Aggressiveness in a relationship
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aggressiveness is a male nature, especially in gay relationship, there are two males, each of them wants the initiative and controls, the best way to avoid this situation is one become obedient. in straight relationship here, females are always passive.
About your midnight incident, I think the first thing we need concern is ourselves safety, so in the case of danger, run is not a bad choice. They are two and may have knives or gun, you never known, unless you think you have above 70% chance to win.
there’s a Chinese proverb called 审时度势(shên shí duó shì) is about how to deal with incidentes.
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Nah, I've known plenty gay and straight couples that arent like this. This is just a stereotype.
In my case it was probably the wrong combination of characters. -
Maybe I just need to hear I'm not the only one recovering from such awful situations / bad relationships.
Maybe you just dated a narcissist.
Check this out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nRytEgABFuo&list=PLcjFWuvIFFzJr5eXvb4rG_F-68lw4TK4T
aggressiveness is a male nature, especially in gay relationship, there are two males, each of them wants the initiative and controls, the best way to avoid this situation is one become obedient. in straight relationship here, females are always passive.
Right.. Abuse is abuse!
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Post trauma I guess. Its the demons of the oast relationship. In time and with effort you will get over that.
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i think you should read about gaslighting. it seems like you are making parallells between a random encounter to what used to be your normal situation.
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aggressiveness is a male nature, especially in gay relationship, there are two males, each of them wants the initiative and controls, the best way to avoid this situation is one become obedient. in straight relationship here, females are always passive.
Oh my God. Should the "obedient" man also wear a dress and be the bottom? It's 2018 your attitudes don't reflect at all what I see in my life, like at all.
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No, you're not the only one. Sometimes it's good to have a bad experience as a reference to be able to appreciate the "right one".
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i think you should read about gaslighting. it seems like you are making parallells between a random encounter to what used to be your normal situation.
100%. This was my initial thought too.
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Sir, you live in a shithole country.
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I wish I could blame the economy for the incident!
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