Did you choose to be gay?

zulfarrakk

Definitely no, it's not a choice

Masonmason

I think we choose to act on our attractions I also believe I could be content in a platonic marriage with a woman but I'm glad of the times that I do not have to be. In short I don't think we choose to feel attractions to our own gender but I do believe that we choose to act on that attraction. I do not however think its genetic or at least it can't entirely be genetic (see twins one gay one not).

Bisougarou

They still haven't proved that being gay is in our DNA… But I, too, don't believe it's a choice.
A lot of animal species have "gay sex" but most animals can't reason therefor they can't choose to be be gay or "have gay sex" it's just the way it is.

There are lots of theories about why/how do you become gay? Unfortunately, no one can answer simply this question. There are almost as many theories as there are gays/bi/lesbians...

jrsite55

I think I was born this way lol

horyna

No, I did not.

I have two older sisters. They made me gay.

ricardok250

No. I just love male wear white socks. But not sex and being gay

Belisarios

No, did not choose to be gay but certainly would not choose to be straight.

nordicblue

@Belisarios:

No, did not choose to be gay but certainly would not choose to be straight.

Why wouldn't you want to be straight? They are a supermajority in number and political power. It is much easier to find a straight mate. Although I do not care either way, I prefer to have both.

clubzfanboy

@nordicblue:

@Belisarios:

No, did not choose to be gay but certainly would not choose to be straight.

Why wouldn't you want to be straight? They are a supermajority in number and political power. It is much easier to find a straight mate. Although I do not care either way, I prefer to have both.

Personally I wouldn't want to be straight because being gay makes me sympathize with an understand all manner of minority orientations/identities that I might have dismissed as crazy or gross otherwise.

Plus, frankly, being in the majority seems boring!

cumpigboy

@Masonmason:

I think we choose to act on our attractions I also believe I could be content in a platonic marriage with a woman but I'm glad of the times that I do not have to be. In short I don't think we choose to feel attractions to our own gender but I do believe that we choose to act on that attraction. I do not however think its genetic or at least it can't entirely be genetic (see twins one gay one not).

I probably agree with 98% of what Masonmason said. I was going to post that we do not choose who we are attracted to, it just…is. In regards to genetics, within nature, homosexual attraction and behavior is common in many species of higher order mammals such as dolphins and even varied other species. Humans have become used to suppressing and constraining themselves to however the establishment dictates humans should view each other and contribute to society. I'm sort of digressing a bit, but that's why we have all these questions because we're so used to holding our real selves and soul inspiration back to fit in with the norm of the system.

Also, if it were a choice, a lot of people have said they would have chosen to be straight because it's easier, which is true cause it's what society expects.

harrisbren

@horyna:

No, I did not.

I have two older sisters. They made me gay.

LOL. I have two younger sisters. They made me gay.

AndrewH

i haven't yet

zhx1991

No.

uzuzjh

no, coz im in the matrix

spam17

Not sure if I will..

Minerboh80

deckbox2

i didnt choose it, from age 10 when i discovered what is sex ( i didnt have it:D, only know what it was) i started looking on porn and looking more on cocks

costing

Didnt choose to be, but born to be.

spam17

@deckbox2:

i didnt choose it, from age 10 when i discovered what is sex ( i didnt have it:D, only know what it was) i started looking on porn and looking more on cocks

That means that you started with straight porno, doesn't it?

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