<![CDATA[Long Distance Relationships]]>Hi guys there, I am on a LDR for about two years with a German guy, i'm mexican, I want to marry him, he is a bit usnure despite we met last year and he constantly tells me he loves me a lot and he liked our meeting.

Remember when we met at the airport we were so happy and when I departed i was crying all the long-haul flight, i miss him so much, touhg we have skype but nothing is like real closeness and contact with him.

I know it's hard but we have endured it for 2 years,

So wht at do you think of LDR, they can be sucessful or not?, how much would you "wait" (to be patient until you decide to get married)?
Have you had one?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/17773/long-distance-relationshipsRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 06:44:47 GMTMon, 18 May 2015 02:40:25 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Wed, 04 Dec 2019 02:06:13 GMT]]>Only be in an LDR if there is strong potential for the long-distance aspect to end. For example, waiting through college. Otherwise, it is not worth it. After all, you don't want your lifestyle to just be LDR.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/254038https://community.gaytor.rent/post/254038Wed, 04 Dec 2019 02:06:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Thu, 23 Nov 2017 04:37:54 GMT]]>I've tried with a Brazilian until a month ago and no, I would not do it again. I mean, really, how much can you talk through whatsapp during the day? It becomes boring at some point, and I'm not even going into the obvious point that you can't touch them nor hold them. Not to say anything about having sex.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/233079https://community.gaytor.rent/post/233079Thu, 23 Nov 2017 04:37:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Tue, 17 Oct 2017 17:53:58 GMT]]>Never works.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/230010https://community.gaytor.rent/post/230010Tue, 17 Oct 2017 17:53:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Sun, 27 Aug 2017 22:22:08 GMT]]>My husband and I started living together in 2011 after living apart since 1997 when we first started dating.  We have also lived in different states (he is CA and me in MI then him in MI and me in CA then him in MI and me in VA).  We finally got married last October after being together for 19 years.  It can work but takes a lot of work and communication.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/226205https://community.gaytor.rent/post/226205Sun, 27 Aug 2017 22:22:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:33:09 GMT]]>no

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/224173https://community.gaytor.rent/post/224173Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:33:09 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Mon, 06 Feb 2017 06:07:52 GMT]]>There are lots of different types of relationships.  Are you still with him?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201529https://community.gaytor.rent/post/201529Mon, 06 Feb 2017 06:07:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Wed, 04 Jan 2017 08:22:50 GMT]]>It can work, but it's also stressful.  We used to do it a long time ago.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/197363https://community.gaytor.rent/post/197363Wed, 04 Jan 2017 08:22:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Tue, 03 Jan 2017 16:21:16 GMT]]>I Think that if you can't plan to be really together all become an ideal of what could be if, you fall in love of the possible future but not of the present.

If you suffer the distance alot, maybe you deserve a real guy near you. The only thing that you cant recover is time, dont´t waste it.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/197266https://community.gaytor.rent/post/197266Tue, 03 Jan 2017 16:21:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Tue, 17 Nov 2015 08:00:53 GMT]]>Long distance is absolutely possible. My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for just over a year when we decided to move in together. Granted, it was just across the county. You would have to move all the way around the world… But maybe you could suggest that instead of pushing marriage? Just be open and honest about your feelings.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157426https://community.gaytor.rent/post/157426Tue, 17 Nov 2015 08:00:53 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Wed, 28 Oct 2015 15:23:16 GMT]]>My teacher always said: in a long-distance relationship , the four are happy

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/153070https://community.gaytor.rent/post/153070Wed, 28 Oct 2015 15:23:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Sun, 25 Oct 2015 13:21:06 GMT]]>Their is this guy I dated for 6 months he loves me and I do too but then I had to leave for one year for a job and we are now keeping a long distance relationship. We obviously talk day and night but it's killing me and I'm sort of panicking and thinking what if I haven't met him I don't know anything anymore help!!!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/152040https://community.gaytor.rent/post/152040Sun, 25 Oct 2015 13:21:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Wed, 08 Jul 2015 02:17:50 GMT]]>I think it can work but it takes a LOT of work.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/136288https://community.gaytor.rent/post/136288Wed, 08 Jul 2015 02:17:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Sat, 04 Jul 2015 06:12:01 GMT]]>I wouldn't marry anybody until I've lived with them for at least a year. LDRs can work and be very beautiful, but marriage is another thing. While your visits may be great, that's not the same as living with someone and in my opinion that's how you really get to know a partner. How does he handle household finances, can you agree on household decisions, how is our chemistry after spending everyday seeing each other?

This is just my opinion and experience.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/135745https://community.gaytor.rent/post/135745Sat, 04 Jul 2015 06:12:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Sat, 23 May 2015 15:36:17 GMT]]>I can't do LDR's but I know multiple people who met their partners and started on a LDR before moving together.

FYI to get a job in Germany, you'll need apply for a work visa first.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130494https://community.gaytor.rent/post/130494Sat, 23 May 2015 15:36:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Thu, 21 May 2015 01:23:35 GMT]]>Thank you for you support i know is hard but but not impossible

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129954https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129954Thu, 21 May 2015 01:23:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Thu, 21 May 2015 00:09:25 GMT]]>Definitely try to be happy as much as possible. If you're sad all the time, then the relationship will just be memories of sadness and what could've been. But yea good luck for the both of you!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129945https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129945Thu, 21 May 2015 00:09:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Mon, 18 May 2015 04:24:26 GMT]]>Sometimes i feel sad because the distance between us, but try to be happy for what i have

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129508https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129508Mon, 18 May 2015 04:24:26 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Mon, 18 May 2015 03:10:06 GMT]]>Yes sometimes it is scary but I have confidence on my guy that he will finally accept, I tried searching for a job in Germany but is harder than marriage. He told me there is near his home a gay center where they offer legal advice, but he hasn't told me more (if he made an appointment with the lawyer or not).

He knows i am not after the papers, that i love him unconditionally as he does for me. For being two years i think is going fine, because i had one that lasted one year and we had to say goodbye because he got desperated (he was als german :D, and chubby with nice vbeard)

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129503https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129503Mon, 18 May 2015 03:10:06 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Long Distance Relationships on Mon, 18 May 2015 03:01:43 GMT]]>Personally I think they can be successful as long as you love each other unconditionally. I'm in an LDR myself, partnered with a German guy as well ^.^  Sure it's definitely not like physical contact, but knowing that we are there for each other, being able to treasure my partner more when we finally reunite, realising that these things are not to be taken for granted, these things are special connections that only LDR couples experience as we treasure each other more when together. Wow that's so cheesy sorry! But yea we have talked about marriage and the future, and although it's scary, I know that at the end of the tunnel, I will be on a one way ticket to him. 🙂 Hope this helps!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129501https://community.gaytor.rent/post/129501Mon, 18 May 2015 03:01:43 GMT