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    Adopting last name?

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    • L Offline
      lf4317
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      Adopting the last name is old fashioned and sexist, in our opinion.

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        jonnbristow
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        I think it's romantic… if both decide to do it.

        I like the idea of creating a bond, but it also could look like an attempt of ownership of the other person's identity...

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          kenjysn1
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          the new age law don’t allow change the family name here. bcos the government think wife adopted husband name is not fair to woman.

          and same sexual marriage is never available here. even if it’s available I think the new age law still effect to same sexual marriage

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            vaylon 0
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            @revden:

            My partner and I have been together for 30yrs. We only now have started talking marriage, I guess because we are older and don't want or need family drama in the event something happens to one of us.
            We have talked about name changes and we are trying to incorperate both because he is the last of his line and I'm a junior so we want to honor both names. We will figure it out. everyone needs to do what's rite for them.

            32 years here and we are in the same boat.
            Talking about it but not sure what to do with the names at this point. Seem to be leaning towards a new last name.

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              eladuk
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              Its sad to say that my surname is the only thing that is even remotely posh about me in anyway, I'm common as muck really, apart from my name that is, and so I'm bloody well keeping it  ;D

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                bejer3my
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                Nah… Too tired to change names on current ID's and documents.

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