What turns you off during sex?
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When you partner doesn't make a sound and just lays there… I'm sorry do you want me to stop? Oh no you don't? When let me no which noises that what I'm doing is feeling good. Don't lay there like a sack of potatoes. Get into it.
Absolutely hate this! Part of my pleasure comes from knowing that my partner is also pleased. Don't fake it, but at least let me know I'm doing…SOMETHING!
Along the lines of noises made, I can't stand excessive talking. The occasional "Oh, yeah!" or "Fuck me!" is completely acceptable. But I can't stand the people who just have to speak in full sentences. "Oh yeah, fuck me hard because you know I like it that way and grass is green and the sky is blue and Berlin is in Germany yada yada yada!" Like, will you shut the hell up? Excessive wordiness has always seemed phony to me.
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I honestly don't mind "farts" when I am topping another guy.. ;D It is going to happen - particularly with lots of anal insertions and when fucking in certain positions I find that the likelihood is pretty high. Those "noises" can really add to the HEAT for me. That said, bottoms should think about getting clean down there first - aside from a few - most tops don't want a chili dog..
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I honestly don't mind "farts" when I am topping another guy.. ;D It is going to happen - particularly with lots of anal insertions and when fucking in certain positions I find that the likelihood is pretty high. Those "noises" can really add to the HEAT for me. That said, bottoms should think about getting clean down there first - aside from a few - most tops don't want a chili dog..
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hmm lets see
talking, a couple of words too many and it goes down :))) -
fake moaning
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Long pubs and my partner not making a noise… even though I know he likes it.
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Long pubs and my partner not making a noise… even though I know he likes it.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
any music?
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bad breath, nothing worst than talking to or kissing a guy that has bad breath. I will not even go any further if a guy's breath is nasty.
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Agreed! Bad breath is the #1 turn off in my book…
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to get hair in my mouth
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Being PLAYFULLY bitten (my ex didn't know what playful was…)
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Getting my dick played with. Usually like focusing on getting fucked and squeezing around a guy and when some guys try to play with my dick it just ends up distracting me and start to lose a bit of interest.
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a guy who wouldn't shut up. painful love bites. toothy blowjobs. dirty bottoms. shaved pubes. bad breath. dandruff and flaky skin.
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Poppers (…an absolute deal-breaker).
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#1 bad breath ::)
#2 anything with my ear(licking…) :afr:
#3 condoms (of course safe sex always but... :blownose:) -
when we kiss and i can smell and taste cigarette
I've never experienced that but as a prolonged anti-smoking person, I would find that a major turn off.
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This is an interesting topic and something I think every person gay, bi, straight, trans, etc should know what they and their sex partner should like and dislike. Nothing is more off putting than going through the motion and the person you making love starts doing acts that not even you have a box catagory in your mind to fit that into other than "turn off"
Apart from the normal bodily functions we would go through that are sometimes out of our control, I think everything else should be discussed. Lets face it sex isnt the same like it is in porn movies or on tv lol.
I am not into spitting, oral intakes like poppers, drugs, etc (huge turn off for me), or using any vulgar language
I guess I love the emotional connection, intimacy, affection during sex. lol -
I can handle most anything excpet bad breathe, like cigarette breathe.
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