How can I have polygamous relationship ?
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I have this issue about the relationship. I care about everyone. Anyone I meet or hookup I care about them. I can not ignore one and love other. There is someone wants to have a relationship with me but I said I like to be with others as well. He said I can only be with him. most of the guys out there is like this. they into a monogamous relationship. But I care about all of them I met. what should I do? How can I convince him to accept others in our life.
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Knowing people who are in polygamous relationships of various types
It requirers the free consent of everyone involved and a lot of work. If your primary s someone who is monogamous you have to respect that person's autonomy and choose either to be monogamous or to end the relationship.
I'd recommend if you want to have a polyamorous life that you socialize with polyamorous people. I don't know where you live and how easy it'll be to connect to a community. There are resources available on-line.
Good luck.
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He might be somewhere on another site right now asking how he can convince you to be monogamous.
Point being - you can't "convince" anyone of anything, either they're willing to try it or not - and you know if something is right for you or not. If it's not right for him and he doesn't want to give it a go, move on.
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i will just friendzone them I guess. Since there is no way to make it happen. Thanks guys.
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I have this issue about the relationship. I care about everyone. Anyone I meet or hookup I care about them. I can not ignore one and love other. There is someone wants to have a relationship with me but I said I like to be with others as well. He said I can only be with him. most of the guys out there is like this. they into a monogamous relationship. But I care about all of them I met. what should I do? How can I convince him to accept others in our life.
You sound like me. I could have poly relationship. I feel in this gay world most have open relationships, i think if more would try to experience poly there would be less random hookups and more love

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You sound like me. I could have poly relationship. I feel in this gay world most have open relationships, i think if more would try to experience poly there would be less random hookups and more love

Right. instead of hooking up randomly we could built a community with more love. this way jealousy would reduce too. and not to mention about the sexual part. that would be great as well. :cheers: :love:
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