Do you feel disgusted after you masturbate to porn?

[instantfuck]

This is one of those topics, I think, in which today's answers are likely a radical departure from what they were back when I was an adolescent and jerking off constantly. And by constantly, I mean 4 to 12 times a day, often to the point of injury…I was probably 10 or so and the thought of lube hadn't occurred to me and after jerking off so much I would literally rub the skin of my dick RAW!  But that is a topic for another thread!

The point is that I was 10 in 1978 and even the height of the "Sexual Revolution" didn't much change the intense feelings of guilt and shame I would feel after cumming.  I never bought in to any of the anti-masturbatory myths employed by mothers, fathers, or the church.  Even then I had done enough reading on my solo trips to the library on the topic of masturbation and its normalcy.  What bothered me--and so many others--was that I was fantasizing about men while I was jerking.  Again, a topic for another discussion, but it was truly MEN and not other boys I was thinking about.  And--just as someone mentioned about eating his own jizz--just a split second after cumming, the thoughts of so-and-so's dad or (jackpot) my own dad and his man-size dick which made me cum immediately, now left me feeling really wrong, fucked up--and not because they were grown men or even the incestuous fantasy about my dad, just the whole "gay" idea.  I'd get dressed, swear NEVER to do it again, and of course be at it again an hour later!

I ended up continuing my own research through reading and was going to gay bars by the time I was 15 so it isn't a big surprise that by that age I was completely "ok" with the realization I was definitely gay.  Any angst caused by that would only be cause at the fear of my abusive father finding out and even that passed when by 16 I started fighting back, told him for spite I loved sucking dick and then moved out on my own.

Fast forward a few years...do the math..and these days (I'm now 48) I don't jerk off QUITE as much; maybe twice a day now, and of course after cumming there's no guilt or disgust afterward.  There is still that human biophysical response during what's called the sexual refractory period (all that reading paid off, huh?) which immediately follows orgasm but the only "effect" it has on me now is that I have GOT to stop the porn playing as quickly as I'm able to recover from the orgasm and the poppers and find the remote!  Not because it disgusts me or turns me off or anything like that though...nope...for the next 5, 10 or even 30 minutes, porn--and the faces and noises that go with it--just CRACK me up and will literally give me the giggles if I let it play!

I know, I know, I'm weird, but it's part of my charm!

[Natakote]

I never felt that, I just feel like I'm bored and don't know what to do.  ???

[frontlemon]

used to feel guilty when I started doing it at first and disgusted too;
but now I feel a lust free love for some time after cumming - if I think of someone while wanking, after I cum, I feel a kind of attraction not to the body but to the very presence of the person whom I was thinking of while wanking…

[MOSCOWMOUSE]

No not at all. I love the feeling of reeling with ecstacy after the orgasm and the calm feeling of completion. Pornography is a transaction. performers achieve this to stimulate the voyeur and the voyeur achieves and releases their pent up sexual angst. I find, and always have done, it to be the most liberating experience. No one should feel disgusted as there is no harm in thought but it depends on how you were brought up the only impairment that could cause disgust are the poor individuals that are shackled to the constraints of religion which, on the whole, is man made and has nothing to do with pornography. I feel sorry for anyone who does depending on a variety of reasons as they are missing out on an amazing experience which should always be guilt free.

[bob85]

Woah I never thought this thread would get so many replies…

Thanks everyone for your advice! I haven't felt disgusted lately after masturbating to porn since I've posted this topic. My feelings have simmered down every time I climax...I don't feel the same sense of disgust like I used to.  ;D

[LeValle]

I used to like and i have one. But now i dont loke anymore.

[funfire227]

I personally felt it too when I was younger.

As far as I know this is very common. It has a lot to do with your conception of sexuality in general (likely stemmed from the way the topic was handled by the parental figures in your life), but it also has to do with the society's general misconceptions about a "healthy/normal" way of perceiving/experiencing sex/masturbation. Thankfully those ideas are fading and new generations confront less prejudices.

[addic2porn]

Not at all… but only thing i may feel is that i have been wasting too much time

[FlopFlop]

It happens to me when I get too carried away and the kink too out of hand.

[Dene]

@jimy9992000:

It's rare for me, but I've seen memes about that feeling with numerous likes, and I think everyone feels that way at some point.

If it's some photo or video a naughty faraway friend did specially for me, that's always a good time, so that's what I prefer to jack off to. Just to be safe lol. Occasionally I feel guilty after watching porn I just found lying around the Internet, so I thought maybe I'm picking up on some bad vibes like a model who already regretted their decision but were going through with it anyway because they were really desperate for money, but I've felt bad after certain erotic stories too, so I don't fuckin' know lol.

My other best guesses are maybe I thought it was a waste of time or semen, or maybe like Wednesday when I popped a boner just a short time after I found out Debbie Reynolds passed away I felt inconsiderate.

http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/dear-gt/why-do-i-feel-intense-shame-and-self-hatred-when-i-masturbate

ME TOO!!! re : thinking about the actual porn star

If they are young twinks or a guy that looks like he has had it a bit rough - or some twink getting skewered and all in pain.. i cant get horny, I just automatically think "How did he get to a point in his life, so young, that he needed to go there" - who knows maybe he LOVES it but in my head its AARRGGHH lol - its a fleeting thing - not a 4 hour inner monologue or anything but enough to kill the buzz lol

[Dene]

@acakbenak:

I am in a long-distance long-term monogamous relationship, and my partner and I decided that it's better to masturbate to porn than having one night stands with strangers.

I don't feel disgusted afterwards; however, even when I thought "I'm so horny I will do it twice," after I finally cum, I immediately clean up.

The funny thing is, when I watch porn, I find that the actors don't matter to me anymore, but the audio. When I tried to watch it without sound, it took me way longer to cum. But when I just listen to the audio, not even watching it, I finish way quicker.

Maybe it's just me.

me too tbh - silent porn does little for me - unless its voyeur stuff but that is non sexual

[Ellis]

@FlopFlop:

It happens to me when I get too carried away and the kink too out of hand.

Same here–I can totally relate--and know exactly what you're talking about! :-X

[quocnamvl01]

I just wanna go to sleep after masturbate

[Oscarbingham]

Never, may be because  I am into average stuff

[Cumsucking]

• Some people who's religion taught them masturbation is sinful/bad/wrong use to feel disgusted after masturbation… so if your parents or people close to you taught you such things in your childhood, this might be just 1 reason why you feel disgusted or if you read something bad about masturbation and you believe in it that might also be a reason...

• You might try reading on the Internet WHY people feel disgusted after masturbation... you might also try questioning yourself when you start feeling disgusted by trying to become aware of what thoughts you're having when feeling disgusted (seeing your thoughts will show you what you believe in those moments)... so when you discover your thoughts that you're believing when feeling disgusted, you'll now be able to change those believes into the opposite ones (better feeling ones) by trying to see WHY the opposite ones (better feeling thoughts) are more true then those you currently believe in. So you'll have to find as much proofs as you can for why the opposite thoughts (better feeling ones) are more true then those you currently believe in that are causing you emotional harm.

• Also know that you can't make yourself believe into something you don't actually believe. For example, a person who really hates themselves will not be able to suddenly believe "I'm such a beautiful person, I really like myself, I'm so loveable", etc... BUT it will be able to feel something like "I really like blue color of my eyes" to be true and therefore this belief will make this person feel better about themselves.
  So you'll see which of the opposite thoughts and proofs (better feeling ones) feel like true to you and you'll be able to believe in them instead of those painful ones you currently believe in! This way you'll be able to feel good after masturbation instead of feeling bad.

• You can be writing all of those painful beliefs and opposite ones (better feeling ones) on the paper or in Microsoft Word if that will make it easier for you to handle them all.

Good luck  

[sockboy0]

I stopped reading responses after I saw you mention one comment nailed it on the head about childhood issues making you feel the way you do!  I have loved masturbating since i was even like 5yrs old rubbing my cock on the pillow and feeling shudders of Ecstasy without any real kind of cumming! I had a big cock,even when i was pre-teen and when I was 13 and had an orgasm with actual cum! It made it all the much better! The feeling was amazing and at no time did I ever feel dirty or hate myself! Because it felt so good,i used to do it 3 or 4 times a day! I love rubbing my cock through soft underwear or hump the mattress or pillow more so than using my hand!  I just love the feeling of getting off! I have a big 8.5 inch thick uncut cock and I love my foreskin and how much pre-cum I make! No lube needed and so much pleasure with the skin! Stimuli is important and thats why people use the internet and porn! Having grown up in the pre-internet days,we used to have buy skin mags to stimulate the visual aspect lol They often had sexy stories you could read and maybe use to help fantasize while you do what you do to get off! Personally I love sniffing a nice pair of sweaty skater,or athlete or gym socks from a hot guy! I have a big white sock and foot fetish,so the aroma therapy when getting off for me is to have my face and nose pressed into heavily scented sweaty worn socks,that really gets the old endorphin's going and can take you over the edge,to a spectacular and big orgasm that ends up with me shaking and laughing cause it feels so amazing!  NEVER FEEL BAD ABOUT FEELING GOOD!  Orgasms are amazing! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! It's as natural as taking a pee! Its a bodily function thats necessary,so it's not sinful! Its so personal too! Your the only who who should ever know you do it! It no one else`s business! It feels so fucking good doing it and then shooting a big horny load!  Personally I am a big exhibitionist,so I love one or more guys watching me strip down to my boner and doing what turns me on while they watch! My biggest orgasms have been from showing off and jerking off while other guys watch lol So go forth and try to move yourself beyond the feelings! Good luck and good orgasms!

[semurg30]

I come home to masturbate on my lunch hour every day. I hate my co-workers so it helps release my aggression.

[z3n1th]

I don't feel disgusted at all… why would anyone feel disgusted?

[Moonie]

LOL why would i feel disgusted? Let me guess… people who feel disgusted must belong to one of the Abrahamic religions.

[advogatobras]

well… it depends.

what kind of porn am I watching? LOL