Get circumcised or not?
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hey there… dont you change nothing on your body... we love you the way god made you ... muc luv cuz ...
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Going through a serious (and completely unnecessary except in serious cases of phimosis) medical procedure to please someone else is never a good idea. If he has warped and ill informed ideas about circumcision that's his problem - not yours. Him acting like this over such a non-issue gives you an idea about his personality, personally I would take it as a red flag warning.
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I'd tell him to fuck off with the whole uncleanliness thing. Sounds like a huge red flag if he can't even handle an uncircumcised dick that's perfectly fine. What's next?
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Don't do it. Evolution made your dick as it for a reason. Cutting parts of it off by humans is only due to some spooky believes in some dogmatic stories. If someone really thinks that makes you "unclean" well then he is anyway lost in his dogmatic world.
I would suggest looking for other more open and liberal guys to hang out with.
Enjoy your body as it is
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I was interested in this thread and the advices given, I've been fortunate to have met circumcised guys mostly Jewish or Arab guys and not once was their any problem with me having uncut cock in fact it was appreciated by them.
My cock rolls back fully, (I do dislike foreskins that are tight and even look painful) but I'd walk with my feet if I wasn't happy.
At my age I'd not consider circumscision unless it was required for religious reasons.
Like the old saying (not always true) there are lots of fish in the sea XOXO have fun
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I guess the main point is, only get it done if you want it for yourself, theres no going back and if youre not totally sure you may well regret the decision.
Rob
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dont change for other people, only change because you want to.
In this instance, no. unless you have clear medical issues having a foreskin, keep it.
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The advice you didn't ask for. It's a red flag when a person you are in a relationship with is telling you that you are "too unclean to touch" until you change an aspect of your body. Do not get circumcised/a tattoo/a piercing that you do not want to please someone else.
This 100%…
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If you are okay with sexless relationship, but to what extent?
I think circumcision is a part of Muslim tradition towards improving cleanliness. It is strongly encourage but not enforced.
It will be your decision, is he worth it?
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I'm uncut and have a friend who cut circumcised at 17 or 18. Personally, I do enjoy putting on those three ring cock rings that can push the skin back to appear as if I was cut, but would not get the surgery cause I just don't want to.
My friend that did it got a loose cut and likes it. I'd say use medical tape or a cock ring to at least feel what it is like. Jerking off is way different without the skin so you should see if you like that -- and not to mention the head will get tougher without your hood for protection. But you shouldn't make the decision just to please someone else.
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Do not allow someone to pressure you into getting a circumcision.
Uncut penisis are not unclean. This is a myth.
I wouldn't dream of having the most sensitive area removed for anything except sound medical advice, but that's just me.
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I have known 3 men who were circumcised as adults.
ALL THREE regret having the procedure.
Here in the US, it used to be nearly unheard of for male children to not be circumcised shortly after birth... I WAS!
Today (2021), in this country, it's about 50/50 - the times, they are a changing! Still, most parents who choose TO circumcise say they want their child to "be like their father" or "be like the other children"... to which I say HOGWASH
For one, as the father of 4 boys I can attest that as babies they're not equating that tiny little pee-pee with my much larger, hairy penis... and then, as pre-teens, teens, and certainly as adults, I'm not wagging my dick in front of my children! I honestly don't think any of my children has any idea that I am circumcised! (NONE of them are!)
As for young boys comparing penises, little Johnny is far more likely to care about whether his growing manhood is BIGGER or SMALLER than the others than he is about what the TIP looks like!
There are FEW legitimate medical reasons for circumcision, and some religious ones... but barring one of those, leave your pleasure palace the way God crated it! He did it right the first time, he doesn't need a touch-up!
Finally - the point about the 3 friends (well, 1 friend and 2 ex's): all three reported that sex (especially masturbation) felt VERY DIFFERENT after they were "cut"... not better, not worse, just DIFFERENT. (Again, all 3 regretted their decision to get circumcised as adults.)
YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY but remember this: once you're circumcised, there's no going back!
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I think you should only have it done if you truly want it, not because your b/f is insisting. I would question his commitment to you in those circumstances.
Rob
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The majority of those with foreskins can push the skin back on a full erection, and it does not look much different than a circumcised penis . . . best of both worlds there if one is looking to somewhat satisfy both tastes.
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It wasn't my choice, I think my parent decided when I was born. The U.S. believes circumcision prevents some known diseases.
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Uncut is so much better.
If you can pull the skin, there is no need
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I wouldn't want to do an irreversible change on one of the most important/enjoyable parts of my body on the off chance that this guy is the love of my life. Not even a tattoo! but then again, that's just me...
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I cannot imagine a more personal decision to have or make.
Some things to consider about circumcision:
- It is primarily a cultural and/or religious decision (e.g.: it is a ritual part of the Jewish religion, very common in Islam, and previously was a highly-common cultural practice in America (US)... although the percentages in the US are down to about 50%, and continue to drop ca. 2021).
- Because it is/was a US Cultural preference, there are all kinds of false reports of benefits to circumcision (increased sensitivity, health/safety benefits, claims that women prefer circumcised, even reports that children who were circumcised grew larger penises!) - the vast majority of these reports in favor of circumcision are false or misleading (for example: report of circumcised men having fewer health concerns than uncircumcised ones are usually based on conditions that are easily resolved by simply teaching young boys HOW to clean their penis - the same way young girls have to learn HOW to care for their vaginas to prevent health problems).
- There are some (rare) medical conditions for which circumcision is the preferred treatment.
- There is ABSOLUTELY NO consensus world-wide - even in medical communities - about whether there are medical benefits to being or not-being circumcised.
Long story short: if it was done to you as a child/baby, you don't have a say. Sorry, but blame your parents, or pediatrician, or religious leader...
If it was NOT done to you as a baby, you can choose to have this done to you... but really, why?In case you're wondering, as a 50+ year old white US citizen, I was circumcised as a baby. I've never known anything different. But, I have known 2 men who have had the procedure done AS ADULTS, and both later regretted it. (Your mileage may vary, of course).
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When you are circumsized, you may loose a little bit a sensitivity with time, but you can then fuck longer than "regular guys" if you are a top.
I am cut since I am 12 ( tight foreskin issue) and ok.
You first sexual organ is not your dick head; it's your brain.A lot of boys don't know how to clean their uncut dicks - they just put water on it, and then they stink.
One should use soap and rub the head in every skin fold where secretion grows.People got circumsized in hot countries as 2000 years ago hygiene was kind of very basic, so that limited infecction risks.
It's like pork; it's impure in hot countries because when they were no frdge or hygiene it was transmitting Tenia worms.
Nowaday it's just a cultural belief and to keep communities separated under the spell of religious men.I am a fake french, I don't liek cheese, strong smell meet therefore I hate smelly dicks.
Don't do it if someone ask you, some people are crazy about uncut dicks ( and some about smelly dicks)
Do what you feel is good for you.
It has to be done by a urulogist surgeon, and under full anethesia.Then you put a Prince Albert on ; it will look great
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