<![CDATA[How can I have polygamous relationship ?]]>I have this issue about the relationship. I care about everyone. Anyone I meet or hookup I care about them. I can not ignore one and love other. There is someone wants to have a relationship with me but I said I like to be with others as well. He said I can only be with him. most of the guys out there is like this. they into a monogamous relationship. But I care about all of them I met.  what should I do?  How can I convince him to accept others in our life.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/39645/how-can-i-have-polygamous-relationshipRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 14:32:46 GMTSun, 24 Jun 2018 05:36:36 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to How can I have polygamous relationship ? on Thu, 19 Jul 2018 07:54:35 GMT]]>@tassa0:

@calvingrey:

You sound like me. I could have poly relationship. I feel in this gay world most have open relationships, i think if more would try to experience poly there would be less random hookups and more love 🙂

Right. instead of hooking up randomly we could built a community with more love. this way jealousy would reduce too. and not to mention about the sexual part. that would be great as well.  :cheers: :love:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242780https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242780Thu, 19 Jul 2018 07:54:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How can I have polygamous relationship ? on Tue, 10 Jul 2018 10:41:35 GMT]]>@calvingrey:

I have this issue about the relationship. I care about everyone. Anyone I meet or hookup I care about them. I can not ignore one and love other. There is someone wants to have a relationship with me but I said I like to be with others as well. He said I can only be with him. most of the guys out there is like this. they into a monogamous relationship. But I care about all of them I met.  what should I do?  How can I convince him to accept others in our life.

You sound like me. I could have poly relationship. I feel in this gay world most have open relationships, i think if more would try to experience poly there would be less random hookups and more love 🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242408https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242408Tue, 10 Jul 2018 10:41:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How can I have polygamous relationship ? on Fri, 29 Jun 2018 04:21:07 GMT]]>i will just friendzone them I guess. Since there is no way to make it happen. Thanks guys.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242153https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242153Fri, 29 Jun 2018 04:21:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How can I have polygamous relationship ? on Mon, 25 Jun 2018 14:10:05 GMT]]>He might be somewhere on another site right now asking how he can convince you to be monogamous.

Point being - you can't "convince" anyone of anything, either they're willing to try it or not - and you know if something is right for you or not. If it's not right for him and he doesn't want to give it a go, move on.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242068https://community.gaytor.rent/post/242068Mon, 25 Jun 2018 14:10:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How can I have polygamous relationship ? on Sun, 24 Jun 2018 11:57:01 GMT]]>Knowing people who are in polygamous relationships of various types

It requirers the free consent of everyone involved and a lot of work.  If your primary s someone who is monogamous you have to respect that person's autonomy and choose either to be monogamous or to end the relationship.

I'd recommend if you want to have a polyamorous life that you socialize with polyamorous people.  I don't know where you live and how easy it'll be to connect to a community.  There are resources available on-line.

Good luck.

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