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    Is it okay to say "Whites only" on tinder/grindr profile?

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    • N Offline
      nancledra53
      last edited by

      Why not just say Whites preferred?
      Personally I like White, Celtic, Nordic, Slav, Northern Mediterranean, Black of all shades, South East Asian, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Polynesian, Melanesian, Micronesian, Native Americans North and South, Latino, Inuit.
      I am not turned on by Middle Easterners, Southern Mediterranean, And Indian Sub-Continentals. I'm not sexually attracted to them.

      Does that make me racist?

      By the way, my partner for the last 19 years is Thai. Does that make me racist?

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        raphjd Forum Administrator
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        I'm concidering "naming and shaming" a certain poster in this thread who keep reporting me for being "racist" because I state facts.  Even using facts from black media is supposedly racist.  PEW Research studies are racist.

        It's amazing that saying that the most common races (this excludes "native" races because they are small groups) is equally "guilty" of not dating outside their race, is somehow white supremacy because it's not demonizing whites while ignoring or praising other races for being the same as whites.

        He's butch enough to whine behind the scenes, but doesn't have the courage of his convictions to to put his stance forward in public.

        I can put his views out there for him since he's to afraid to do it.  White people are always evil, no matter what.  Research, facts, stats and whatnot are evil if they do not show that whites are evil and everyone else is innocemnt and perfect.

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          Zeitgeist
          last edited by

          @nancledra53:

          Why not just say Whites preferred?
          Personally I like White, Celtic, Nordic, Slav, Northern Mediterranean, Black of all shades, South East Asian, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Polynesian, Melanesian, Micronesian, Native Americans North and South, Latino, Inuit.
          I am not turned on by Middle Easterners, Southern Mediterranean, And Indian Sub-Continentals. I'm not sexually attracted to them.

          Does that make me racist?

          By the way, my partner for the last 19 years is Thai. Does that make me racist?

          Just don't put it in your profile. It saves you trouble. Straight people don't put that crap on their profile, simply because it's a really terrible thing to read. Why not use the character to talk about hobbies or non-race related things? I use my character to include things like "no pic no chat" or "Send Face pics please".

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          • raphjdR Offline
            raphjd Forum Administrator
            last edited by

            Just don't put it in your profile. It saves you trouble.

            Yeah, from the people who scream "racism" at the drop of a hat.

            Straight people don't put that crap on their profile, simply because it's a really terrible thing to read.

            Why is it a terrible thing to read, when it's shown that every race is pretty much exclusive to their own?

            Ok, yeah, I get it.  "Whites Only" is vile, while "[insert any race but white] only" is good.

            Why not use the character to talk about hobbies or non-race related things? I use my character to include things like "no pic no chat" or "Send Face pics please".

            But you are being an "ist" by stating your preferences.

            You are also guilty of being an "ist" because you won't chat without a photo.  YOU ARE GUILTY AND SHOULD KILL YOURSELF!!!  (sarcasm, btw).

            ++++

            Like I previously pointed out.  I'm a homophobe (in the leftist mindset) because I won't fuck a fat chick who claims to be "gender fluid" because sometimes she wears jeans.

            Being a "chubby chaser" makes you a wonderful person.  Not being a chubby chaser makes you evil.  It doesn't matter if you are gay or hetero, as long as you are male.  It's empowering for women to be selective, while it's fucking evil for men to be the same way.

            When I go looking for my next car, do i have to test drive everything there is so I'm not acused of being some sort of "ist"?    If I tell the sales person I'm not interested in "micro minis" and "city cars", does that make me a horrible person?    What about the fact that I love bright color cars because they can be seen better while driving?  Does that make me evil for not wanting colors that blend into the background?

            I want a car with a high safety rating.  Does that make me an evil "safety rating'IST"?!

            I hate beets and won't eat them.  Does that make me a beet'IST?!  When people ask me, should I lie and say I love beets so I'm not deemed a bad person?

            Where does the insanity end?

            AND AGAIN, why is it only bad when whites do it?!    And please try to make your white hating racist justifications without using the dictionary fallacy.

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              zebrapenis
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              Ah, the old "white people are the real victims" card. Cool, cool.

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              • raphjdR Offline
                raphjd Forum Administrator
                last edited by

                @zebrapenis:

                Ah, the old "white people are the real victims" card. Cool, cool.

                Do you mean like the "only white people can be racist" card?

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                  lambo360
                  last edited by

                  Yeah Just say Preferred : blank blank blank - but open to blank blank blank ..  :hug2:

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                  • DomosukeD Offline
                    Domosuke
                    last edited by

                    No it isn't.

                    You can say things like "Serious encounters only, In town for a short time. Do not contact me for sex." etc. Things like that. That's okay.

                    But saying things like "White guys only, must be good looking, no ugly men." etc. Is kinda petty and unnecessary.

                    If someone you don't like contacts you, block and ignore them and don't pursue anything with them.

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                      monty
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                      Whites Only is a sign one would in Jim Crow southern US back in the 1960's.  It is OK to have a preference.  Everyone likes what they like, but you can preface it in a way that does not come across being racist.  At the very least, just say that you prefer white guys or guys with x y z characteristics.    Saying things like no asians, no blacks, no Indians, etc just reeks of racism.  I truly do not know how anyone could not find the statement "no rice" offensive.

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                        chastorru
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                        Honestly, it's not ok.

                        If you're generally more into a certain thing, that's fine. But excluding entire races pre-emptively says a lot about your openness to other people. It doesn't just say that you're more into the other people. It says that you can't even fathom being attracted to a person of a different race. And that's weird. I wouldn't want to date anyone that had a statement like that in their profile.

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                          efebus98
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                          I don´t see why not. People have preferences, it´s about the same as posting "Asians only" or "Blacks only".

                          I mean, no need to be an asshole, but you can´t force people to like everyone, and it helps to avoid disappointing people.

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