What turns you off during sex?
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I honestly don't mind "farts" when I am topping another guy.. ;D It is going to happen - particularly with lots of anal insertions and when fucking in certain positions I find that the likelihood is pretty high. Those "noises" can really add to the HEAT for me. That said, bottoms should think about getting clean down there first - aside from a few - most tops don't want a chili dog..
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I honestly don't mind "farts" when I am topping another guy.. ;D It is going to happen - particularly with lots of anal insertions and when fucking in certain positions I find that the likelihood is pretty high. Those "noises" can really add to the HEAT for me. That said, bottoms should think about getting clean down there first - aside from a few - most tops don't want a chili dog..
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hmm lets see
talking, a couple of words too many and it goes down :))) -
fake moaning
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Long pubs and my partner not making a noise… even though I know he likes it.
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Long pubs and my partner not making a noise… even though I know he likes it.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
any music?
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bad breath, nothing worst than talking to or kissing a guy that has bad breath. I will not even go any further if a guy's breath is nasty.
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Agreed! Bad breath is the #1 turn off in my book…
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to get hair in my mouth
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Being PLAYFULLY bitten (my ex didn't know what playful was…)
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Getting my dick played with. Usually like focusing on getting fucked and squeezing around a guy and when some guys try to play with my dick it just ends up distracting me and start to lose a bit of interest.
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a guy who wouldn't shut up. painful love bites. toothy blowjobs. dirty bottoms. shaved pubes. bad breath. dandruff and flaky skin.
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Poppers (…an absolute deal-breaker).
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#1 bad breath ::)
#2 anything with my ear(licking…) :afr:
#3 condoms (of course safe sex always but... :blownose:) -
when we kiss and i can smell and taste cigarette
I've never experienced that but as a prolonged anti-smoking person, I would find that a major turn off.
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This is an interesting topic and something I think every person gay, bi, straight, trans, etc should know what they and their sex partner should like and dislike. Nothing is more off putting than going through the motion and the person you making love starts doing acts that not even you have a box catagory in your mind to fit that into other than "turn off"
Apart from the normal bodily functions we would go through that are sometimes out of our control, I think everything else should be discussed. Lets face it sex isnt the same like it is in porn movies or on tv lol.
I am not into spitting, oral intakes like poppers, drugs, etc (huge turn off for me), or using any vulgar language
I guess I love the emotional connection, intimacy, affection during sex. lol -
I can handle most anything excpet bad breathe, like cigarette breathe.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
any music?
Really ? No music ? Fuck. I rarely do this without to be honest. I have some great sexy-time playlists on spotify and I just love to use them. Plus if you are not at home alone you should totally turn it on. It creates a mood and acts as a barrier between you and your partners noises and other residents
to get hair in my mouth
Really ? This happens so often. It's just a human thing. If a guy is sexy his hair accidently in my mouth doesn't really bother me.
Poppers (…an absolute deal-breaker).
I don't like it too.
Last time the guy used them and it made him so horny.
He asked me if I want and I said "well I might try it". To be honest? It stinks, doesn't do anything for me and just leaves weird feeling in my nose. I don't know. I always have been super drug-invulnerable. Maybe that's why. But it's funny cause the guy was like "ooooh that's so good" and it really pissed me off that he was starting to get more and more excited and played more rough, like wanted me to swallow his whole dick. And I don't really like to do it gosh. I have a lot of skills in bed. REALLY. But one I don't is definitely a deep throat. I just want to vomit so I can't hold the whole dick for a lot of time in my mouth. And he really pushed it. It such a turn off for me when a guy is so pushy and invasive and stuff. I don't find it cool, maybe because I'm kind of more romantic person. I enjoyed my bf fucking the shit out of me, but I guess I just prefer taking time with sex. Doing it for hours with music, candles and taking care of every part of the body and when I fuck I can fuck really quick. One guy really expected a good hard fuck from me so I gave it to him but didn't really enjoy it. I'm definitely not for boredom in bed. Hell no. But I just like the intimacy and slow tempo over harshness, roughness and vulgarism.
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