What do you feel about the word asspussy or asscunt?
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I can tolerate the word in dirty talk during sex, but it is not a turn on for me (I am 100% bottom). In my experience top guys that used the word manpussy/asspussy want to verbally express their masculinity, feeling quite insecure when they fuck a guy.
My husband like to verbally express his masculinity (maybe dominance over me in the bedroom). But he is not insecure in the bedroom.
If it is a turn on to you, then great. For me, it doesn't float my boat, maybe because I don't feel that bottoming means assuming necessarly a feminine role.
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I can tolerate the word in dirty talk during sex, but it is not a turn on for me (I am 100% bottom). In my experience top guys that used the word manpussy/asspussy want to verbally express their masculinity, feeling quite insecure when they fuck a guy.
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If it works for you, go for it.
For me, it's 70:30 on it being a turnoff.
Pro:
Done well, it can take away the sting of humiliation, leaving just the lewdness. And sometimes I do want filth and dirty talk.Con:
For me, those who use it just sounds like they're trying too hard to be a MAN
. Insecurity and desperation is very unbecoming (and ironically, not very manly)
Its effect is based on humiliation. I don't particularly enjoy humiliation.
Worse, its humiliation is based on femmephobia, or the idea that you're somehow 'worse' for being feminine or having a pussy. -
love saying it to my bottoms
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If it works for you, go for it.
For me, it's 70:30 on it being a turnoff.
Pro:
Done well, it can take away the sting of humiliation, leaving just the lewdness. And sometimes I do want filth and dirty talk.Con:
For me, those who use it just sounds like they're trying too hard to be a MAN. Insecurity and desperation is very unbecoming (and ironically, not very manly)
Its effect is based on humiliation. I don't particularly enjoy humiliation.
Worse, its humiliation is based on femmephobia, or the idea that you're somehow 'worse' for being feminine or having a pussy.Insecure? Huh? Of being a man?!
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Call my hole a cunt or a pussy, and it opens wide
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It can be hot but like any dirty talk it depends on how well the guy pulls it off. In my experience it's mostly insecure masc4masc guys who have hangups about their hole being called pussy or cunt.
For me, it's not about being insecure. It's about the connotation (to a woman which is a turn off for me). I am a bottom and I like men. I don't want to be reminded of a woman during sex with overtly feminine remarks. By all means you can degrade me all you want as long as you keep it in the male spectrum
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I can't imagine words that are much more of a turnoff.
Fuck my ass, fine. Fuck my pussy, fine. Fuck my cunt, fine. Don't try too hard by combining them. 'Fuck my asspussy' -wtf? Is that a pussy with shit in it? Are you too afraid to refer to your fuckhole as a pussy because you're worried about being a woman? Are you too afraid that asses don't get fucked because you're worried about how manly you are? And now I'm too busy wondering what's wrong with you in which direction and why you're making up weird word combinations to think of you in a sexual context, game's over, play again later.
But as always, up to the individual.
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Years ago I would have hated it if a guy referred to my hole as a pussy or a cunt, I would have
even considered it a turn off. My hole was tight but could take anything a top could dish out
and it felt like an insult, like it was a used up and loose, or looked anything like a pussy.
But back then I had certain hang ups about my hole, I thought once it started to show any signs
of wear and tear from all the hundreds of guys and all the thousands of fuck it would be considered
used up, and less desired. But I've gotten over those hang ups and love that a guy can look at my
asshole and know that its up for a hard night of fucking. And as I get more and more into stretching
it, and I see it becoming more of a boipussy or a mancunt, the more I love a guy calling it my cunt
or my pussy. And as I try to get more into fisting, I can't wait until I have a big fat cunt, I
can't wait for it to look more and more like a pussy. -
But back then I had certain hang ups about my hole, I thought once it started to show any signs
of wear and tear from all the hundreds of guys and all the thousands of fuck it would be considered
used up, and less desired.I, for the most part, have always preferred a visibly used hole
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