Sex!!! Condom or bareback?
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For me, condoms for blow jobs are unnecessary. The science is sufficient to show your mouth to be chemically incompatable. So unless you've an open sore in your mouth, or bleeding gums, I'm not worrying about blow jobs.
But that is just me.
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always condoms :blownose:
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condom is mandatory, bareback only if i know my partner is tested…
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Most of my life was bareback
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Always condom except in a serious relationship.
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Always with condom!
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Actually I think there is a survey suggesting that in your combination of hiv status and top and bottom unprotected sex could improve your resistance to hiv through a slight exposition to the virus in non-infecting amounts. Like a vaxine, if you will. But I only remember reading of one survey and it also stressed out that this was not without risk.
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I prefer bareback whether I'm top or bottom. It has to be one gorgeous cock for me to suck it with a condom on! Usually, I find it not worth the effort.
Others have described the difference in feeling and I agree with the ones who've said that it feels much better; hotter!
If my play partner wants to use condoms, I respect that and we'll play wrapped. As long as the decision to go raw or wrapped is an informed one, honestly made, fully taking into account any and all possible outcomes, I respect that decision. As such, I'd hope that anyone I encounter would similarly respect my decision, even if they disagree.
There's always the option of saying, "Thanks, but no thanks," and walking away.
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bareback all the way….
it feels right -
condom with a unknow , bareback with my boyfriend
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I used to have a rule i'd top bare if the guy wanted and id bottom bare if i felt comfortable with the guy cause aids transmission is far more likely from top to bottom than it is from bottom to top.. anyway long story short met a guy who was into some of the more obscure fetishes i am let him top me bare with his magic penis and got the clap from him… twice oops any way now i only play safe and with a small group of people
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Always comdom, even in a relationship
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The majority of the posts have been "Always use a condom unless you and your boyfriend are tested" From what i read they are tested, Top is Neg, bottom is Poz.
Now let talk about risk, everything you do in life has a risk, something more than others. Living in LA has a risk, so does living in the country. Just different risks. Not too many street gangs in rural Wyoming, there again few people have been killed by a tractor in downtown LA.
If you are Neg and a Top you partner is Poz, bottom and undetectable they chances of the Top contrating HIV is so so small it is almost not work talking about. If the bottom was Neg and the Top Poz and undetectable current stats suggest that the chances of the bottom contracting HIV are small. That being said the statistics are only suggesting this, no formal study has been done for obvious reasons. HIV follows the line of the body fluids, so if the Top is fucking the bottom 99% of the fluids are going Top to bottom. There are issues like Tops with foreskins (wash under your hood good after just to make sure none of the bottoms fluids remain)
In the end, we all have to decide what risks are acceptable and which ones are not.
Oh and for the record. The pups Master fucks it bareback all the time using only spit for lube, pup alergic to most lubes, has been for 5 years now and he is still Neg. Your milage may vary….
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a guy who says he's negative is only as accurate as his last HIV test (which itself may only have been accurate a few weeks before the test actually happened)
So unless he's been celibate since the test before last (and can prove it) assume he's positive and you'll not put yourself at riskpersonally I bareback whenever I can, and much prefer it
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In a monogamous relationship bareback is fine. Otherwise definitely use a condom. HIV is always on the rise, parts of London it's as high as 1 in 7, it really isn't worth the risk.
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i like barback, and enjoy watchin bareback movies only.
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Always prefer bare with poz guys like me …
Always safe with others. Unless they insist ....
Yes there is always a risk of STD's, but I get regularly tested 3 - 4 times a year.
I am together with my poz hubby for 28 years now
For me the safe sex campaigns late '80 - '90's didn't bother me at that time. My relationship at that time was very close and monogamous and always without condoms.
By the time we started to experiment (now some 10 years ago) playing safe was frustrating, we both didn't manage to do that.
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On my end I always go Safe unless I trust the person well enough… like into a relationship for a considered amount of time.
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Sex parties with lots of twinks, top and bottom with loads of tasty cum, all devoted to pleasure sharing ! :cheesy2:
Oh wait ! That's a fantasy in an ideal world with no STD.MrMazda already said everything about HIV. Moreover, there is not only HIV, there are a few other nasty STDs…
So always condom for oral and anal, whether top or bottom. In case of a trustful long-term relation, I may leave the condom for oral sex, if no cum in mouth.
Trustful is a lovely word. But it can't protect me if my partner eventually cheats ! -
condom free but I've been with my partner for 14 years now , condoms just don't feel right :hug2: :hug2: :hug2: :hug2:
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