Are there any advantages to being a homosexual rather than a heterosexual?
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heterosexual men have to work super hard to get sex with women and are constantly rejected
for the most parthomosexual men are able to find other men to have sex with with very little effort and are rarely rejected because the whole process is much more transparent from the beginning
forresponsibility is always expensive, have sex with woman will have a risk of unwanted pregnancy. but sex between two male don’t have this worry, sex just for fun like drinking alcohol or smoking, less responsibility more fun.
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On the sex part, There's that whole stigma which is true, but men biologically are engineered for sex.
On the relationship part, The biggest difference is if you are looking in the longrun…depending where you are (if gay marriage is permissible by law) if you would wanna get married have children, etc things like that. The major problem with gay relationships is cos men think with their dick more than their hearts...not to say that they aren't exceptions but this is generally true to my belief because when you know you have something strong solid and healthy going in a relationship in the longrun...the tendency to stay true to your partner outweighs the temptations of cheating.
Most long term homosexual relationships result in it being "open" or a "dont kiss and tell" policy or some where it becomes polygomous...
(just my personal thoughts to share, i don't intend to offend anyone on their believes)
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There are no advantages that I can think of.. Maybe the biggest advantage is that you get to live an authentic life.
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On the sex part, There's that whole stigma which is true, but men biologically are engineered for sex.
On the relationship part, The biggest difference is if you are looking in the longrun…depending where you are (if gay marriage is permissible by law) if you would wanna get married have children, etc things like that. The major problem with gay relationships is cos men think with their dick more than their hearts...not to say that they aren't exceptions but this is generally true to my belief because when you know you have something strong solid and healthy going in a relationship in the longrun...the tendency to stay true to your partner outweighs the temptations of cheating.
Most long term homosexual relationships result in it being "open" or a "dont kiss and tell" policy or some where it becomes polygomous...
(just my personal thoughts to share, i don't intend to offend anyone on their believes)
polygomous? no, some married couples becomes less sexual, after decades or have children. it’s no more fun and boring to have sex with same person, the only wants of sex every time is finished soon. i’m in that feelings for years. some of us put his attention to other parts of life, earn more money. and if you have children that’s the most killer for sex, your wife will pay all her love to her children instead of you, feed bay is very tired no time and mood to have sex.
so be a slut gay have at least advantage with sex life
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From a philosophical perspective, being a member of a minority opens our eyes more to the invisible issues of discrimination and bigotry when we otherwise may have been more blind and ignorant.
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Yeah, you can share clothes and other stuff (provided you are roughly the same height, weight and have similar tastes).
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Bro-jobs. It's so easy to get a much need bj when you're gay. Not getting oral sex is the number one complaint I hear from my straight friends while with Grinder stress relief is just around the corner… ::)
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Honestly, when I saw your question I thought of a comedy sketch with Jim Carrey (early in his career when he was still part of "In Living Color).
You can check it out on youtube; it's titled "Over-confident gay guy goes to a fast food restaurant". I'd post the link, but uh…I don't think the rules allows for such? (Not entirely sure, new here). It's worth checking out for the laughs.
In all seriousness, I really don't see any benefits of being gay - especially when you're born into an Asian family who has some expectation of you to continue the family line. You should be saying "there are no differences", but we're not at the point. I'd probably give a very facetious and comedic response.
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you get the best of both worlds..you can be physically strong yet you can be attuned to the feminine side
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As a bisexual who only dated women for two decades, I can't tell you how important this difference is: no risk of pregnancy!
Makes a big difference. -
Your partner cannot get pregnant. Unplanned pregnancy is a huge mess.
No periods, period. Well, not true for lesbians, of course, but they can synchronise.
You can always see, whether your partner enjoyed sex or not.
Similar mindset - it's easier to understand the person of same gender, usually.
If you're out, then no pestering with getting married and having children from relatives.
So, there are some advantages. Whether they outweight disadvantages is entirely diffrent matter.
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I think that one of the advantages of being gay is that you can discover the truth behind couples, i'd say when you are planning on the longrun, most gay couples find their "soul mates" if I can say. Indeed, gay couples tends to endure more than heterosexual couples. Even if both can be based on cheating, heterosexuals are more likely to cheat on their partner.
That's what I think
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I always answer that being gay makes you not give a fuck about other people's opinions. As a gay person you will be heavily judged by people around so you have to grow really big balls to defend yourself.
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From a philosophical perspective, being a member of a minority opens our eyes more to the invisible issues of discrimination and bigotry when we otherwise may have been more blind and ignorant.
This x 100
also this affects those close to you as well.. they become more open minded too - that is my experience
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I think that one of the advantages of being gay is that you can discover the truth behind couples, i'd say when you are planning on the longrun, most gay couples find their "soul mates" if I can say. Indeed, gay couples tends to endure more than heterosexual couples. Even if both can be based on cheating, heterosexuals are more likely to cheat on their partner.
That's what I think
I agree!
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You cant get pregnant….
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Are there any benefits in practice? I mean honestly, if I had the choice to choose before born, I would've chosen to be straight I'm afraid.
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