Sex!!! Condom or bareback?

[nagysanci]

I cannot imagine and understand how and why is it better bareback. I have a constant relationship and we never cheat on each other (without the other being there - I mean through a three- or foursome), but we have always used condoms for analsex for higienic reasons. The idea of not using a condom for analsex simply distracts me. Am I higienomaniac?

[leatherbear]

2 Words for you : SHOWER SHOT!!!

My boi's hole is super clean b4 we engage!!!

[nagysanci]

I know. We also use shower shot and ours is also super clean, but I still have in mind that it is the place where feces comes from, so I insist on condoms even with my steady partner. We tried barebacks, too, but we did not feel the difference.

[kenndylo]

bareback, and only bareback…
only with my bf ;3

Kinda offtopic Q:
For the bb couples...
What do the bottom do when you guys are done???
Having all the /cough/ all shot up the butt...,
i always find myself having the need/urge to 'purge' it out
Without getting it all over the bedsheets
(body feels awkward with..... if i try to keep it in)

Just wondering if i am the only one that does this?? ;\

[leatherbear]

I never come in my boys ass but rather on him!! However, I can imagine that leakage would be a problem :funny2: and would think that a"PURGE" of some sort would be required indeed!!!

[garjr71]

can somebody enlighten me on shower shot?
and no I haven't had anal yet (I actually had once, but it was too short to count)
cuddling and oral yes, but just once

~rR

[leatherbear]

Connects to shower ~ Used for deep enemas!!!

[whateva]

Condoms all the way until you go steady and get tested.

[kingcub]

Sex (I'm a Top) is always with condom.
Only exception when I'm in a stable relationship.

[MrMazda]

@kingcub:

Sex (I'm a Top) is always with condom.
Only exception when I'm in a stable relationship.

A wise practice. Never let your guard down with just anyone. I unfortunately had to learn that the hard way. Unless my partner becomes HIV+ (hoping he doesn't, but condoms do break), the rule is no love without a glove. Although I have to live the nightmare, I certainly wouldn't want to make anyone else have to deal with a mental ordeal, on top of a whopping $1533.53 CDN/mo just for the drugs needed to live, much less the ones to deal with their side effects as well.

[kingcub]

@MrMazda:

@kingcub:

Sex (I'm a Top) is always with condom.
Only exception when I'm in a stable relationship.

A wise practice. Never let your guard down with just anyone. I unfortunately had to learn that the hard way. Unless my partner becomes HIV+ (hoping he doesn't, but condoms do break), the rule is no love without a glove. Although I have to live the nightmare, I certainly wouldn't want to make anyone else have to deal with a mental ordeal, on top of a whopping $1533.53 CDN/mo just for the drugs needed to live, much less the ones to deal with their side effects as well.

Thanks, MrMazda.
I also do tend to use these sensitive condoms.
They're thin and strong in the right measures.

[mikyu]

always with condoms  :hug2:

[CableguyLive]

I always use a condom when fucking.  HIV is no joke and there's so many other thing you can get.  Now, if you and your lover are tested and not just one test but tested for years because AIDS hides and may not show up for up to 3 years on some tests, depending on the test used and your body.  It's not safe if you are both sexually active and have had unprotected sex in the last 3 years.  Sorry guys. Fucking can kill you if your not careful.  I hope this is not news to you.  Yes condoms are a pain and yes the feeling is not the same but death is final and being sick for years is not fun.  HIV is a long-term  sickness and it takes years to kill you and I've seen it and it's not fun.  Be informed and read up or you could be another statistic. I don't like using condoms and if AID didn't excise I wouldn't use one but that's for you to decide.

[Bottom1979]

@nagysanci:

I know. We also use shower shot and ours is also super clean, but I still have in mind that it is the place where feces comes from, so I insist on condoms even with my steady partner. We tried barebacks, too, but we did not feel the difference.

Just curious but do you rim your partner?

[pacifico]

Never had anal sex until now.

But a lot of times I wondered myself: what if with a condom you lose all the touch of your partner while having sex?  

Now I'm skeptic: condom or not condom???  ???

[MrMazda]

While it is true that a condom does take away from the sensation of the sex, again I must remind you that there's more than just the physical feeling. You need to be sure that the person you're doing it with is safe to do it with before walking into a bareback situation. If you're not careful, you can end up with quite the problem in the end. It's more than just living with something like HIV, it's also the side effects, the medication costs, and a boat load of other medical issues like co-infection that you have to begin to be more concerned about. Then again, you'd be surprised at what a person can make themselves do when their life depends on it.

[notquiteme]

safety first hehehe

[kojote]

If your safe..I'm in bare!!!

[Takato]

If I trust you and you're clean, bareback. If I don't trust you, no sex. If I'm unsure or you're pos, condom.

[richardg8092]

Wow.
"If I trust you and you're clean, bareback."    :afr:
Sorry, but this strikes me as crazy talk.  :crazy2:

What criteria do you use to decide that you can "trust" some-one ?
What criteria do you use to determine that some-one is "clean"?

Do you ask to see the most recent HIV test?  (Plus photo ID?)
Do you just trust some-one when they say "I always have protected sex - BUT for you I'll make a special exception…."

Safe sex is wild, hot, horny, uninhibited, gritty, dirty sex. It's Sex with gay abandon.  :cheesy2:
And unsafe sex? For me it's the Big Turn-Off. I just can't do sex and be constantly worrying "Is this the time…..?"  :blink:

For me, I don't care if your HIV+ or not......just roll on that condom and Fuck Me Hard!  :cheers:
(And sorry, but I find the term "clean" kind of offensive. If we've gotta use anything, let's use HIV- please.)