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“How old are you and your partner?” -
https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=30415.msg215561#msg215561

“Oldest guy you've had sex with?” -
https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=35785.msg252459#msg252459

My other SO said “Bye bye.”

The ABCs…

A relationship spanning close to a quarter of a century, and over a couple of decades, is one that I’d call “long-term”–as would most people.

A bit surprised at its ending, with no problems, and no signs indicating a possibility of such.

A move a couple of years ago turned the relationship into a long distance one as well--hours and hundreds of miles away, is a big difference from just a few minutes and miles away.

Being that we haven’t been together in over a year, and future prospects were up in the air, I can understand the desire and need for more--wanting to move on. Still, given that recent conversations were normal, it was a surprise.

Being shocked by the extent of it--terminating the friendship, severing all ties, telling me I was now “blocked.”

Being texted with it all was the final blow.

Concern when this all came about a couple of weeks ago, my emotions have been mixed.

Concern over my other SO will fade with time.

Concern is more with my relationship with Bobby--my "Live and Die Guy" - https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=45569.0  (just as it should be).

The Other Loves of My Life.jpg

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/31110/ltr-surprise-endingRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 13:20:00 GMTSun, 12 Mar 2017 19:42:03 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to LTR Surprise Ending on Sat, 18 Mar 2017 19:09:43 GMT]]>Timely Delivery - Closing Words & Such

Before anything…

A thank you to all of you and the interest to have you read this–with a special thank you to those responding! 😄

In addition to whatever else, without doubt, there is a bit of irony here.

A brief explanation came with the card I received from him yesterday. Apologizing, saying he had to "move on"–it also mentioned the return of some things and a package was on its way to me.

The photo shown in the image below was one of the items in the package. The package came about an hour ago--ironically, yet somehow fitting with it all--the gift arriving today…today being my birthday.

Oh well. ???

Years ago...I had fewer gray hairs--he had fewer pounds!.jpg

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207189https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207189Sat, 18 Mar 2017 19:09:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to LTR Surprise Ending on Fri, 17 Mar 2017 20:04:38 GMT]]>:cry2:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207061https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207061Fri, 17 Mar 2017 20:04:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to LTR Surprise Ending on Tue, 14 Mar 2017 17:22:57 GMT]]>Huuugs!  He's not your main guy but it still hurts so huuugs to you!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206714https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206714Tue, 14 Mar 2017 17:22:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to LTR Surprise Ending on Tue, 14 Mar 2017 01:18:33 GMT]]>Wow, that really, really sucks.. "Blocked" and everything? I don't understand why people do that, it's weak.

Something similar happened to me a few months back. No real explanation given to me… Blocked. Had to go to the guys place to talk it out, give it some closure at least. He was at least courteous enough to let me in and have a talk, two times.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206637https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206637Tue, 14 Mar 2017 01:18:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to LTR Surprise Ending on Mon, 13 Mar 2017 22:33:16 GMT]]>@warpaint:

EEeeeee?
I don't fucking get it.
Maybe I shouldn't.

MTE

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206611https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206611Mon, 13 Mar 2017 22:33:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to LTR Surprise Ending on Mon, 13 Mar 2017 22:25:33 GMT]]>EEeeeee?
I don't fucking get it.
Maybe I shouldn't.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206610https://community.gaytor.rent/post/206610Mon, 13 Mar 2017 22:25:33 GMT