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      drewski Gay Leader
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      Sincere condolences to all of his friends and family. May he rest in peace and may you all find peace.

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        psycho192
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        😞 i only noticed that Tim was a staff member just now, and yet i felt sorry  :cry2: for his death since there must be the one for everyone whom would shed tears for days.I felt sorry for both; the one passed away and the one left behind.

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          russbill
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          So sorry to hear of this news…. R I P Tim  :cry2:

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            rick71142
            last edited by

            My deepest sympathies to all his friends and family
            Rick71142

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              bluehue
              last edited by

              i don't mean to be inappropriate, but i was wondering if there are any developments surrounding this tragedy?

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              • leatherbearL Offline
                leatherbear
                last edited by

                Cry I just spoke with David and he says he is doing well. He has to move now and this is a real concern  to make happen in 2 weeks time.

                The plans for services have been made by the brother and Tim's father but are on hold for the autopsy that is being conducted.

                Foul play is suspected and Ray the BF is still missing and being sought by the police for at least parole violations. Other charges may or may not be pursued based on the autopsy results.

                David promised to get me the Funeral Home phone # so I can contact them for dates of the Commemorative services being held and that date. Tim will be cremated as per his wish.  Cry

                This was the latest update. I will try and call David tomorrow again. These are not easy calls for me I got very emotional last call ~ embarrassing truly ~ but there should be some updates by now perhaps.

                It is not inappropriate to ask at all …...it's called closure and God knows I need some closure on this as well.

                ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                  beercan
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                  Please convey our best wishes to David.. I'm sure the combined effects of the movement and the tragedy will conspire to overwhelm him.

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                  • leatherbearL Offline
                    leatherbear
                    last edited by

                    How kind and gracious you are to think of David. He is truly overwhelmed with life's issues let alone the loss he suffered. I will in deed let him know he is in our prayers again.

                    the entire situation is so sad it just breaks my heart   :cry2:

                    ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                    • MrMazdaM Offline
                      MrMazda Global Moderator
                      last edited by

                      Inquiring minds must know 🙂

                      That being said however, I can definitely understand that it's not exactly an easy subject to deal with.

                      Whap The User
                      The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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                        boronas1
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                        You live forever in our memories  :cry2:

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                          gferek
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                          It's really sad to hear(?) it. I just got back after few days off and… I really can't believe it. Tears are appearing in my eyes by itself and I can't do anything about it. I'm really sorry Tim. I'll miss You. Rest in peace.

                          Pleased me! Show me how its done!

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                            leatherbear
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                            I spoke with David again today and the news is exactly the same as before…...

                            The Coroners Office is holding Tim's body pending investigation.No services scheduled at this point for this reason.Ray continues to be sought by the police for parole violations only at this point. Ray remains unseen.

                            ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                            • MrMazdaM Offline
                              MrMazda Global Moderator
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                              @leatherbear:

                              …Ray continues to be sought by the police for parole violations only at this point. Ray remains unseen.

                              I don't know why, but something's telling me that the location of his whereabouts can be located out west.

                              Whap The User
                              The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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                                fanobliv
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                                I don't know you at all, but rip tim!

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                                • leatherbearL Offline
                                  leatherbear
                                  last edited by

                                  Well, I spoke with David again today….......

                                  The body has been released fro the Coroner and has been cremated all ready.I have the Funeral Home Web address to leave your condolences for the family. I hope all will respect the family and be wise with your words of condolence.

                                  Name:
                                  Timothy J. Frei

                                  Dates:
                                  Birth date: December 10, 1959
                                  Death date: November 11, 2010

                                  Obituary:

                                  Timothy J. Frei, 50, of Lancaster, passed away November 10, 2010 at 4:15 AM in Lancaster General Hospital where he was a patient since November 1st.  Born in Reading on December 10, 1959, he was the son of George F. Frei of Myerstown and the late Doris D. (Davies) Frei.

                                  Timothy was a 1977 graduate of Wilson High School and attended Penn State University.

                                  Surviving in addition to his father is a brother David M. Frei of Emmaus.

                                  Service:

                                  Services will be at the convenience of the family. Bean Funeral Home, 3825 Penn Ave., Sinking Spring is in charge of arrangements.

                                  www.beanfuneralhomes.com

                                  BTW: I have made a call to the detective handling this case for any additional information that he may have regarding Tim's passing. If I get an update of course you gents will as well.

                                  ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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                                    waltt
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                                    I have not known Tim - but from the heartbroken words from his friends he sounds like a great person.
                                    A sad and tragic event.
                                    Hugs,
                                    W

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                                      abombo
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                                      A tragic and very sad event.

                                      I have not known him, but from the words I have read here from you all,
                                      Tim seemed like a very nice and a great person.

                                      My condolences to all of you, his family and friends.

                                      Rest in peace.

                                      Kisses and Hugs,
                                      Abombo

                                      errare humanum est

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                                        beercan
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                                        I want to upload the picture I have but i'm not sure it's suitable for the website…
                                        opinions any1?
                                        the words i used ok ? don't want to aggravate any1 by using the wrong words.  :afr2:
                                        ![](http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg)
                                        http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg

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                                        • MrMazdaM Offline
                                          MrMazda Global Moderator
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                                          Personally, I like it and think it's both tasteful and visually appealing. The only one problem with the link you posted is that spaces aren't able to be interperated in the auto-link feature. Spaces are replaced with %20 when entering a URL into an address bar for example. The actual link would be:

                                          http://tracker.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/RIP TIM.jpg

                                          That being said however, you do not need to enter the %20 if referencing it in a message post by using the img tags. Those will automatically adjust themselves.

                                          Whap The User
                                          The only difference between martyrdom and suicide is press coverage!

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                                          • leatherbearL Offline
                                            leatherbear
                                            last edited by

                                            Personally, I like it and think it's both tasteful and visually appealing

                                            :true:

                                            ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/HOF 3.png)

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