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    Can There Be Two Tops in a Relationship?

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    • MrMazdaM Offline
      MrMazda Global Moderator
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      I don't know so much about two tops, but I do have experience with relationships involving two bottoms… Apparently, it can actually work.

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        Duvet
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        Well as long as there is love in there, AND as long as they can be satisfied just with games and all then why not?

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          LEVI
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          Sexual roles do not define a relationship. Sex doesn't have to be a part of a relationship either. There can be many ways to express yourselves sexually. You just have to find what works best for the both of you.

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            lockedbashed
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            its not possible for a long time..

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              scramer
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              It is possible but it takes work. Two bottoms have an easier time together than two tops, IMO.

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              • CitizenXYC Offline
                CitizenXY
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                I think it is possible if u really want to stay with the other person.

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                • shdwrulrS Offline
                  shdwrulr
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                  My husband and I have been together for just shy of 10 years now. We are both tops.  We don't really fuck much. On occasion (like his birthday) I may bottom.

                  Currently we are working on finding a regular bottom for whenever we want to top a guy. Be aware this method is not for everyone and requires trust and lots of dialog.It also requires both partners being mature enough to handle such a situation.

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                    PerrykJohns
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                    I am unable to picture a relationship that houses two tops lasting for any considerable length of time.

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                      f3st3n
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                      I've been in a relationship with another top for five years. It hasn't been easy but with trust and a lot of dialogue we've managed to enjoy ourselves sexually and recognize all the other things that make us happy.

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                        joaosilvasil
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                        Yes. A relationship is not only about sex. Even if it is only a sexual relationship you can do so much without actual penetration, and you can always add a 3 person.

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                          Ripley
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                          For a stable relationship, when they LOVE each other of course. They can be the Top and the bottom for each other, even if you don't enjoy something as much as the other. I don't understand why being a bottom is so difficult for a top when you are in a serious loving relationship. I can comprehend if the person don't feel pleasure, but, come on, is your partner, it's about doing things for each other. And if you both find the idea of being penetrated so terrifying and painful, you could try lots of different ways, be creative.

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                            janitorjames
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                            Sustaining relationships sometimes means sacrifices. As long as one of them is willing to submit his joy in sex-life, yes, sure, there can be.

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                              I guess so

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                                jonas32
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                                In my and my husbands opinion: NO. We cant see how it could work.

                                I am 100% bottom and have no interest what so ever to top. And my husband is 100 top and he has absolutly no interest to bottom.

                                And we have a wonderful lovelife and sexlife.

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                                  spam17
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                                  @janitorjames:

                                  Sustaining relationships sometimes means sacrifices. As long as one of them is willing to submit his joy in sex-life, yes, sure, there can be.

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                                  @jonas32:

                                  In my and my husbands opinion: NO. We cant see how it could work.

                                  I am 100% bottom and have no interest what so ever to top. And my husband is 100 top and he has absolutly no interest to bottom.

                                  And we have a wonderful lovelife and sexlife.

                                  ???

                                  @I:

                                  If they don't always act as a top, why not?

                                  😉

                                  It seems that my position is compatible with both other ones..  😛

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                                    tony666
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                                    Ofc it can

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                                      Bearson
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                                      nothing is impossible, sex is not everything trust me 🙂

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                                        wittysimba
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                                        If someone gives up, and he is vers, then why not?

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                                          arctic9
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                                          Everyone just needs to learn to take turns 😛

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                                            revenger
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                                            Already had something like that. It's terrible, i was never complete in sex. Besides he was and amazing company.

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