If it really hurts then something is wrong.

If you get too overwhelmed, take a break and take some deep breaths until you're ready to try again.

;D

@burgercat:

I envy those who enjoys bottoming. I just cant get myself relaxed enough for penetration. Hurts so much everytime.

Bottoming is like riding a bike, tbh: the more that you try to do it, the more experience you will get, and the more relaxed you will get… and you'll be able to enjoy the experience.

;D

I envy those who enjoys bottoming. I just cant get myself relaxed enough for penetration. Hurts so much everytime.

Bottoming is like riding a bike, tbh: the more that you try to do it, the more experience you will get, and the more relaxed you will get… and you'll be able to enjoy the experience.

I envy those who enjoys bottoming. I just cant get myself relaxed enough for penetration. Hurts so much everytime.

same

@motri:

@Zeitgeist:

@everyman:

the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

And please don't use spit. That is the worst alternative for lube.

^-^

@motri:

@Zeitgeist:

@everyman:

the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

And please don't use spit. That is the worst alternative for lube.

YAAASSS absolutely does nothing.

you can try cooking oils which are safer….just make sure your partner or you dont have allergies to it.

@Zeitgeist:

@everyman:

the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

And please don't use spit. That is the worst alternative for lube.

@everyman:

the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

PREACH!!! cheap lube is better than no lube. your assholes will thank us.

the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

Please don't do this. Cum isn't a great lubricant (sidenote: shampoo is also a terrible lubricant), and using cum is a quick way to spread STIs. Be safe and be practical.

@spam17:

@everyman:

It does not usually hurt. Even the first time with a school mate when we didn’t know what we were doing wasn’t bad, but then we used over half a tube of lub. It was uncomfortable briefly but soon turned into a great feeling.  Just need to relax. If it is a very thick long one I find it better to straddle the guy and lower myself onto it a my rate. Once it is in He can flip me over and pound away without pain just that great feeling one gets.  Once the first guy cums in your aass the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

The rest?

How many do you have in mind?

:cheesy2:

Whoever is there

Btw You included your answer in my quote..

You should fix it..  ;/)

@everyman:

It does not usually hurt. Even the first time with a school mate when we didn’t know what we were doing wasn’t bad, but then we used over half a tube of lub. It was uncomfortable briefly but soon turned into a great feeling.  Just need to relax. If it is a very thick long one I find it better to straddle the guy and lower myself onto it a my rate. Once it is in He can flip me over and pound away without pain just that great feeling one gets.  Once the first guy cums in your aass the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

The rest?

How many do you have in mind?

:cheesy2:

Whoever is there

It does not usually hurt. Even the first time with a school mate when we didn’t know what we were doing wasn’t bad, but then we used over half a tube of lub. It was uncomfortable briefly but soon turned into a great feeling.  Just need to relax. If it is a very thick long one I find it better to straddle the guy and lower myself onto it a my rate. Once it is in He can flip me over and pound away without pain just that great feeling one gets.  Once the first guy cums in your aass the rest can following using his cum as lube without pain.  :anal2:

The rest?

How many do you have in mind?

:cheesy2:

Link: https://www.advocate.com/current-issue/2017/3/03/shame-free-tips-how-be-better-bottom

Bottoming is fantastic, and more people should open their minds (and their legs) because with the right preparation and the right person, the experience is mindblowingly good. Use plenty of lube and have faith.

:afr:

Bottoming is fantastic, and more people should open their minds (and their legs) because with the right preparation and the right person, the experience is mindblowingly good. Use plenty of lube and have faith.

When you first start, it might hurt a little bit. It is unconscious, but you can't fully relax your anus when you're trying out this new experience. You will always be a little bit nervous.

So, go generous on the lube! REALLY generous! Don't worry about exaggerating, when it comes to lube. At the penetration moment it might hurt, so go slow. Ask for a gentle slow fuck at first. After a while, when you're used to the sensation, then ask your partner to go wilder

If you bottom regularly, you will start to relax more, and your unconscious mind will start to relax as well, and it will not hurt so much anymore.

Best of luck, I hope you'll learn to enjoy bottoming as much as I do

;D