Are you attracted to transgender people?

monty

Attraction happens in the brain for me. I could see myself being attracted to a transgender person if the spark was there.

zeropolis79

@pjbf1979:

As a transperson, I'd like to weigh in on your wording here. I know there's no tone on the internet, so let me clarify that I'm not trying to be a dick; quite the opposite.

As a MtF, most likely your friend's pronoun is feminine. Regardless, using him/her (and likewise he/she) is offensive, even if unintentionally so (I've known people who thought they were being inclusive with the term). It may not offend your friend (I certainly can't speak for them) but it may, and they just don't know how to say that they're offended or hurt (I have this situation with some lifelong friends).

If you're unsure which pronoun to use (not just with your friend but anyone in general), defaulting to the neutral they/them is a safe bet.

I don't mean to be offensive and I apologise. I''m unsure what pronoun to use..

gaypraha2

don't mean to be offensive and I apologise.

Don't apologies! pro gender, feminist, radical LGBT are just bullies and take any excuse to make a scene out of nothing. for instance I'll stick to a "mailMan" and **** mailperson and such. If they are too sensitive that's their problem. see you try to be gentle and nice by saying " he/she" but nooo that's not good enough..

pjbf1979

@gaypraha2:

don't mean to be offensive and I apologise.

Don't apologies! pro gender, feminist, radical LGBT are just bullies and take any excuse to make a scene out of nothing. for instance I'll stick to a "mailMan" and **** mailperson and such. If they are too sensitive that's their problem. see you try to be gentle and nice by saying " he/she" but nooo that's not good enough..

I'm hardly a bully. If I were I would've been a dick in my comments instead of explaining that it's offensive and offering a suggestion or two. I wasn't rude, I wasn't nasty (more than can be said your you, bitch). I indicated that I knew it was likely unintentional. Referring a person as he/she is rude. idgaf about 'mailman' and 'fireman' etc. That's apples and oranges.

But since pronouns are irrelevant to you, I'll just refer to you as female. You're sure as fuck acting like one. And if you're going to call someone a bully, little girl, make sure YOU'RE not acting like one

pjbf1979

@zeropolis79:

I don't mean to be offensive and I apologise. I''m unsure what pronoun to use..

I understand. I figured it wasn't intentional. Best bet is to ask them which pronouns they prefer. And, generally speaking, when you don't know (because you'll probably encounter a similar scenario at some point), just go with they as a pronoun. Fuck anyone who tells you "they" as singular is incorrect. We've been using it for ages that way.

gaypraha2

You're sure as fuck acting like one

see my point here lol.. end of discussion for me :cheesy2:

yababylol

Yes; I've actually hooked up with a FTM transgendered guy before, and the sex was pretty hot. Then again, vaginas aren't repulsive to me in the first place.

I've never hooked up with a MTF, with a dick or without, but I've definitely jerked off to some very pretty-looking transgendered women in porn that's made for so called "straight" men. I'd fuck some of those performers with glee.

I've officially moved on from caring about equipment and chromosome-assigned sex; if I find you attractive, I just need to know how we're gonna fit together and exchange the lovely fluids, lol. :hug2:

spam17

@yababylol:

Yes; I've actually hooked up with a FTM transgendered guy before, and the sex was pretty hot. Then again, vaginas aren't repulsive to me in the first place.

I've never hooked up with a MTF, with a dick or without, but I've definitely jerked off to some very pretty-looking transgendered women in porn that's made for so called "straight" men. I'd fuck some of those performers with glee.

I've officially moved on from caring about equipment and chromosome-assigned sex; if I find you attractive, I just need to know how we're gonna fit together and exchange the lovely fluids, lol. :hug2:

Interesting..

wesleyrayne

@Minerboh80:

Yeah, if the chemistry and the cerebral attraction was perfect then i could easily fall for a transgender!

thats how i feel too, essentially

yinjustin

Yes, but only those who look like dudes at all. A masc face with a lady part down there kinda a turnon to me. Am i 100% gay or boarding on bi?

KaiX

Not really. . . .I like men for a reason. Because they're men lol. Never been with a FTM but I wonder how that would work since I'm a bottom and I don't really understand how the FTM penis works?

Nivalwolf

@yababylol:

Yes; I've actually hooked up with a FTM transgendered guy before, and the sex was pretty hot. Then again, vaginas aren't repulsive to me in the first place.

I've never hooked up with a MTF, with a dick or without, but I've definitely jerked off to some very pretty-looking transgendered women in porn that's made for so called "straight" men. I'd fuck some of those performers with glee.

I've officially moved on from caring about equipment and chromosome-assigned sex; if I find you attractive, I just need to know how we're gonna fit together and exchange the lovely fluids, lol. :hug2:

I'm glad people with open minds like you exist.

Nagamaki

I like girly, flaming, camp guys. Even though I'm gay I'm not massively into cock and not grossed out by a vag, I'm wayyyy into buttholes >____<. I could definitely be with a transguy if he was supercute and had a nice butt but they would probably be aiming to be more masc and if they took lots of testosterone and became a beardy beefcake I'd be happy for them they have the body they want but i'd lose sexual attraction.

Igrouve

Yeah sure why not? I don't really care about the down-down.

tempbo

I've been with a transman and I would again if I weren't in a relationship. It was great - I mean, what's not to like? On the other hand, I admire trans women but I don't find them attractive very often.

krish1

Not sexually attracted. Then again I'm not really attracted to younger men either and haven't felt anything for women (I'm talking only about the sexual attraction)

Natakote

Not really to be honest.

antstorm

absolutely , i actually don't care if someone is bi hetero homo trans or intersex.

i had my first sexual experience at the age of 14 with a girl
my first guy was 15

i "came out" at the age of 17 but it didnt feel right
later in life i came out as bi , still didnt feel right
i was in a same sex relationship with a guy for 11 yrs , but it would make me very alarmed when people would assume that i way gay
so i used to say im nothing
at the age of 30 i met an amazing woman who had transitioned and she explained to me the concept of being pan
it was like FINALLY , i belong , of course i lost a lot of gay friends , im not sure why gays are threatened a lot more than straights , actually it seems to be common in some monosexuals to feel threat when it comes to bisexuality and pansexuality personally

but i am finally content , you don't need a label , but its nice to know there are others like you , that have the same ethic
that it does not matter what someone's gender is , if they are willing to treat you with dignity and respect , you can love them fall in love with them and not see the junk in the trunk as the be all and end all

but different strokes for different folks i suppose .

jolarti

I am a transman and have been sexually/relationally been involved with plenty of gay men. NONE of them have ever turned me down simply for being trans. All of them always tell me: "i am attracted to masculinity and apparently that lies in the major part of how a body moves or is sort of taking space and how your voice sounds and your nice amount of body hair"

i'd say that a small part of the body such as my vagina, is small enough not be a turnoff to gay men and to those who haven't thought about this yet.
I'm glad i myself am superqueer/bi though, so i don't have to worry about these petty things
So yes, as a transman i can also be attracted to both transmen as well as transwomen.

Nice question!

agogpry

I like masculine guys