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    Who was the first to know about your sexuality?

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      pukopoku
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      My female friends here as well

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        lambo360
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        I was basically forced to come out to my mom because I needed her to take me to my HIV appts… It was really rough , then she made me tell my dad - but they eventually just accepted me for who i am

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          calvingrey
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          A female friend. At first I told her as a joke to see her reaction. But found out she is cool. she rather enjoyed listening to my gay life when I came out to her.  ;D ;D

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            NeroBlack
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            First I started opening a anonymous account on Twitter. There I made a lots of friends who understood me. I'm from a little town in Andalusia (Spain) so the option of comming out so young was out of question. In the university I also made friends who know I'm gay, people on university are more open-minded (still there was some assholes, but only a few). The only person I have came out is my best friend (and after a few weeks he came out on me telling me he was bi LOL).

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              elysian
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              The first time I said it to someone (besides myself) was to a female coworker with whom I've had sex a few times. We were getting closer and when things started to get into romance I felt like I should just tell her that I'm more interested in man than in woman. I was very afraid of her reaction but I had nobody else with intimacy enough to tell this. She took it kinda of well, was supportive and didn't tell anyone about it (that I know of), but we got distant and I could see a bit of dissapointment in her. Life moved on anyway and I felt relieved to have told it to someone.

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                NickJakobs
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                Well first my parents , family, then later friends .

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                  vnemerald
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                  a classmate I was in love with

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                    Kipowen
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                    it depends on the person. if the person really feels he had to tell someone to relieve something then go for it

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                      SimonSaid
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                      A couple of girl friends in high school.

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                        raphjd Forum Administrator
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                        Besides the guy I was dating at the time, my boss and coworkers.

                        I got a job at a gay business.

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                          Oceanic81
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                          a good friend after that my family

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                            rossoneri
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                            its always the family  😮

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                              Waldo1215
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                              My boss, he put two and two together when a co-worker said I "only go on lunch to talk to a guy in the restaurant across the street".

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                                tiptoe88
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                                when i was a teenager i had a female best friend that simply figured it out and gave hints about it so one day i felt relaxed enough to tell her.

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                                  MIMIC880
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                                  My brother. I'm 34 and told him a few months ago.

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