Do Communities of Color Oppose Same-Sex Marriage?

fancydude

When you say "leeway" is this where the USA can decide to not recognize the marriage of a 12 year old from another country? Plus, I thought countries ignored each others treaties all the time when they feel like it anyway! I have read many many complaints about NAFTA, for one example. Human rights would be another big area of concern with places like the former Soviet Union & China etc…...Arab countries too.

raphjd

YES, there is leeway in what "marriage" is under treaties and international law. There are no treaties or international law that deal with civil unions, not even within the EU.

Ignoring treaties is a whole different issue. There are things that can be done, such as sue in international courts or go to war or ignore it or whatever.

Many treaties are never signed by various countries. Human rights treaties were/are rarely, if ever, signed by communist countries or countries ruled by dictators. This means that unless they are doing things like genocide, there is very little that can be done under international law. An example is that the US under GWB never signed the World Court treaty for fear that Americans {mainly the GWB administration} would be tried for war crimes. Nor did the US sign the Kyoto Agreement {climate change treaty}.

fancydude

Wow, that is a surprise that civil unions are not mentioned in the EU.

Now, saying things CAN be done for treaty violations and what IS done are two very different things. I heard complaints here all the time, living in the midwest, about the Auto industry, logging industry etc. what violations Canada was doing, undercutting us in prices, violating the treaty etc.

Now remember, there are policies based on laws for every single thing I'm mentioning below:

As you may know, I work in a human service job and the things our clients get away with is truly mind boggling. I probably write up more fraud referrals than anyone (what I'm saying here is if no one gets around to writing them, NOTHING is done except possibly on a rare random audit) and even then the system is set up to "fail." For example if a woman EVER put the husband/boyfriends name on the application, (an annual thing) and he turns out to be in the home later, the judges will say "it is the worker's job to determine eligibility, she put him on the application once and if there is a discrepancy (nice word for possible lie) then the worker should clarify it." MY opinion is she signed applications annually after that one time; attesting to the truth of what she filled out and didn't put his name down. She should repay every penny she got. And even that is only money we catch him at, working a legit job. If he worked under the table, then there is no overissuance. (what I mean here is that if he didn't earn any budgetable income, then she didn't get any overpayments. The lie alone means nothing, unfortunately) Plus the welfare office policy conveniently ignores the fact that if he was reported in the home, they would have made him go to a work program where he might have found a job (or at least been motivated to find his own instead of participating) AND we wouldn't have paid a baby sitter for her. Keep in mind though, publications and press releases tell the public that we are diligent about fraud and oh how strict the rules are when I promise you they are not.

I'm not suggesting you're unaware that official policies of any kind don't always jive with actual practice, but I bet you had no idea our welfare system was so disingenous. I mean, again, my opinion - it is one thing to give the benefit of the doubt, to safeguard children or whatever, but so much of it is just plain wrong and the opposite of what the public thinks. How about this - woman has child, never marries the father. Refuses to cooperate with child support, no paternity is established. She STILL gets insurance and food money for the child and I actually had one today - the man EARNS $50,000 US DOLLARS annually, but because there is no legal relationship, he can't be made to be part of the case. To be fair, this is not by any means the majority of cases, but if we claim we value family etc. we should not reward illegitimacy. Correct?

raphjd

Within the EU, there are individual national laws on civil unions/partnerships, but there is no EU treaty or EU wide law on it.

While in certain things there can be leeway between written policy and actual practice, in most others there can not be.

If a country does not accept a civil union, then the couple can not immigrate to another country under such a visa. They will need to find another type of visa or not move, separate or whatever.

Before the UK had civil partnerships, partners were not guaranteed to be able to visit their partner in the hospital. State hospitals {NHS} treated gay couples as not family, while private hospitals were much friendlier to gays. In 2002, I was supposed to have sinus surgery in an NHS hospital and on the admission form they clearly said that all non family visitation was not allowed for short term in-patients. Thankfully, my surgery was pushed to a private hospital due to scheduling conflicts at the NHS hospital, meaning that my partner could visit me the whole time.

Apollopaul

@raphjd:

I'm tempted to keep a small card in my wallet identifying my boyfriend as having visiting rights, if ever.

That will have ZERO effect if the law doesn't allow non family visitation.

I just outright lie when it comes that, I always state I'm Family, and I have never been asked for ID to confirm that I am Family

Apollopaul

@fancydude:

Now, saying things CAN be done for treaty violations and what IS done are two very different things. I heard complaints here all the time, living in the midwest, about the Auto industry, logging industry etc. what violations Canada was doing, undercutting us in prices, violating the treaty etc.

:ot:
I know I am most likely to get flagged for off Topic, BUT,

Canada's violations of NAFTA, EXCUSE ME, but USA is the country that does whatever it wants, over the isssue of logging, the USA took Canada to World Court 8 times (on softwood lumber issue alone), and CANADA won each time, but that didn't matter, USA kept up their complaining and finally got an ally in Prime Minster Harper and we now pay USA on the issue of softwood lumber, even though CANADA was in the right every single time (not our fault our environmental laws are tougher than USA), and as a part of NAFTA neither one of our countries is suppose to subsidize farming, I see reports all the time though stating the USA is doing just that, while their CDN counterparts can only get bailouts if their crops are destroyed, and its amazing how certain things are 1 thing in CANADA, and something different in the USA.

IN Canada we had MAD COW DISEASE, IN USA its was known as downer syndrome
IN CANADA it was called SARS, in the USA it was known as severe pneumonia

BTW your perceived undercutting in prices, is based on two major factors: 1) CDN dollar is usually worth less than the USD (has been changing drastically recently) 2) that CDNS pay for a basic healthcare system thru our tax dollars, hence the corporations don't have to spend an arm and a leg on providing health benefits. THE USA is the only country out of the 35 most industrialized countries in the world where the individual citizens have to get private insurance for healthcare or pay for it out of pocket. (if you doubt me watch SICKO a documentary by Michael Moore about American healthcare

In Ontario, Canada if you break your leg, you go to the hospital, they take x-rays, put a cast on your leg, and they will set you up with crutches. Now if your your wondering what you are going to pay for this hospital visit, well let's see. u r responsible for getting to the hospital whether it was taxi, ambulance, or transit, and you have pay for the crutches. (ambulance ride $50.00, crutches $50.00)

IN USA, uhm, yeah, a broken leg is what like $6,000

raphjd

YES, you did very off topic.

IN Canada we had MAD COW DISEASE, IN USA its was known as downer syndrome
IN CANADA it was called SARS, in the USA it was known as severe pneumonia

Down Syndrome in the US is not related to mad cow disease and never has been. The US also had SARS.

Down Syndrome and "mad cow" have some similar symptoms, maybe that's what you are thinking.

Google "sars in the us" and the first 3 links will be to the US's Center of Disease Control or CDC and it talks about SARS.

fancydude

Apollopaul - I said that I HEAR about such things. While it is fine for you to point out the other side, I was illustrating my point with an example, not writing a thesis about NAFTA violations. You are correct, the USA is the guilty party far more than Canada in that relationship, but you dont' have to be so hostile. What I said did not need to be rebutted, since it was just an example about a much broader issue…..thanks

MrMazda

@fancydude:

Apollopaul - I said that I HEAR about such things. While it is fine for you to point out the other side, I was illustrating my point with an example, not writing a thesis about NAFTA violations. You are correct, the USA is the guilty party far more than Canada in that relationship, but you dont' have to be so hostile. What I said did not need to be rebutted, since it was just an example about a much broader issue…..thanks

Don't mind him… He's just a little unmedicated... Or rather, hasn't been medicated enough. Not sure which

Apollopaul

@MrMazda:

@fancydude:

Apollopaul - I said that I HEAR about such things. While it is fine for you to point out the other side, I was illustrating my point with an example, not writing a thesis about NAFTA violations. You are correct, the USA is the guilty party far more than Canada in that relationship, but you dont' have to be so hostile. What I said did not need to be rebutted, since it was just an example about a much broader issue…..thanks

Don't mind him… He's just a little unmedicated... Or rather, hasn't been medicated enough. Not sure which

it has nothing to do with medication, smart guy, but a lack of a certain something, speaking of which I would really love to receive :bj2:

fancydude

Hey there AP - anytime you're crossing into Michigan, let me know, and I'll see I can help the wind blow in a more favorable erection, oops I mean direction…....

Apollopaul

@fancydude:

Hey there AP - anytime you're crossing into Michigan, let me know, and I'll see I can help the wind blow in a more favorable erection, oops I mean direction…....

Thanks FancyDUDE, Sorry for snapping earlier in the topic. (my bad).

fancydude

No problem ApolloPaul - it is a tense time - as they say in economic issues, when America catches a cold, Canada gets the flu. Well, America has the flu, it must be really tough over there. Thanks for being man enough to apologize.

notquiteme

kind of funny how it all ends up, isn't it?