@bibob:
@mulawin1:
Many years ago a man in his ’70s offered me a 100 bucks for simple sex, and I said sure. It seemed like a quick way to pay a bill and I’m not a prude about such things. I don’t remember much about him except that he seemed very lonely and reasonably well-off in his retirement — he had lots of tales of over-65 vacations and loved scuba diving.
I took him to my apartment and agreed to his one non-debatable request that I kiss him. I think he wanted that more than any other physical contact. Afterward, I got dressed and made light of things and watched him sit up, motionless. He hadn’t taken off one article of clothing. He looked at me, arms folded, told me I had a beautiful smile, and said, in a whisper, “I hate being old.” Then he walked out of my door and I never saw him again.
I don’t know if what I did was smart, or if it would hurt or help him. Perhaps it was something he did on a regular basis and it gave him a sense of freedom. Perhaps he forgot about it as soon as I did. Perhaps it spiraled him into deeper loneliness. I don’t have an answer. I do know that that someday I might find out for myself.
IKR, I'm in my late 50s.
The only way to delay the physical effects of aging is to exercise as well as taking good care of the skin. It doesn't cost much, just that it takes time and effort. Our aging skin is in such desperate need for external care that a little nutrient shows vast differences.
I go to saunas for older men and have sex with older men like myself, unlike some picky old men trying to cling onto their long gone youth and trying very hard to hookup with young men who usually spurn their advances.
There are older men of 60s 70s there and even if he can't get it up, we can still touch and cuddle as long as he is still clean and decent. If he wants to feel the inside of a warm ass again, I'll open my legs for his fingers to fuck me. At our age we have seen and done so much sex, there's nothing to be coy about sex. Sex is just sex to be enjoyed while you can.
