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    How old were you when you came out?

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      tim23tam
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      late 30's and have not yet considered doing it. too stressful to think about.

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        camilamianda
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        I was 14! hard days

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          spam17
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          @alveer:

          not yet

          How old are you currently?

          ^-^

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            cteavin
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            In 1985 I came out in high school when I was about 15ish.

            I kept trying to change it till about 20, then I just accepted it coming out to everyone after.

            Oddly, my super religious Catholic family was super supportive but my Backwards Baptist other side rejected me utterly.

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              spam17
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              @cteavin:

              In 1985 I came out in high school when I was about 15ish.

              I kept trying to change it till about 20, then I just accepted it coming out to everyone after.

              Oddly, my super religious Catholic family was super supportive but my Backwards Baptist other side rejected me utterly.

              😎

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                bokomaroko
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                Coming out to my family (indirectly) at the age of 28. They knew.

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                  JohnAllenson
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                  It's a process - I came out to my best friend when I was 14 (1975), I came out to my family when I was 17 (1978), I've been functionally out to EVERYONE since I moved back to Canada in 1986 (I was 25).

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                    kenjysn1
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                    never in this life. It will put myself and business in danger. If i have afterlife and still love my brother I will try to come out

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                      gatoradeboy6
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                      to close friends in my early 20s and fully out by 30

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                        lucas9999
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                        It’s now about 10 years since I came out aged 18… never looked back!

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                          flozen
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                          If I added up the tines I "came out" – once in grade school at age 12, to several friends in high school, to roommates and study buddies in college, and in the working world -- it would be a multitude of years.

                          To me, it's not a single point on a lifeline, but I might just interpret "coming out" in a different fashion than most.

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                            JohnAllenson
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                            Same situation.

                            I regard myself as 'Out' now but it was a process:  coming out to myself, coming out to trusted friends, coming out to my family, being out in the workplace.

                            I think of myself as living out now but there are new people I meet who aren't informed yet.

                            I dislike the concept of the Glass Closet where celebrities aren't actually 'Out' until they make an announcement on the cover of a magazine.

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                              marcelo101
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                              21

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                                mertel
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                                i guess I waited the longest time 😉 i was 33  ;D

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                                  Zeitgeist
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                                  21, yup!

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