How to get someone to bareback with you?

hhsq

Imho, the first step would be asking for him to be your boyfriend haha

slimsf888

I don't know, I've never tried to pressure someone into bareback. Lines that have been tried on me, though, include:

"I'm clean, I swear."
"You don't have to worry, I just recently tested neg."
"It'll be sooooo hot."
"I'm on PREP, so I can't get HIV."
"I'll just dip it in a second."

Or he just teases my hole with his bare cock, hoping I'll finally give into temptation and "slip up."

Sure, some of those techniques might work. But please don't. Consenting adults can do whatever they want, and if you find a guy who wants to bb as badly as you do, then more power to you. But if he doesn't want to - and he has very rational reasons not to - don't try to force the matter. Be a man and respect his wishes.

Nivalwolf

Amen to this^ and to what others have said

also, what is "PREP"?? ???

cannonmc

Pre-exposure prophylaxis

"the use of prescription drugs as a strategy for the prevention of HIV/AIDS by people who do not have HIV/AIDS. It is an optional treatment which may be taken by people who are HIV negative, but who have substantial, higher-than-average risk of contracting an HIV infection."

everyman

I prefer bareback but if He suggest condom it is His call. Not my place to try and change His mind.

jazzmale29

If you are only interested in Bareback sex there are many hook-up / dating sites that are for that purpose. Such as Barebackrt.com for one.
Just google it and it will pull up many sites for you to join and enjoy.

MrMazda

What about asking "will you do me bareback?"

There's nothing sexier than a guy who can be straight to the point about what he wants

aadam101

I make it very clear from the beginning that it's bb only. If he insists on a condom we don't have sex. No big deal.

pasha

just repeating what most people have said, ask straight up and don't try to wear them down until they give in

Briantheslag

I'm 100% bottom so the question of me wearing a condom doesn't arise.

However, when being fucked, I always tell the top(s) that I prefer to be bareback fucked as

I love the feeling of skin on skin and
The lubricants used on condoms causes me discomfort,

but that if they want to wear a condom then that is up to them.

I have found that when in a cruising area, 85% or more of the tops don't even ask about condoms - they just ram it in anyway. But that is the way I like it

aadam101

I don't think you should try to change a persons mind. There are plenty of people willing to bareback. Go have sex with one of them.

LeValle

I think today in the apps for meetings it is very easy to find.

seaguy11

Find them on BarebackRT.com for a hookup.

FlopFlop

Gosh…it is THEIR choice...not yours and trying to "convince" or even think of tricking someone into having unprotected sex is just the worst. Now go stand in a corner and look for guys who are already into bareback...

TheNewt

It's their choice. I have never done it raw/BB and this even includes when I was in a relationship/partnership as I've had ex's cheat on me.

Personally if someone wanted me to fuck them raw/BB as I'm a top, this happened once with a guy I dated decades ago who wanted me to help him cheat on his husband and wanted me to fuck him raw, I just say no thanks and that sex between us is never going to happen.

bluefeathers

idk

Dene

You don't.

there are 2 people involved in the sex (no matter how casual it is) and both should get a say in it. If you do not like it then politely tell him - sorry, i only bb, and get on with your day/night lol - plenty of bb fish in the sea

Dene

@MrMazda:

What about asking "will you do me bareback?"

There's nothing sexier than a guy who can be straight to the point about what he wants

There you again MrMazda.. throwing logic around like confetti.. lol