Just lying there with no reaction - I call it fucking a plank of wood.

Anal toys - why do you want a toy up your ass when I'm here to fuck you.

Unsafe sex habits - sorry but I'm in the nineties when it comes to unsafe sex. I lost too many good friends to HIV/AIDS.

Also, a guy I was with the other night farted during sex...that didn't do too much for me either.  Ugh FML.

a bad kisser can turn me off pretty quickly.

My ultimate dream man could come from heaven itself.. if he cannot kiss then nope.. it is done - kissing is like the catalyst for everything, for me.

answering the phone

You think so?
Me and my ex were 8 hours drive apart. We rented an apartment for the night in the capital halfway.
Haha when we got there we couldn't keep hands of each other and then after few hours of sex the owner called me and my bf was like "answer it! answer it and I will suck your dick and let's see if you can keep focus" that crazy sexy mother fucker…

When he's in a hurry.

Ohhh. Hate it too. I spotted it in a lot of people lately.
One guy was rimming me like 5 minutes after starting kissing. And I was like "whaaa…whaa...whaaaaa. wait and get the fuck out i'm a top" as he was trying to get his dick in me. The other guy went like through 30 positions of kamasutra in 10 minutes xD That was funny too. I'm always like "hey, we have all night why rush? it's cool like this. let's pay attention to every little detail on our body". That's why I also don't like poppers and guys on poppers. Generally drugs. I just don't see the point. I loved it with my ex that we were doing it without anything - only music. No drinks, no smoking, no sex toys, no drugs, no fetish. We were getting along amazingly and still could have one sex for a few hours. We were just pasionate for each other. That's how it's supposed to be I guess.

1. Guys that are high on whatever drug and, as a result, have the attention span of a flea.
2. Guys at a sex party who "break the vibe" of the situation with loud casual conversation.'
3. Guys who don't know how to "set a mood" for good sex to happen (like opening every drape at high noon and having CNN blaring on the tv!)
4. The slightest smell of poop.

whether it's guys just fucking and showing absolutely no signs of enjoying the sex, being mute and doing mechanical moves so I have a feeling I'm having sex with a robot, and I feel like a blow-up doll.

or contrary - guys who talk too much. there are very few guys who can pull if off because it sounds spontaneous and natural, but in most cases it sounds as fake as plots in porn movies. just be natural, is it that hard?

oh, I also hate when guy is too careful and worries about anything, so most of the sex is like "oh are you fine, oh did I hurt you, is it fine if I kiss you, is it fine if I do this or that…" just do it for fucks sake, and be spontaneous and passionate. or should I come with a script next time and give it to you in advance so you know exactly what to do and in which order...

so the point is - don't hold back, do what you like, the worst thing that can happen is that I say "sorry, I don't enjoy this or that" and don't make a fuss about it - just continue doing other things. I also don't like when I try something and I see the guy isn't enjoying it but he fakes it and says nothing... the point is to enjoy the sex, so let's just be spontaneous, let each other know what we do or don't enjoy and in a short period of time it will come clear what each of us likes and we'll stick to those things which we both enjoy and that's the only way to have a great sex.

@deflorare:

I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.

any music?

Really ? No music ? Fuck. I rarely do this without to be honest. I have some great sexy-time playlists on spotify and I just love to use them.  Plus if you are not at home alone you should totally turn it on. It creates a mood and acts as a barrier between you and your partners noises and other residents

@jonas32:

to get hair in my mouth

Really ? This happens so often. It's just a human thing. If a guy is sexy his hair accidently in my mouth doesn't really bother me.

@RectalTemp:

Poppers (…an absolute deal-breaker).

I don't like it too.
Last time the guy used them and it made him so horny.
He asked me if I want and I said "well I might try it". To be honest? It stinks, doesn't do anything for me and just leaves weird feeling in my nose. I don't know. I always have been super drug-invulnerable. Maybe that's why. But it's funny cause the guy was like "ooooh that's so good" and it really pissed me off that he was starting to get more and more excited and played more rough, like wanted me to swallow his whole dick. And I don't really like to do it gosh. I have a lot of skills in bed. REALLY. But one I don't is definitely a deep throat. I just want to vomit so I can't hold the whole dick for a lot of time in my mouth. And he really pushed it. It such a turn off for me when a guy is so pushy and invasive and stuff. I don't find it cool, maybe because I'm kind of more romantic person. I enjoyed my bf fucking the shit out of me, but I guess I just prefer taking time with sex. Doing it for hours with music, candles and taking care of every part of the body and when I fuck I can fuck really quick. One guy really expected a good hard fuck from me so I gave it to him but didn't really enjoy it. I'm definitely not for boredom in bed. Hell no. But I just like the intimacy and slow tempo over harshness, roughness and vulgarism.