Can There Be Two Tops in a Relationship?

andymyn

spam17

If they don't always act as a top, why not?

danijelr15

@andymyn:

Can There Be Two Tops in a Relationship?

Can you plug one electric plug into another? $:-\$

uzuzjh

anything goes! they just need another hole from time to time…

Nagamaki

A relationship can be more than 2 people, or 2 people can play with a 3rd bttm so it can be done. Even asexuals have relationships with people who are sexual.

MrMazda

I don't know so much about two tops, but I do have experience with relationships involving two bottoms… Apparently, it can actually work.

Duvet

Well as long as there is love in there, AND as long as they can be satisfied just with games and all then why not?

LEVI

Sexual roles do not define a relationship. Sex doesn't have to be a part of a relationship either. There can be many ways to express yourselves sexually. You just have to find what works best for the both of you.

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lockedbashed

its not possible for a long time..

scramer

It is possible but it takes work. Two bottoms have an easier time together than two tops, IMO.

CitizenXY

I think it is possible if u really want to stay with the other person.

shdwrulr

My husband and I have been together for just shy of 10 years now. We are both tops. We don't really fuck much. On occasion (like his birthday) I may bottom.

Currently we are working on finding a regular bottom for whenever we want to top a guy. Be aware this method is not for everyone and requires trust and lots of dialog.It also requires both partners being mature enough to handle such a situation.

PerrykJohns

I am unable to picture a relationship that houses two tops lasting for any considerable length of time.

f3st3n

I've been in a relationship with another top for five years. It hasn't been easy but with trust and a lot of dialogue we've managed to enjoy ourselves sexually and recognize all the other things that make us happy.

joaosilvasil

Yes. A relationship is not only about sex. Even if it is only a sexual relationship you can do so much without actual penetration, and you can always add a 3 person.

Ripley

For a stable relationship, when they LOVE each other of course. They can be the Top and the bottom for each other, even if you don't enjoy something as much as the other. I don't understand why being a bottom is so difficult for a top when you are in a serious loving relationship. I can comprehend if the person don't feel pleasure, but, come on, is your partner, it's about doing things for each other. And if you both find the idea of being penetrated so terrifying and painful, you could try lots of different ways, be creative.

janitorjames

Sustaining relationships sometimes means sacrifices. As long as one of them is willing to submit his joy in sex-life, yes, sure, there can be.

kagaminelen

I guess so

jonas32

In my and my husbands opinion: NO. We cant see how it could work.

I am 100% bottom and have no interest what so ever to top. And my husband is 100 top and he has absolutly no interest to bottom.

And we have a wonderful lovelife and sexlife.

spam17

@janitorjames:

Sustaining relationships sometimes means sacrifices. As long as one of them is willing to submit his joy in sex-life, yes, sure, there can be.

:cheers:

@jonas32:

In my and my husbands opinion: NO. We cant see how it could work.

I am 100% bottom and have no interest what so ever to top. And my husband is 100 top and he has absolutly no interest to bottom.

And we have a wonderful lovelife and sexlife.

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@I:

If they don't always act as a top, why not?

It seems that my position is compatible with both other ones..