How to approach guys?

[bare4bear]

I suppose that if you're cruising at a gay bar, you're looking for sex and not a relationship. Is that true?
Your approach should probably be different if you want to try and eventually date the guy than if you were trying to have sex.

[upNXT]

Most interactions just start by saying "hi"…works just as well as any other method...

[Frederick]

I am not into cruising at all, but from conversations I've had with many people… when they go cruising at clubs, they quickly lose interest once they realize that everybody there who is cruising has fucked everybody else in the place already.  And then, the gossip and comparisons and rivalries kick in.  Oy vey!

[aadam101]

If you just want sex use an app.  It's quicker and you can get exactly what you want…...and you don't have to buy anybody a drink.

[Frederick]

@krish1:

I'm a South Asian guy who recently moved to UK. I was wondering how to approach guys at gay bars/pubs/clubs. I've never done that sort of thing back home as there were no gay clubs/bars in my home country. Any tips would be highly appreciated 

I have noticed one trick used by gay cruisers..  they go out with a dog… and they train the dog to approach cute guys...  which leads to small talk and then... slam, bam, that you Sam...

[dragonclaws]

Try to get a sense of dominance (alcohol does help) and approach the person with confident. You have to read his sign and see whether he's reciprocating or not. Also give them space

[krish1]

Thanks for the advice guys! Still trying to muster enough confidence to go and talk to a guy. I'm usually a shy person

[OklaBalmore]

@Frederick:

@krish1:

I'm a South Asian guy who recently moved to UK. I was wondering how to approach guys at gay bars/pubs/clubs. I've never done that sort of thing back home as there were no gay clubs/bars in my home country. Any tips would be highly appreciated 

I have noticed one trick used by gay cruisers..   they go out with a dog… and they train the dog to approach cute guys...  which leads to small talk and then... slam, bam, that you Sam...

That trick with the dog man #mindblown

[geniusacamel]

Thanks for the advice. I actually have a hard time looking for sex/relationship.

[Ononoke]

I think the most important thing is to make sure that he's gay. Otherwise things might end up as hell for you.
Unless you're a woman of course.

Oh, and single.

But yes, just like the other comments, try to just give the guy you like a smile. If he responds then you can proceed to the 'getting to know' part. If he doesn't, then he's obviously not interested in you, so don't try to pursue that guy anymore.