But back then I had certain hang ups about my hole, I thought once it started to show any signs
of wear and tear from all the hundreds of guys and all the thousands of fuck it would be considered
used up, and less desired.

I, for the most part, have always preferred a visibly used hole

Fuck my ass, fine. Fuck my pussy, fine. Fuck my cunt, fine. Don't try too hard by combining them. 'Fuck my asspussy'  -wtf? Is that a pussy with shit in it? Are you too afraid to refer to your fuckhole as a pussy because you're worried about being a woman? Are you too afraid that asses don't get fucked because you're worried about how manly you are? And now I'm too busy wondering what's wrong with you in which direction and why you're making up weird word combinations to think of you in a sexual context, game's over, play again later.

But as always, up to the individual.

It can be hot but like any dirty talk it depends on how well the guy pulls it off. In my experience it's mostly insecure masc4masc guys who have hangups about their hole being called pussy or cunt.

For me, it's not about being insecure. It's about the connotation (to a woman which is a turn off for me). I am a bottom and I like men. I don't want to be reminded of a woman during sex with overtly feminine remarks. By all means you can degrade me all you want as long as you keep it in the male spectrum

If it works for you, go for it.

For me, it's 70:30 on it being a turnoff.

Pro:
Done well, it can take away the sting of humiliation, leaving just the lewdness. And sometimes I do want filth and dirty talk.

Con:
For me, those who use it just sounds like they're trying too hard to be a MAN. Insecurity and desperation is very unbecoming (and ironically, not very manly)
Its effect is based on humiliation. I don't particularly enjoy humiliation.
Worse, its humiliation is based on femmephobia, or the idea that you're somehow 'worse' for being feminine or having a pussy.

Insecure? Huh? Of being a man?!

For me, it's 70:30 on it being a turnoff.

Pro:
Done well, it can take away the sting of humiliation, leaving just the lewdness. And sometimes I do want filth and dirty talk.

Con:
For me, those who use it just sounds like they're trying too hard to be a MAN. Insecurity and desperation is very unbecoming (and ironically, not very manly)
Its effect is based on humiliation. I don't particularly enjoy humiliation.
Worse, its humiliation is based on femmephobia, or the idea that you're somehow 'worse' for being feminine or having a pussy.

I can tolerate the word in dirty talk during sex, but it is not a turn on for me (I am 100% bottom). In my experience top guys that used the word manpussy/asspussy want to verbally express their masculinity, feeling quite insecure when they fuck a guy.

@nikolaos84:

I can tolerate the word in dirty talk during sex, but it is not a turn on for me (I am 100% bottom). In my experience top guys that used the word manpussy/asspussy want to verbally express their masculinity, feeling quite insecure when they fuck a guy.

My husband like to verbally express his masculinity (maybe dominance over me in the bedroom). But he is not insecure in the bedroom.

If it is a turn on to you, then great. For me, it doesn't float my boat, maybe because I don't feel that bottoming means assuming necessarly a feminine role.

I am not much at all into dirty talk, but – when the time, setting and inebriation are right -- I rather like telling a guy to show me, or spread, his pussy or cunt.  I wouldn't paste "ass" or "man" on the front of either word.

The one word I can't say without laughing is MANGINA.   :cheers:   :cheers:   :cheers:

More often my husband or i, say just pussy or cunt. "Show me your pussy" and so on….Or i like him to show me his big cock....

I can tolerate the word in dirty talk during sex, but it is not a turn on for me (I am 100% bottom). In my experience top guys that used the word manpussy/asspussy want to verbally express their masculinity, feeling quite insecure when they fuck a guy.

My husband like to verbally express his masculinity (maybe dominance over me in the bedroom). But he is not insecure in the bedroom.

@chaus:

I don't really want to think of female genitalia when having sex with a guy…or at all really.

:true:  Basically.

Agree to disagree. Pussy can mean so many thing. When i cuddle with ours pussycat, i dont think of my female friends pussys…..

I don't really want to think of female genitalia when having sex with a guy…or at all really.

:true:  Basically.

Sounds like it works for you ubbe45, and that's all that matters.

Exactly, but its nice to hear other peoples opinion….

I don't really get why you'd want to call it that generally. I can maybe see the appeal as part of a degradation/humiliation thing but honestly I don't really want to think of female genitalia when having sex with a guy…or at all really.

Its no humiliation or degradation for me. In our marriage he is the man and im….the women so too speak.

And yes, i wear thong or lacepanties under my regular clothes. I only have thongs, lacepanties and jockstraps as undergarments.

I have dress up for our older neighbour (widower) in his wifes lingerie. He missed his wife so mutch, and one night with wine and so he get to fuck me in his wifes lingerie. He had never been with a man, and he said i had the best mancunt anyone could ask for.

We had sex once or twice every few weeks for a couple of years. He is now dead, and at the memorial his kid, thanked my husband and me for taking care of him. He had a smile on the face again as his kid said, after being down so many years.

If the only knew why....

The one word I can't say without laughing is MANGINA.  :cheers:  :cheers:  :cheers:

I think it all depends on the delivery. I've heard it used sometimes and it's really fucking hot. Other times it sounds really cheesy.

If my husband would say he would like to have intercourse with my butt. I would laugh so hard that his cock would soften.

I like it when the bottom calls his hole a mancunt/manpussy etc when I bb them. I may call it that too.

We (me and my husband) use the word asspussy for my ass or asscunt (but in swedish it is rövfitta). When i talk about my ass in sexual context, i say pussy or cunt.

I like it when the bottom calls his hole a mancunt/manpussy etc when I bb them. I may call it that too.

hot!