I mean, no need to be an asshole, but you can´t force people to like everyone, and it helps to avoid disappointing people.

If you're generally more into a certain thing, that's fine. But excluding entire races pre-emptively says a lot about your openness to other people. It doesn't just say that you're more into the other people. It says that you can't even fathom being attracted to a person of a different race. And that's weird. I wouldn't want to date anyone that had a statement like that in their profile.

You can say things like "Serious encounters only, In town for a short time. Do not contact me for sex." etc. Things like that. That's okay.

But saying things like "White guys only, must be good looking, no ugly men." etc. Is kinda petty and unnecessary.

If someone you don't like contacts you, block and ignore them and don't pursue anything with them.

Ah, the old "white people are the real victims" card. Cool, cool.

Do you mean like the "only white people can be racist" card?

Just don't put it in your profile. It saves you trouble.

Yeah, from the people who scream "racism" at the drop of a hat.

Straight people don't put that crap on their profile, simply because it's a really terrible thing to read.

Why is it a terrible thing to read, when it's shown that every race is pretty much exclusive to their own?

Ok, yeah, I get it.  "Whites Only" is vile, while "[insert any race but white] only" is good.

Why not use the character to talk about hobbies or non-race related things? I use my character to include things like "no pic no chat" or "Send Face pics please".

But you are being an "ist" by stating your preferences.

You are also guilty of being an "ist" because you won't chat without a photo.  YOU ARE GUILTY AND SHOULD KILL YOURSELF!!!  (sarcasm, btw).

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Like I previously pointed out.  I'm a homophobe (in the leftist mindset) because I won't fuck a fat chick who claims to be "gender fluid" because sometimes she wears jeans.

Being a "chubby chaser" makes you a wonderful person.  Not being a chubby chaser makes you evil.  It doesn't matter if you are gay or hetero, as long as you are male.  It's empowering for women to be selective, while it's fucking evil for men to be the same way.

When I go looking for my next car, do i have to test drive everything there is so I'm not acused of being some sort of "ist"?    If I tell the sales person I'm not interested in "micro minis" and "city cars", does that make me a horrible person?    What about the fact that I love bright color cars because they can be seen better while driving?  Does that make me evil for not wanting colors that blend into the background?

I want a car with a high safety rating.  Does that make me an evil "safety rating'IST"?!

I hate beets and won't eat them.  Does that make me a beet'IST?!  When people ask me, should I lie and say I love beets so I'm not deemed a bad person?

Where does the insanity end?

AND AGAIN, why is it only bad when whites do it?!    And please try to make your white hating racist justifications without using the dictionary fallacy.

Why not just say Whites preferred?
Personally I like White, Celtic, Nordic, Slav, Northern Mediterranean, Black of all shades, South East Asian, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Polynesian, Melanesian, Micronesian, Native Americans North and South, Latino, Inuit.
I am not turned on by Middle Easterners, Southern Mediterranean, And Indian Sub-Continentals. I'm not sexually attracted to them.

Does that make me racist?

By the way, my partner for the last 19 years is Thai. Does that make me racist?

Just don't put it in your profile. It saves you trouble. Straight people don't put that crap on their profile, simply because it's a really terrible thing to read. Why not use the character to talk about hobbies or non-race related things? I use my character to include things like "no pic no chat" or "Send Face pics please".

It's amazing that saying that the most common races (this excludes "native" races because they are small groups) is equally "guilty" of not dating outside their race, is somehow white supremacy because it's not demonizing whites while ignoring or praising other races for being the same as whites.

He's butch enough to whine behind the scenes, but doesn't have the courage of his convictions to to put his stance forward in public.

I can put his views out there for him since he's to afraid to do it.  White people are always evil, no matter what.  Research, facts, stats and whatnot are evil if they do not show that whites are evil and everyone else is innocemnt and perfect.

Does that make me racist?

By the way, my partner for the last 19 years is Thai. Does that make me racist?

According to the Atlantic Black Star, 89% of black people don't have romantic relationships outside thier own race.    When blacks do have romantic relationships outside their own race, it's mostly black men and white women.

PEW also says that Asian men are less likely to have romantic relationships outside their own race/national origin than Asian women.

Basically, (excluding native groups who are pretty exclusive to their own race/group) people have romantic relationships outside their own race about the same amounts.

This topic reminds me of Riley Dennis on YouTube who claims that if a lesbian won't suck his lesbian cock, then she's transphobe.  He said the same thing about people like me who find the idea of eating a guy's vag beyond gross.  He called it "genitalism" and transphobia.

Similarly, it reminds me of the woman (former student union president) who claimed it was homophbic of people like me who won't fuck her because she's gender fluid and sometimes male, because she wears jeans.

Everyone has their own preferences, but I think using the term "whites only" does come across a little racist.  Maybe use the phrase "prefer men of caucasian descent" instead.

Or just… don't put it in your profile? To me, putting "WHITES ONLY" or "sticky rice" or "no fats no femmes" is the equivalent of going into a gay bar and then yelling at everybody, before they had a chance to approach you, that "ONLY WHITE PEOPLE APPROACH ME". If you yelled that unprompted in real life, guys would look at you weirdly and think that you're a racist/bigot. Same applies to Grindr.

If a guy who isn't your type approaches you, just turn them down nicely by saying "not my type", as you would at a bar or club. There's no need to emblazon your profile with unnecessary words. Those words may not only seem offensive but would also make you seem like an asshole who is feeling the need to announce things.

How is it "racist" to show that blacks are not victimized in modern times?

I have a feeling that it's more of the same old identity politics where whites are demonized and racism toward whites is justified and when other races do it toward whites, the definition of racism is changed so only whites can be labeled as racists.

@raphjd:

So the jist of the replies is, have your preference, but don't say it because that would racist.

I'm wondering if the same people would say the same thing if a black guy said: "black only".

I wouldn't because I would think of a history of repression and violence there and think that a black gay person might feel safer with another black guy and there isn't history of black men oppressing white men. I don't think the same applies to white men, just like the same things don't apply to straight people as they do gay people. I don't know if I'm explaining it well. I would think it was a shame that the black guy was limiting himself, just like a would the white gay guy.

However I'm just now remembering that there are in fact other races! So thinking a step further I would think that was shitty too. Maybe not as shitty (I'm not black so I would not pretend I would automatically know all the reasons for him saying "black only") but still kinda shitty towards asians etc.

What about white farmers in Africa?

What about Korean shop owners across the US?

I've been mugged twice, by black guys.

Looking at statistics,  blacks really aren't the victims.

But most people are used to being racist without realizing it. So… you can choose that point of view as well.  :crazy2:

So the jist of the replies is, have your preference, but don't say it because that would racist.

I'm wondering if the same people would say the same thing if a black guy said: "black only".

I wouldn't because I would think of a history of repression and violence there and think that a black gay person might feel safer with another black guy and there isn't history of black men oppressing white men. I don't think the same applies to white men, just like the same things don't apply to straight people as they do gay people. I don't know if I'm explaining it well. I would think it was a shame that the black guy was limiting himself, just like a would the white gay guy.

However I'm just now remembering that there are in fact other races! So thinking a step further I would think that was shitty too. Maybe not as shitty (I'm not black so I would not pretend I would automatically know all the reasons for him saying "black only") but still kinda shitty towards asians etc.

I'm wondering if the same people would say the same thing if a black guy said: "black only".

Also, what I waste of characters on your profile. Better to write what you actually want instead of what you don't.

But to keep from being labeled a fanatical racist just say prefer whites.  Not "whites only". That way you come off as just a little racist not full blown Hitleresk.
Plenty of ads have blacks preferred, Asians preferred. Athletic preferred.
I did it and put six pack required. I didn't want some little hungry thing messing with me and not into chubs or people who look like they eat at a fast food restaurant 24/7.

So, to each his own.