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    How can I have polygamous relationship ?

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      calvingrey
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      I have this issue about the relationship. I care about everyone. Anyone I meet or hookup I care about them. I can not ignore one and love other. There is someone wants to have a relationship with me but I said I like to be with others as well. He said I can only be with him. most of the guys out there is like this. they into a monogamous relationship. But I care about all of them I met.  what should I do?  How can I convince him to accept others in our life.

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        JohnAllenson
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        Knowing people who are in polygamous relationships of various types

        It requirers the free consent of everyone involved and a lot of work.  If your primary s someone who is monogamous you have to respect that person's autonomy and choose either to be monogamous or to end the relationship.

        I'd recommend if you want to have a polyamorous life that you socialize with polyamorous people.  I don't know where you live and how easy it'll be to connect to a community.  There are resources available on-line.

        Good luck.

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          ColinTNM
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          He might be somewhere on another site right now asking how he can convince you to be monogamous.

          Point being - you can't "convince" anyone of anything, either they're willing to try it or not - and you know if something is right for you or not. If it's not right for him and he doesn't want to give it a go, move on.

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            calvingrey
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            i will just friendzone them I guess. Since there is no way to make it happen. Thanks guys.

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              tassa0
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              @calvingrey:

              I have this issue about the relationship. I care about everyone. Anyone I meet or hookup I care about them. I can not ignore one and love other. There is someone wants to have a relationship with me but I said I like to be with others as well. He said I can only be with him. most of the guys out there is like this. they into a monogamous relationship. But I care about all of them I met.  what should I do?  How can I convince him to accept others in our life.

              You sound like me. I could have poly relationship. I feel in this gay world most have open relationships, i think if more would try to experience poly there would be less random hookups and more love 🙂

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                calvingrey
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                @tassa0:

                @calvingrey:

                You sound like me. I could have poly relationship. I feel in this gay world most have open relationships, i think if more would try to experience poly there would be less random hookups and more love 🙂

                Right. instead of hooking up randomly we could built a community with more love. this way jealousy would reduce too. and not to mention about the sexual part. that would be great as well.  :cheers: :love:

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