Does bottoming hurt?
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I've had three fuckbuddies.
One was a bit below average. I even asked the dreaded "Are you in?" question once.
The next was a bit above average with a good mushroom tip. It hurt going in, and when it popped through, then it didn't hurt at all, but made me feel full inside and massaged me nicely.
The last was really big and attached to a heavy guy who really liked to pound. It hurt me so that I was involuntarily moaning all while being fucked and my ass burned and tingled for a day afterward.I only fantasize about the last guy now.
But why would you prefer the last guy if it made you suffer so much? The second only made you feel pleasure If I understood correctly.
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I think he meant he won't have sex with the last guy again and its just limited to fantasizing.
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to me, yes
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Being a TOP, it would appear that now a days they want it to hurt or have instances of pleasure mixed with pain in an aggressive context to be remembered by. being a bottom is a lot of prep and very little effort as the TOP does all the work. In my many conquests I'd have to say that if it hurts, you should find a small, slender penis thats good for 50 pumps and pulls out…lol
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Versatile here, and I definitely do not enjoy pain. With proper lube and a guy who listens to feedback it is extremely pleasant. The first time I came solely from being fucked it was one of the most amazing orgasms ever (partially because I had no idea that was even possible). In fact, cumming from having your A-spot hit the right way is amazing no matter when it happens. Extremely intense, and often makes the guy cum with you at the same time.
Guys who enjoy pain have other issues, as do the ones who enjoy inflicting it.
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Yes it hurt me some times and some times it does not
So i guess finger your hole and prepare before any encounter -
not to me
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yes it does, at start and it can continue to hurt if the top does not take care of you right and understand your needs
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It depends on the top and how nervous/relaxed you are. Once I had a horrible experience and started bleeding a little, the top had an extremely thick cock. Sitting and pooping was a living hell. On the other hand, I hooked up with a guy who would put it in really smooth and then proceed to pound me like there is no tomorrow. No pain at all.
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If this is a survey type post… i vote NO - it doesn't hurt
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Nope.
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I bottomed few or more times in my life. Well hmm. It depends on your mental set-up too I guess. I'm more of a top so it hurt me actually but my last ex was really big. Like REALLY and well it was kind of uncomfortable but worth it. It wasn't some great feeling but I just kept coming and coming for more, I mean even though he didn't force me I would like to sit on his dick and let him fuck me. One of the last times we had sex I guess I adjusted cause it was really good. didn't have any prostate orgasm or smth (not in my whole life) but he did such a great job.
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It truly requires commitment from you and your partner to make it as painless as possible.
I started out as a total bottom, and the first time, it was with a guy who knew what he was doing. He got plenty of lube in me and on his cock and watched my reactions carefully. He eased it in gradually, and left it in when my sphincter was being stretched. It hurt at first, but I became accustomed to it rather quickly, as we stayed stationary until the initial wave of pain had passed. There was very little pain after that, as he gradually made his thrusts deeper so that I could acclimate to the feeling, and it felt so good. He made sure to be expressive because of my love for making other people happy, and I was so focused on how good the two of us were feeling that I came pretty quickly, setting him off.
My next encounter was the next night, with another guy, who didn't care about my pleasure. While his dick was shorter, it was fatter, and he didn't even lube up or give me any sort of warning. He just shoved it in and went to town. It was painful for far longer than it needed to be, and it only really started to feel good when he started to ooze copious amounts of precum in my ass. He kept pounding me for maybe twenty more seconds and then flipped me over and his cum gushed all over me. I realized that I have a huge fetish for cum and stayed the night. We did it again in the morning before I left for work, but I couldn't even enjoy it because my ass was so sore.
Eventually my body learned how to adapt to bottoming. I wish I knew what words to tell you, other than it takes time, and effort. Also, making the motion for pushing out while he's pushing in actually helps with getting it in deeper, since it widens the pathway. But my most important point is that it takes two to make it a pleasurable experience. Do it with someone who wants you to feel the least amount of pain and the most amount of pleasure. If you're choosing to do it with someone you love, then your goals should not be to get off, but to make the experience enjoyable for the other partner.
Btw, it turns out I'm versatile. And I'm really up for doing whatever I know will please my partner. Lately I've been topping so much that I'm starting to miss the awesome feeling of being a bottom.
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always hurt
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Yes A GOD DAMM LOOOOOOOT!
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It truly requires commitment from you and your partner to make it as painless as possible.
I started out as a total bottom, and the first time, it was with a guy who knew what he was doing. He got plenty of lube in me and on his cock and watched my reactions carefully. He eased it in gradually, and left it in when my sphincter was being stretched. It hurt at first, but I became accustomed to it rather quickly, as we stayed stationary until the initial wave of pain had passed. There was very little pain after that, as he gradually made his thrusts deeper so that I could acclimate to the feeling, and it felt so good. He made sure to be expressive because of my love for making other people happy, and I was so focused on how good the two of us were feeling that I came pretty quickly, setting him off.
My next encounter was the next night, with another guy, who didn't care about my pleasure. While his dick was shorter, it was fatter, and he didn't even lube up or give me any sort of warning. He just shoved it in and went to town. It was painful for far longer than it needed to be, and it only really started to feel good when he started to ooze copious amounts of precum in my ass. He kept pounding me for maybe twenty more seconds and then flipped me over and his cum gushed all over me. I realized that I have a huge fetish for cum and stayed the night. We did it again in the morning before I left for work, but I couldn't even enjoy it because my ass was so sore.
Eventually my body learned how to adapt to bottoming. I wish I knew what words to tell you, other than it takes time, and effort. Also, making the motion for pushing out while he's pushing in actually helps with getting it in deeper, since it widens the pathway. But my most important point is that it takes two to make it a pleasurable experience. Do it with someone who wants you to feel the least amount of pain and the most amount of pleasure. If you're choosing to do it with someone you love, then your goals should not be to get off, but to make the experience enjoyable for the other partner.
Btw, it turns out I'm versatile. And I'm really up for doing whatever I know will please my partner. Lately I've been topping so much that I'm starting to miss the awesome feeling of being a bottom.
Nice! I think you're a lucky person for being a versatile.
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Personally I think it depends completely on dick size. If it's big it's gonna hurt.
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It mostly hurts at the beginning but you hole is going to ease pretty fast if you're relaxed. What bothers me the most is the pain of the cock going too deep
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yes - it does!
But that is why I prefer to top! 
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I was bottoming in the beginning (I'm top now) so it hurted me the most first few times, then very soon it was much less (but still uncomfortable and little hurt) but I think all those guys who I was with were not putting enough lube in my ass - sometimes I was having sex without any lube and then 1 guy putted lots of lube in my ass and it didn't hurt me a bit, I was actually really enjoying it - it was magical!, so I think this was the KEY for minimum hurting and maximum enjoyment (but unfortunately I can't say for sure that this is the case cause I stopped bottoming soon after that experience so I think you should definitely try it and see if you'll have same reliefed experience as I did, I'd be glad to hear if that's gonna be a solution for you)!
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