Did you choose to be gay?
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I think we choose to act on our attractions I also believe I could be content in a platonic marriage with a woman but I'm glad of the times that I do not have to be. In short I don't think we choose to feel attractions to our own gender but I do believe that we choose to act on that attraction. I do not however think its genetic or at least it can't entirely be genetic (see twins one gay one not).
I probably agree with 98% of what Masonmason said. I was going to post that we do not choose who we are attracted to, it just…is. In regards to genetics, within nature, homosexual attraction and behavior is common in many species of higher order mammals such as dolphins and even varied other species. Humans have become used to suppressing and constraining themselves to however the establishment dictates humans should view each other and contribute to society. I'm sort of digressing a bit, but that's why we have all these questions because we're so used to holding our real selves and soul inspiration back to fit in with the norm of the system.
Also, if it were a choice, a lot of people have said they would have chosen to be straight because it's easier, which is true cause it's what society expects.
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No, I did not.
I have two older sisters. They made me gay.
LOL. I have two younger sisters. They made me gay.
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i haven't yet
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No.
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no, coz im in the matrix
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Not sure if I will..
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i didnt choose it, from age 10 when i discovered what is sex ( i didnt have it:D, only know what it was) i started looking on porn and looking more on cocks
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Didnt choose to be, but born to be.
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i didnt choose it, from age 10 when i discovered what is sex ( i didnt have it:D, only know what it was) i started looking on porn and looking more on cocks
That means that you started with straight porno, doesn't it?
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Yes, I picked up the gay choice since I was still a sperm. Because I know that a gay man's life is full of happiness, laughter and no one in this world hates gay people.
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I came pre-installed with the gay :cheers: also, I remember reading an article stating that there is a part of the DNA that dictates the how much attraction a human will feel towards a certain sex, not sure though, so do some fact checks and don't quote me on this
and honestly, I feel lucky to be gay, even if we aren't well treated in society :cool2:
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I came pre-installed with the gay :cheers: also, I remember reading an article stating that there is a part of the DNA that dictates the how much attraction a human will feel towards a certain sex, not sure though, so do some fact checks and don't quote me on this
and honestly, I feel lucky to be gay, even if we aren't well treated in society :cool2:
"Lucky"????? Really?
I don't get it. I know the world is getting easy on us but it will never be a place for us to live happily.
I am sorry if you fell up set. -
I came pre-installed with the gay :cheers: also, I remember reading an article stating that there is a part of the DNA that dictates the how much attraction a human will feel towards a certain sex, not sure though, so do some fact checks and don't quote me on this
and honestly, I feel lucky to be gay, even if we aren't well treated in society :cool2:
"Lucky"????? Really?
I don't get it. I know the world is getting easy on us but it will never be a place for us to live happily.
I am sorry if you fell up set.::)
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I think choice and congenital are both oversimplistic and not entirely accurate descriptions of how sexual orientations come to be.
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I think choice and congenital are both oversimplistic and not entirely accurate descriptions of how sexual orientations come to be.
What is your suggestion then?
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oh yes i choose to be gay when i was around 6 weeks old
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I think the best way I explain it to most - albeit a bit simplistic - is like this;
Imagine if being gay is brunette and straight is blonde
If you are brunette, you just are brunette. You can dye your hair blonde all you want - spend a lot of time and energy and even money trying to get your hair as blond as possible.. but guess what? you are still 100% brunette and no amount of covering that will change that.. and in the end the brunette will always come back and is a lot of work to get to blond again.. and, sadly, will ruin your hair, sometimes permanently..
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"Did you choose to be gay?"
No. I chose to be just the way I am. The exact way I was born with. A man with the sexual tendency to both men and women. That was not an option, it came naturally, albeit I haven't openly come out to anyone yet.
So technically-speaking, the answer's yes. Partially at least. Because I did NOT choose to be straight. Similar to those other people who 'chose' to be men and straight.
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