Sex!!! Condom or bareback?
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Seriously, I live in Greece, and people here can be soooooo weird on that subject. Boys are like, without a condom it is better, and whenever I hear it I am like, seriously? And not only that, but they think only HIV is the most serious case, for they think the rest can be healed easy so no big deal. And I heard guys be like, U cannot be infected just from licking an infected vagina, and I was freaking out! Or another time I heard a something like, he looks healthy so I can have unprotected sex with him. But really now, it is better to have protected sex first for, u are about 98% sure that nothings gonna happen, so u are more relaxed to enjoy the sex, and second (that goes to straight people) u are sure u will not have a pregnant lady. It is that simple for me…
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Boys are like, without a condom it is better, and whenever I hear it I am like, seriously?
Actually, I can understand that rational. This is often more so the case with the top instead of the bottom. It has to do with the slight change in the sensation of the friction when using a condom. Some people obviously are more sensitive to such things than others, but I do understand this one.
And not only that, but they think only HIV is the most serious case, for they think the rest can be healed easy so no big deal.
This thought is partially correct, but not completely actually. Despite popular belief, Hepatitis C is actually almost impossible to get from sexual intercourse alone. Aside from that, the other options to choose from do indeed all have a form of treatment available. What they do not realize is that in reality, the treatments for say Syphilis for example are not always effective on the first attempt. Granted, the success rate is something like 98%, but it's still not a guarantee. If untreated or if treated too late, Syphilis can cause multiple organ failure, insanity, or death. Realistically speaking, as long as you keep on top of testing and tend to such things quickly enough, the other alternatives can actually be dealt with. With HIV on the other hand, there is no cure, so once you have it, you'd better be prepared for a life long commitment that can potentially kill you. This doesn't mean that it's a great approach to have, but the reality of the matter is if you're taking proper care of getting tested regularly and following up, other STI's are minor by comparison.
And I heard guys be like, U cannot be infected just from licking an infected vagina, and I was freaking out!
Ummm… Sorry to burst your bubble, but the statistics from at least the last decade all show that there has been not one case of HIV transmission where the sole point of sexual contact has been oral sex. The only advisory to this would be if you involve a female partner during their menstruation cycle, thus causing the presence of large amounts of blood. This is partially because there is actually an enzyme found within saliva that has a natural ability to neutralize the HIV virus itself. The other basis is that while there is technically no scientific evidence that HIV is found within anal, vaginal, or ejaculative fluids, by the same token, there is no evidence that proves that it is not present either. There is however a great deal of scientific studies over the last 10 - 15 years now however that have all noticed a pattern of 0 cases of transmission from oral sex alone. Based on the scientific information and statistical data that does exist however, is it really all that crazy of a statement to make? Just sayin'...
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I am not talking only over HIV, I meant other illnesses as well. Like herpes or other diseases as well. They believe the only thing that is serious is HIV. But maybe I am not as good at explaining these things in a foreign language.
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haha :cheers:
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Like herpes or other diseases as well.
Although not exactly desirable, Herpes doesn't have anywhere near the amount of complications and potential dangers that come with HIV. That being said though, I'd take HIV over Herpes any day of the week lol
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In a long term relationship bareback otherwise I always use a condom
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Condoms always!
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I almost exclusively fuck bare. Never caught an STD. But I only have sex with people I trust and don't hang out in darkrooms or clubs in general very often.
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Condoms and very rarely bareback….not for anything else, I like the feel of condom in my dick
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always safe but dream is bare
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never bareback , not once , not even when i was munted on eccies during my 89-93 rave years
my ex partner of 11 yrs was HIV+ and he used to have anxiety attacks about making me positive , i recently trialled out the PreP clinical studies in Melbourne ( its still officially not legal here in Australia) but found out that truvada affects my medication for my graves disease and i ended up with a severe allergic reaction and was hospitalised , so for me if a guy doesnt state "always" in his safe sex profile, move on
its their body and they can do what they want , but my body is mine. -
Bareback if I am in a relationship, condom if I am not
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Well I always prefer bareback
sometimes condom would feel just okay
but when im getting fucekd, especially sometimes condom would feel just so awful, that skin contact and idea of having someone else's cum inside me is just fucking horny.now people have prep and getting more aware of those preventions and what not so
I've enjoyed bareback both private and public , sauna, sex clubs, still healthy so.go for bb if you can, it simply feels amazing
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I always have used condoms even when I've had sex with women (I'm bisexual).
I know way too many people who either became HIV+ (even from a cheating partner who they thought they were monogamous with), or got another common yet preventable STD from a hook up FWB/FB or someone they were dating, or they did it bareback and said how the anxiety and stress over wondering if they were HIV+ before they got tested made them basically shut down completely.
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for bb its psychological and the dirty talk, no real difference between bb and condoms
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always safe sex with condom
if no comdom = no sex
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BB exclusively. Love the feeling of a raw dick! But the STD risk sucks. Religiously test every 3 months after two naughty exposures.
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sex safe
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bare
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bb only in a relationship.With condom afterall
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