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    Condom or Bareback?

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    • W Offline
      wvgwm49
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      @gayaznboi22:

      Which do you prefer?  I like bareback because of the thought that everything is skin-on-skin when I'm being fucked.  That there's no need to wonder if the condom broke or slipped off; it's just a means to continue a good fuck.

      While I prefer bareback, I use condoms with one-night stands and guys I meet online.  The only exception is if the guy has a recent test of being clean that they can show; I guarantee very few guys are willing to show or have such evidence.  As of now, I only bareback with my fuck bud.

      for years condoms for me wasnt a thing as i was allergic to latex and back in my teen years and growing into adulthood condoms were made of latex–and it was 16 when i heard of condoms and by then i already done bare and kept it that way--here it is years later and had sex with numerous men--i was a sex addict for years--the more i got the more i wanted--- and couple gangbangs  i am the age i am now and never had any std's

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        thetmstone
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        I do not understand why most of you treat condoms like they're the enemies here. Yes, I do use condoms, but I also like bareback porn and like the rest of the clips out there, it needs to be done properly.

        If anything, get tested, use PrEP also combined with condoms and if you don't like using them, at least inform your partner about your status, always.

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          andergarcia
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          Obviously I am not denying the use of condoms when you need to (if you don't know the person or just because you want to use it). I've used it many times in the past when I didn't have a stable relationship and it was ok and no problem at all… I don't like using it right now because I have my boyfriend and we do not need to take those precautions.

          I will always encourage people to use condoms for spodaric relationships.

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          • pillowbiterP Offline
            pillowbiter
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            Bareback. For me, the feeling of skin on skin is intoxicating.

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            • eastonkellanE Offline
              eastonkellan
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              Much as I've been tempted to go bareback, I still prefer the use of condom. With all the advance scientific med, in our country, it's still like a death sentence when you are diagnosed with HIV.

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                fitbiguy
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                Bareback, I only fuck guys that im in a relationship with, condoms just ruin the mood.
                On the other hand, if its a one night stand and we do fuck, he has to wear a condom!  😉

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                • andergarciaA Offline
                  andergarcia
                  last edited by

                  And if he doesn't wear a condom, what happens?  ;D

                  @fitbiguy:

                  Bareback, I only fuck guys that im in a relationship with, condoms just ruin the mood.
                  On the other hand, if its a one night stand and we do fuck, he has to wear a condom!  😉

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                    indybr05
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                    condom all the way

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                    • andergarciaA Offline
                      andergarcia
                      last edited by

                      Even with your partner, if you have a stable partner?

                      @indybr05:

                      condom all the way

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                      • GrotomodeG Offline
                        Grotomode
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                        Bareback definitely.

                        At the very least always bare when in a relationship. It is just sooooo much better.
                        I hate to pause to wear a condom.

                        Also I can not believe I am seeing comments comparing HIV to a death sentence. Sure, you should avoid it, but this comparison has no place in 2020. Truly sad.

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                          utf16
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                          I don’t put my raw dick to anyone’s butthole and I don’t touch someone else’s raw dick that has just been pulled out of my ass. I understand that many people have some sort of sexual fetish, but this one is just ridiculous.

                          Some time ago, I actually dumped my boyfriend and one of the reasons was that he refused to take a shower before sex and wash his teeth. And this is way less siginficant than putting a dick to a smelly hole.

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                            Grotomode
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                            If the hole is smelly, then it will be smelly with a condom too.

                            That means the guy has not prepared or was not ready to begin with.

                            By all means, avoid bareback, but that is a weird reason to do so; you should want the hole to not be smelly regardless.

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                              utf16
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                              @Grotomode:

                              By all means, avoid bareback, but that is a weird reason to do so

                              Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                              I understand that sexual tastes are individual and unexplainable. But what’s so weird to want a sexual experience in hygienic conditions?

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                                lamelight
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                                @utf16:

                                Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                                This is exactly why I have always refused to have sex without a condom, even when in a relationship. The thought of putting in my mouth something that was being rubbed against my intestines - or kissing someone who put in his mouth something that was inside his - just feels…gross? No matter how intimate I am with the other person.

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                                  fun17
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                                  @lamelight:

                                  @utf16:

                                  Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                                  This is exactly why I have always refused to have sex without a condom, even when in a relationship. The thought of putting in my mouth something that was being rubbed against my intestines - or kissing someone who put in his mouth something that was inside his - just feels…gross? No matter how intimate I am with the other person.

                                  Second!  ;D

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                                  • GrotomodeG Offline
                                    Grotomode
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                                    @utf16:

                                    @Grotomode:

                                    By all means, avoid bareback, but that is a weird reason to do so

                                    Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                                    I understand that sexual tastes are individual and unexplainable. But what’s so weird to want a sexual experience in hygienic conditions?

                                    You know you dont have to put it in your mouth after it has been in someone's ass right?

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                                      trader42
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                                      @gayaznboi22:

                                      Which do you prefer?  I like bareback because of the thought that everything is skin-on-skin when I'm being fucked.  That there's no need to wonder if the condom broke or slipped off; it's just a means to continue a good fuck.

                                      While I prefer bareback, I use condoms with one-night stands and guys I meet online.  The only exception is if the guy has a recent test of being clean that they can show; I guarantee very few guys are willing to show or have such evidence.  As of now, I only bareback with my fuck bud.

                                      I agree with this post. Skin on skin is much hotter for the top and the bottom, and, like it or not, substantial numbers of gay men enjoy the quasi-reproductive feeling of receiving or depositing semen.

                                      Instead of preferring bareback but using condoms for one night stands, my policy is to take daily prep at all times and basically only have one night stands with guys who are also on daily prep, thus being able to make love bareback. This means I have fewer one night stands, but they're generally much hotter, and with negligible risk.

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                                      • GrotomodeG Offline
                                        Grotomode
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                                        Or hook ups with HIV+ men who take their medication.

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                                          trader42
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                                          @Grotomode:

                                          Or hook ups with HIV+ men who take their medication.

                                          That's a very good point. Undetectable is generally regarded as untransmissible.

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                                            Headstrong19
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                                            I do both depends if I'm with the guy or just hook up

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