i have this stereotype that foreigners or caucasians in general bring sexually transmitted diseases like aids here in our country… did anyone get offended? and oh yeah.. we speak english very well here in our country so that stereotype that asians don't know squat about english is dead wrong... and oh yeah... that steretype about asians liking caucasians that much only applies to asians who are also butt ugly and jobless with no means for food...

just because some butt ugly lazy asians go for caucasians due to desperation don't mean all of us are very desperate... pls take note that most asians work hard to earn their living....

See? Proof that ignorance hath no stranger. Oh honey, we all work hard to earn our living. I don't really know very many people who aren't, in some way, desperate.

Edited by F00F: removed username

omzai

I like asian, especially Malay race ;D

rutterlfort

I'm an Asian ^-^ and although I don't mind having sexual relations with Caucasian men that don't look half bad, in terms of a long-term relationship, I would still prefer older (but not grampa old) >:D Asian men because they generally tend to be more driven, conscientious, meticulous, etc… perhaps because I'm an overachiever so I tend to expect the same thing from a partner...

MrMazda

I know the feeling, and you're not the only one. I too am more attracted to older men. This may be largely due to the fact that older men tend to have a brain in their heads and know what they want, rather than trotting around like some immature little twink who is completely care free. I find it easier to engage in an intellectually stimulating conversation with an older man. Perhaps this is something that also drives you to older men?

rutterlfort

@MrMazda:

I know the feeling, and you're not the only one. I too am more attracted to older men. This may be largely due to the fact that older men tend to have a brain in their heads and know what they want, rather than trotting around like some immature little twink who is completely care free. I find it easier to engage in an intellectually stimulating conversation with an older man. Perhaps this is something that also drives you to older men?

Well, I've learned a lot of things from older men but I think it's their financial stability and level headedness that makes them more preferable partners.

hitsuman

Interestinggg. I'm actually an Asian American living in the US (California if you wanted to know) and I actually have an asian fetish of sorts. Granted, I'm more attracted towards the buff, gym-going asians, but I've never had a problem finding those where I live (My BF is asian) xP. I actually think that if I had to put the races into some sort of ladder of preference, whites would be near the bottom, if not at the very bottom. Ultimately, it doesn't matter if I find someone I connect with, but if I had to, that's probably how my preferences lie.

I think part of the reason for that was because I lived in a more ethnic part of California where I saw more asians and latinos than anything else. It really wasn't until I got into college that I started to actually see white people bahahaha

Moc22

Asian guys are the sexiest in my opinion!

rgeregerbil

Well, I'm Asian and have a bad case of hair fetish… so that rules most other Asians out; though the odd hairy Asian have turned my head once or twice.

As for older men, it is intelligence that I find attractive - Someone who has worldly knowledge, his head screwed on, experience and preferably a vocabulary of more than 10 words.
I like men, not boys.

Give me a rugged man, an apple and some rope and we are set for a party!

:cheesy2:

007boy

I have dated both asians and white so i have no preference. People who restrict themselves to a skin type are the typical i want my bf to have the following physical attributes. I find it shallow but i do not like to judge too much. It is their choice.

Bottomline I realised is that each individual soul is colourless and everlasting. What we look and have in hand at the moment does not last. If you believe in a lasting relationship then I say widen your scope and look deeper. If you just want to have some fun and have the energy to hop around, continue to bring you list of ever ending desires out and place them in front of you each time you need someone new.

Just a own opinion. Cheers!

JZ

YORCH32

its like any other race, there are ugly men and handsome men (or ugly with hot bods)

mygayworld

As an Asian ,i have to say many many my friend in the usa have told that they are not popular in there .That have sex with an white man is easy but having a serious relationship is difficult.Meanwhile i also have seen many asian men have a romantique relationship with handsome white men. i don't know the reason why some people are easy to find their partners others aren't . But it is true that old white men prefers us than the young.