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      theoneandlee
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      I think it can work but it takes a LOT of work.

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        loukou
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        Their is this guy I dated for 6 months he loves me and I do too but then I had to leave for one year for a job and we are now keeping a long distance relationship. We obviously talk day and night but it's killing me and I'm sort of panicking and thinking what if I haven't met him I don't know anything anymore help!!!

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          Ralf
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          My teacher always said: in a long-distance relationship , the four are happy

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            MrFabulous
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            Long distance is absolutely possible. My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for just over a year when we decided to move in together. Granted, it was just across the county. You would have to move all the way around the world… But maybe you could suggest that instead of pushing marriage? Just be open and honest about your feelings.

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              giovase
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              I Think that if you can't plan to be really together all become an ideal of what could be if, you fall in love of the possible future but not of the present.

              If you suffer the distance alot, maybe you deserve a real guy near you. The only thing that you cant recover is time, dont´t waste it.

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                raphjd Forum Administrator
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                It can work, but it's also stressful.  We used to do it a long time ago.

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                  aadam101
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                  There are lots of different types of relationships.  Are you still with him?

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                    alveer
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                    no

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                      melchore
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                      My husband and I started living together in 2011 after living apart since 1997 when we first started dating.  We have also lived in different states (he is CA and me in MI then him in MI and me in CA then him in MI and me in VA).  We finally got married last October after being together for 19 years.  It can work but takes a lot of work and communication.

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                        KissMyAirs
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                        Never works.

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                          jkronfuss
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                          I've tried with a Brazilian until a month ago and no, I would not do it again. I mean, really, how much can you talk through whatsapp during the day? It becomes boring at some point, and I'm not even going into the obvious point that you can't touch them nor hold them. Not to say anything about having sex.

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                            Cub2263
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                            Only be in an LDR if there is strong potential for the long-distance aspect to end. For example, waiting through college. Otherwise, it is not worth it. After all, you don't want your lifestyle to just be LDR.

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