<![CDATA[How to get someone to bareback with you?]]>For me, bareback is default. What techniques do you use to get someone to bareback with you, if they want to use a condom?  :anal2:

#BBBH

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/29303/how-to-get-someone-to-bareback-with-youRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 08:17:33 GMTTue, 27 Dec 2016 04:29:16 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Thu, 23 Mar 2017 20:38:33 GMT]]>@MrMazda:

What about asking "will you do me bareback?"

There's nothing sexier than a guy who can be straight to the point about what he wants 😉

There you again MrMazda.. throwing logic around like confetti.. lol

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/208006https://community.gaytor.rent/post/208006Thu, 23 Mar 2017 20:38:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Thu, 23 Mar 2017 20:36:16 GMT]]>You don't.

there are  2 people involved in the sex (no matter how casual it is) and both should get a say in it. If you do not like it then politely tell him - sorry, i only bb, and get on with your day/night lol - plenty of bb fish in the sea  🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/208004https://community.gaytor.rent/post/208004Thu, 23 Mar 2017 20:36:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Thu, 23 Mar 2017 20:25:42 GMT]]>idk

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207998https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207998Thu, 23 Mar 2017 20:25:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Thu, 23 Mar 2017 18:38:51 GMT]]>It's their choice.  I have never done it raw/BB and this even includes when I was in a relationship/partnership as I've had ex's cheat on me.

Personally if someone wanted me to fuck them raw/BB as I'm a top, this happened once with a guy I dated decades ago who wanted me to help him cheat on his husband and wanted me to fuck him raw, I just say no thanks and that sex between us is never going to happen.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207977https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207977Thu, 23 Mar 2017 18:38:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Thu, 23 Mar 2017 15:19:39 GMT]]>Gosh…it is THEIR choice...not yours and trying to "convince" or even think of tricking someone into having unprotected sex is just the worst. Now go stand in a corner and look for guys who are already into bareback...

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207953https://community.gaytor.rent/post/207953Thu, 23 Mar 2017 15:19:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Fri, 10 Feb 2017 04:38:17 GMT]]>Find them on BarebackRT.com for a hookup.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/202141https://community.gaytor.rent/post/202141Fri, 10 Feb 2017 04:38:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Wed, 08 Feb 2017 14:36:12 GMT]]>I think today in the apps for meetings it is very easy to find.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201860https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201860Wed, 08 Feb 2017 14:36:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Mon, 06 Feb 2017 05:51:48 GMT]]>I don't think you should try to change a persons mind.  There are plenty of people willing to bareback.  Go have sex with one of them.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201523https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201523Mon, 06 Feb 2017 05:51:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Mon, 06 Feb 2017 05:45:03 GMT]]>I'm 100% bottom so the question of me wearing a condom doesn't arise.

However, when being fucked, I always tell the top(s) that I prefer to be bareback fucked as

  1. I love the feeling of skin on skin and
  2. The lubricants used on condoms causes me discomfort,

but that if they want to wear a condom then that is up to them.

I have found that when in a cruising area, 85% or more of the tops don't even ask about condoms - they just ram it in anyway. But that is the way I like it

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201521https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201521Mon, 06 Feb 2017 05:45:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Mon, 06 Feb 2017 04:49:50 GMT]]>just repeating what most people have said, ask straight up and don't try to wear them down until they give in

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201519https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201519Mon, 06 Feb 2017 04:49:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Wed, 18 Jan 2017 07:52:00 GMT]]>I make it very clear from the beginning that it's bb only. If he insists on a condom we don't have sex.  No big deal.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199381https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199381Wed, 18 Jan 2017 07:52:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Tue, 17 Jan 2017 02:25:39 GMT]]>What about asking "will you do me bareback?"

There's nothing sexier than a guy who can be straight to the point about what he wants 😉

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199194https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199194Tue, 17 Jan 2017 02:25:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Mon, 16 Jan 2017 18:04:49 GMT]]>If you are only interested in Bareback sex there are many hook-up / dating sites that are for that purpose. Such as Barebackrt.com for one.
Just google it and it will pull up many sites for you to join and enjoy.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199150https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199150Mon, 16 Jan 2017 18:04:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Mon, 16 Jan 2017 17:05:39 GMT]]>I prefer bareback but if He suggest condom it is His call. Not my place to try and change His mind.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199146https://community.gaytor.rent/post/199146Mon, 16 Jan 2017 17:05:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Sat, 31 Dec 2016 09:19:22 GMT]]>Pre-exposure prophylaxis

"the use of prescription drugs as a strategy for the prevention of HIV/AIDS by people who do not have HIV/AIDS. It is an optional treatment which may be taken by people who are HIV negative, but who have substantial, higher-than-average risk of contracting an HIV infection."

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196797https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196797Sat, 31 Dec 2016 09:19:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Sat, 31 Dec 2016 08:38:44 GMT]]>Amen to this^ and to what others have said

also, what is "PREP"?? ???

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196790https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196790Sat, 31 Dec 2016 08:38:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Sat, 31 Dec 2016 07:38:30 GMT]]>I don't know, I've never tried to pressure someone into bareback.  Lines that have been tried on me, though, include:

"I'm clean, I swear."
"You don't have to worry, I just recently tested neg."
"It'll be sooooo hot."
"I'm on PREP, so I can't get HIV."
"I'll just dip it in a second."

Or he just teases my hole with his bare cock, hoping I'll finally give into temptation and "slip up."

Sure, some of those techniques might work.  But please don't.  Consenting adults can do whatever they want, and if you find a guy who wants to bb as badly as you do, then more power to you.  But if he doesn't want to - and he has very rational reasons not to - don't try to force the matter.  Be a man and respect his wishes.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196784https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196784Sat, 31 Dec 2016 07:38:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Tue, 27 Dec 2016 20:49:52 GMT]]>Imho, the first step would be asking for him to be your boyfriend haha

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196222https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196222Tue, 27 Dec 2016 20:49:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Tue, 27 Dec 2016 06:09:00 GMT]]>um, you don't.You have to respect other people's wish to have sex with condoms.Hiv is not a laughing matter itself, but there are other diseases to worry about to.You should worry about yourself too, because you don't know how the other man is, and he may not even know it himself

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196105https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196105Tue, 27 Dec 2016 06:09:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to How to get someone to bareback with you? on Tue, 27 Dec 2016 05:01:18 GMT]]>Gee…I don't know...

See if they swallow the 'but with a condom I don't feel the same' excuse? How about the ' I run out of condoms but I'm so horny' one? Turn then on so much that their better judgement fails them?

Sorry, but in my book, trying to have someone do BB when they already stated they want to use condoms is pretty low.

Nowadays, concern for HIV and AIDS make condoms a rule of thumb.  Maybe in some 1st world nations where you have PrEP and can pay for your Truvada you can go and have bareback (provided you take the Truvada religiously).  Usually, individuals would rather choose condoms, specially with strangers, since you don't know if they really do PrEP or are 'clean' (people lie, and more so when it means having sex)

My only advice is that if you like BB so much it's mandatory, then find like-minded individuals who also only do BB.

If you find someone who really turns you on and you want to have sex with, and he asks you for a rubber (or brings his own) you either comply and have protected sex or make some believable excuse and go away.

Myself I won't rule BB out of my possibilities but in order to BB with someone I would need to really trust and know a person.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196098https://community.gaytor.rent/post/196098Tue, 27 Dec 2016 05:01:18 GMT