LTR Surprise Ending
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Mentioned in…
“How old are you and your partner?” -
https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=30415.msg215561#msg215561“Oldest guy you've had sex with?” -
https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=35785.msg252459#msg252459My other SO said “Bye bye.”
The ABCs…
A relationship spanning close to a quarter of a century, and over a couple of decades, is one that I’d call “long-term”–as would most people.
A bit surprised at its ending, with no problems, and no signs indicating a possibility of such.
A move a couple of years ago turned the relationship into a long distance one as well--hours and hundreds of miles away, is a big difference from just a few minutes and miles away.
Being that we haven’t been together in over a year, and future prospects were up in the air, I can understand the desire and need for more--wanting to move on. Still, given that recent conversations were normal, it was a surprise.
Being shocked by the extent of it--terminating the friendship, severing all ties, telling me I was now “blocked.”
Being texted with it all was the final blow.
Concern when this all came about a couple of weeks ago, my emotions have been mixed.
Concern over my other SO will fade with time.
Concern is more with my relationship with Bobby--my "Live and Die Guy" - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=45569.0 (just as it should be).
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EEeeeee?
I don't fucking get it.
Maybe I shouldn't. -
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Wow, that really, really sucks.. "Blocked" and everything? I don't understand why people do that, it's weak.
Something similar happened to me a few months back. No real explanation given to me… Blocked. Had to go to the guys place to talk it out, give it some closure at least. He was at least courteous enough to let me in and have a talk, two times.
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Huuugs! He's not your main guy but it still hurts so huuugs to you!
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:cry2:
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Timely Delivery - Closing Words & Such
Before anything…
A thank you to all of you and the interest to have you read this–with a special thank you to those responding!
In addition to whatever else, without doubt, there is a bit of irony here.
A brief explanation came with the card I received from him yesterday. Apologizing, saying he had to "move on"–it also mentioned the return of some things and a package was on its way to me.
The photo shown in the image below was one of the items in the package. The package came about an hour ago--ironically, yet somehow fitting with it all--the gift arriving today…today being my birthday.
Oh well. ???
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