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    Would you date a smoker?

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    • quetdiQ Offline
      quetdi
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      My partner is a smoker.Thank God he smokes just a few cigarettes a day so its not a big problem for me (im non-smoker). He asked me if I want him to stop smoking.I said him : "If you want to stop smoking you will quit it automatically by yourself."
      I just love him so much and dont want to inhibit his life. Yes, I`m an easygoing one and can respect my partner.

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        nordicblue
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        @jay1:

        nope
        not only the smell, and that's a good reason
        but the money, smoking is wasting a lot of money

        Exactly, the reason why the graph tapers a little at the beginning is because those who make under $6,000 can't afford buy expensive cigarettes.  In addition to that, since they are expensive, it decreases your already meager income.

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        • groovedwareG Offline
          groovedware
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          Meh.  Sure smoking is a waste of money but then so are a lot of other habits.  I'd go so far as to wager there are stinkier habits that are a far bigger waste of money.

          Would you date a guy who loved eating Durian?

          "Look at me don't look at me beep beep"

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            Louism
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            I like durian, so I don't mind.  😉

            I would mind if he eats durian daily or addicts to eating durian, though.  :laugh:

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              nordicblue
              last edited by

              Durians wont kill you and cigarettes will.  However, be my guest if you wish to do that.  It will make more room for the rest of us.

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                lawyer72us
                last edited by

                I've married one 😉

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                  Masonmason
                  last edited by

                  I would date someone who vapes pot/tobacco etc. But smoking pipes hookahs bongs etc, does too much damage to the body and kissing them feels like kissing an ashtray usually so no smoking.

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                    fishie
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                    If it was weed, hell yeah, light me up a J  :hug2: If he did it casually I'd be fine, but
                    if he was a hardcore stoner then no.
                    If it was cigarettes then absolutely not…

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                      Masonmason
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                      @fishie:

                      If it was weed, hell yeah, light me up a J  :hug2: If he did it casually I'd be fine, but
                      if he was a hardcore stoner then no.
                      If it was cigarettes then absolutely not…

                      I here you I once dated a guy who smoked an ounce a week NEVER AGAIN.

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                        nordicblue
                        last edited by

                        I say keep it up because it culls the herd.  Vape on my friends, waste your money. $$$

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                          darkdream7
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                          No  :afr2:

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                          • groovedwareG Offline
                            groovedware
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                            Fortunately none of the non-smokers here will have to worry about dating the smoker in me because I tend to not date guys who have set up boundaries for themselves.  Excluding yourself from possibilities be they based on smoking, age, race or any other wild generalizations only limits you.

                            "Look at me don't look at me beep beep"

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                              cannonmc
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                              On the other hand there is no  point pretending that you will fancy everyone you meet. So know your limits to start with, per haps 🙂

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                                tuckstee
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                                No smokers for me ; (

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                                  nordicblue
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                                  @groovedware:

                                  Fortunately none of the non-smokers here will have to worry about dating the smoker in me because I tend to not date guys who have set up boundaries for themselves.  Excluding yourself from possibilities be they based on smoking, age, race or any other wild generalizations only limits you.

                                  I don't think avoiding second hand smoke or smoking has limited my life.  That would be rather tragic to believe that not dating an 80 year old man or smoking has limited you in some way.  Then again, I don't know people's current state of affairs, this could perhaps be an improvement for them.

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                                  • groovedwareG Offline
                                    groovedware
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                                    @cannonmc:

                                    On the other hand there is no  point pretending that you will fancy everyone you meet. So know your limits to start with, per haps 🙂

                                    True but limiting yourself by putting barriers of exclusion up means you might miss out.  Perhaps it's my inner slut but I cast a wide net, fish can always be thrown back.

                                    "Look at me don't look at me beep beep"

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                                      nordicblue
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                                      @groovedware:

                                      @cannonmc:

                                      On the other hand there is no  point pretending that you will fancy everyone you meet. So know your limits to start with, per haps 🙂

                                      True but limiting yourself by putting barriers of exclusion up means you might miss out.  Perhaps it's my inner slut but I cast a wide net, fish can always be thrown back.

                                      Yes, and as I stated, I don't feel I am missing out when it comes to cigarettes, cigars, "weed", illicit substances, thrill seeking behaviors and dating chubby, hairy or old people.  I am happy you cast a wide net, but for me, I will stick with my fine tuned net.  I rarely have to throw my fish back out to sea this way.

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                                      • groovedwareG Offline
                                        groovedware
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                                        More for me  :cheesy2:

                                        Your fish sound very dull and plain indeed.

                                        Norm life baby "we're white and oh so hetero and our sex is missionary."
                                        Norm life baby "we're quitters and we're sober our confessions will be televised."

                                        from "I don't like the drugs (but the drugs like me)" - Marilyn Manson

                                        I got a smoker over the holidays and my non-smoking friends seem to be enjoying the results from said smoker…

                                        "Look at me don't look at me beep beep"

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                                          pittstop17
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                                          Maybe not. I have asthma.

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                                            cureton
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                                            never i can't stand the smell of cigarretes, let alone another substances

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