Is he gay or straight ? your opinion please!
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Does it really matter? Or better yet who cares.
He might be comfortable with you because he trust you, and just see it as getting comfy with a friend, and plain bonding.
There is this lady who wrote entire book on the subject of 'Brojobs' I'll post a link if I find it. -
Does it really matter? Or better yet who cares.
He might be comfortable with you because he trust you, and just see it as getting comfy with a friend, and plain bonding.
There is this lady who wrote entire book on the subject of 'Brojobs' I'll post a link if I find it.My thoughts exactly
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ask him ! really, its better !
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personally i think he may not be gay per se. he may be pansexual if you really want to label it. or if you believe in fluid sexuality theory that works as well.
personally i'd love it if another guy was gay just for me.it's quite flattering i think, but yeah. i see the problem especially if it's just a physical relationship and you may want more.
if i were in your shoes my move would be. to ask him as what the people here have said. but with added conditions.
mainly if he wants to be in a relationship with you. if he says yes, good for you. if he says no, i suggest stop sleeping with him. it will only hurt more as it goes along as such. if he says he needs time, give it to him but still stop sleeping with him. if he doesn't reply or ignores the conversation or even pretend said conversation didn't happen i suggest stop sleeping with him.
so basically stop sleeping with him.as for what people keep saying here about "male bonding" and "brojobs" i have nothing to add to that.
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Bisuexuality or simple curiosity. Who knows. It looks like he's confused by himself I think
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I agree with almost everything already said, however the only thing i would add is that you really need to find a new (or additional) partner/FBs whatever you want to call him/them. This guy is getting everything he wants from the current relationship…. it seems you want more.Â
He's not comfortable moving on to a deeper stage in your friendship, so you need to let him pursue his life & move on with yours. If you don't, you will always be second choice to his declared preference. If you do, he may discover that he actually does have strong feelings for you. You can still be friends, you can still play with each other, but what you are looking for is emotional/romantic attachment. He's telling you that he's not up for that so you need to go find it for yourself.
Either way, as it stands I can only see hurt & jealousy for you in the future if you don't try & find a relationship with some form of equality. There's plenty nice guys out there, go find one! -
Agree with rbs3i. There's rarely a plain black or white picture in these things. If he says he is attracted to females and not males, except with you; perhaps he is bisexual, with predominant interest in females?
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gay ofcouse isee
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we need more details about him to answer this question
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