Coming out in 2017
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i don't think i am ready personally, but i think that if someone did it would be liberating!
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I came out to both of my parents in 2016 and it worked perfectly fine, so I'm glad I'm finally over with this! ;D ;D
The question you should ask yourself is not "is this the right time to come out?" but "am I ready to come out at this moment of time or not?". Unless you feel comfortable, don't do it! There is no reason to push it, just wait till the right moment comes. After all, you are going to remember this moment for the rest of your life, no matter what the outcome will be ::)Good luck and lots of positive vibes from me if you decide to do it!
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Thanks for your good advice !!
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That totally is good advice! It's not like a fine wine you can judge by the year – you have to judge it by you! And of course assess if you want to come out to the people you choose to, if you are safe doing so, and so forth. There are many considerations in thinking about coming out, but if you have decided you are ready and you feel the time is right, you should go for it! Best success to you.
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You are welcome! :hug:
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Any year is just as good as any to come out if your comfortable with doing it.
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Are you totally in the closet or do some people know? I recommend telling a friend or two before your family. It helps you to get used to that feeling.
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You need to feel comfortable. Always remember it's an irreversible decision. I'm not trying to scare you, because things tend to be pretty softer nowadays. Just don't do it forcibly
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… somethings are never confortable or never in the right time if it's going to be a pain and drive me mad... let's get it done it fast and stop procastinating and mental poisoning over it... it's your pick really you have to decide when it's the momment and why you are splurting it out... either you do get that perfect fealing of I can do this, everything is ok I'm strong or the 'fuck this shit, fuck you all, don't want it? Well screw you' and both are valid and have the same root you get self validation and stop listening to the polite social voice of perfectness.
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I just came out to my last cousin in 2017. He told me that I should have told him sooner instead of jeeping it to myself. I am so relieved that the last of the "kids" now know.
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do it when you r financially independent
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