Sex advice.

sterritt

hi Guys thought I would ask here as well Gayforum. Me and my Bf (1st guy ive dated) have been dating for 3 weeks. Done alot of things. Oral, cum swapping etc..But tonight we where in the process of having sex and things didnt go well. We where both really into it until he applied Lube. And when I say applied I meant covered me in a shit load of the stuff to where things started to have problems continuing.

Is this somethign that happens if lube is used as ive never used it before. He applied so much that it was to the point where I couldnt really feel any friction or even touching. Or can someone suggest a better type of lube. Other than being completely covered in the stuff the strong smell of strawberry was sickening to say the least.

Strange question to ask you guys Im sure but figured best to ask someone than noone. Thanks.

raphjd

I like ID Pleasure.

It sounds like he went extremely over the top with the lube. Just get him to use {from the what you said} a lot less of it. Once the pair of you are in a rhythm and know each other's likes/dislikes, it will get a lot better.

Scented/flavored lubes tend to be sickly sweet smelling and gross tasting.

pacifico

@sterritt:

Strange question to ask you guys Im sure but figured best to ask someone than noone. Thanks.

Come on, it's a gay forum: feel at home here and don't afraid to ask.

Lubes can be like glue if you use too much of it.

Water lubes can be good: not too sticky, not too gelly, and you can feel comfortable about them. Or, even saliva can be good enough.

Best wishes, Sandro

notquiteme

know what's really hot? have him cum on your cock then… use that as lube!

sterritt

@raphjd:

I like ID Pleasure.

It sounds like he went extremely over the top with the lube. Just get him to use {from the what you said} a lot less of it. Once the pair of you are in a rhythm and know each other's likes/dislikes, it will get a lot better.

Scented/flavored lubes tend to be sickly sweet smelling and gross tasting.

Sick smelling is an understatement. Felt sick after we cleaned up. Thanks for the replies guys. Means alot that you took the time to reply. XX

pacifico

@sterritt:

Means alot that you took the time to reply. XX

Well, next time will be a lot of fun and a new Heaven for you and your bf.

Kisses :hug2:

sterritt

Hope so ;D

notquiteme

experimenting with it actually has the best results. of course, shortcuts (by way of asking the more… experienced fellas) also work.

let us know if it works out!

knoghoti

How come they never make scents like garlic, onion or thyme? The fruity smells just make me nauseous.
I remember hooking up with a guy, and his room was overly perfumed, and all his lotions were obnoxious;
I was unable to enjoy the fuck.

Do you like getting rimmed; that could be a fun way to get lubed?

leatherbear

Balance in all things ~ including lube. ::) Too much lube and sickening scents are never a turn on for anyone.