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    Would you date with someone who isnt out?

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      oqoqoq
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      I would say yes if it was a short term thing. Harmless fun? Sure. But if we saw each other being together long term, unless it was a case of safety, I'd much much much prefer us both being "out".

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        humandoormat
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        not cool 😠

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          agogpry
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          For me it wouldn't be a problem

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            Eridanos
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            I wouldn't mind. It might add some guilty thrill to the thing…

            As long as the dude isn't married and/or with kids. (That is very dangerous territory since your actions affect other people besides yourselves)

            But honestly, for a long time commitment I'd rather be with someone who is out (at least to family and friends)

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              poltergeist
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              As long as he is good natured. And also single, although this may be troublesome in a long term

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                raving885
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                I am right now and when he decided to come out to his parents I was there to support him. It is not easy to come out and me and him have had these discussions before hand, so he was ready to come out to his parents and be loved by everyone

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                  blankspace
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                  Yes, if you like the guy why not?

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                    JACK777
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                    I would because where I'm from gay people face persecution all the time.

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                      spam17
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                      @Eridanos:

                      I wouldn't mind. It might add some guilty thrill to the thing…

                      As long as the dude isn't married and/or with kids. (That is very dangerous territory since your actions affect other people besides yourselves)

                      But honestly, for a long time commitment I'd rather be with someone who is out (at least to family and friends)

                      Kids involment hardens the whole situation..

                      :afr:

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