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    Would you date a smoker?

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      nmd Banned
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      In my first relationship, we had three rules that would lead to immediately ending the relationship.  (It lasted 4 years.)

      • No Violence
      • No Smoking
      • No Cheating

      Listed in order of perceived severity.

      I grew up in a house of chain smokers where I fled the main rooms as much as possible to try and breath (asthma runs in my family)…  I NEVER saw the appeal of a cigarette... and certainly never the second hand smoke...

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        chatnoire
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        I'm a non smoker, and I would never date a smoker. I put this requirement in my dating profile as well as I really hate smokers..

        A smoker would be more okay to date smokers, but non-smokers tend to not want to date smokers.

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          eurostud29
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          @Awari:

          I'm not a very judgemental person, so I think I would.

          Smoking refers to cigars, cigarettes, & cannabis.

          Would be hard for me, as the smell of cold-smike or cigarettes is a turn-off for me.
          I have date a few smokers, and kissing a smoker to me felt like kissing an ash-tray.
          If the guy is mega-cute and nice, it would be a challenge for me.

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            yalenxxx
            last edited by

            i don't care if i like him..  😛

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              Louism
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              Pass. I can't stand kissing them.  :-[

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                nordicblue
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                Washington, D.C. – The Gallup-Healthways Well-Being Index is helping to crystallize the relationship between income and smoking in the United States.

                While researchers for Gallup and the Centers for Disease Control have previously documented higher smoking rates among lower-income Americans, the current results based on interviews with more than 75,000 individuals across the United States allow for a closer examination of the relationship between household income and smoking behavior.

                Nationwide, the Gallup-Healthways Well-Being Index reveals that 21% of Americans say they smoke. As the accompanying graph illustrates, the likelihood of smoking generally increases as annual incomes decrease. One exception to this pattern occurs among those making less than $6,000 per year, an income bracket often skewed because many in that bracket are students. Among those making $6,000 to $11,999 per year, 34% say they smoke, while only 13% in the top two income brackets (those with incomes of at least $90,000 per year) say the same – a 21 percentage-point gap.

                The Well-Being Index also confirms distinctions in U.S. smoking rates relating to gender and race. Among respondents, 23% of men and 19% of women say they smoke. Blacks are the most likely to smoke (23%) and Asians are least likely to smoke (12%). Hispanics and whites fall in between, at 17% and 20%, respectively.

                Interestingly, smoking rates in the United States are similar to those around the world. Across 118 different countries Gallup surveyed in 2006 and 2007, a median percentage of 22% said they smoked the day before the survey. At the high end, 50% of people in Turkey said they smoked. At the low end, 6% in Nigeria said the same.

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                  jay1
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                  nope
                  not only the smell, and that's a good reason
                  but the money, smoking is wasting a lot of money

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                    bearhairy
                    last edited by

                    no

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                      quetdi
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                      My partner is a smoker.Thank God he smokes just a few cigarettes a day so its not a big problem for me (im non-smoker). He asked me if I want him to stop smoking.I said him : "If you want to stop smoking you will quit it automatically by yourself."
                      I just love him so much and dont want to inhibit his life. Yes, I`m an easygoing one and can respect my partner.

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                        nordicblue
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                        @jay1:

                        nope
                        not only the smell, and that's a good reason
                        but the money, smoking is wasting a lot of money

                        Exactly, the reason why the graph tapers a little at the beginning is because those who make under $6,000 can't afford buy expensive cigarettes.  In addition to that, since they are expensive, it decreases your already meager income.

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                        • groovedwareG Offline
                          groovedware
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                          Meh.  Sure smoking is a waste of money but then so are a lot of other habits.  I'd go so far as to wager there are stinkier habits that are a far bigger waste of money.

                          Would you date a guy who loved eating Durian?

                          "Look at me don't look at me beep beep"

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                            Louism
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                            I like durian, so I don't mind.  😉

                            I would mind if he eats durian daily or addicts to eating durian, though.  :laugh:

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                              nordicblue
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                              Durians wont kill you and cigarettes will.  However, be my guest if you wish to do that.  It will make more room for the rest of us.

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                                lawyer72us
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                                I've married one 😉

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                                  Masonmason
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                                  I would date someone who vapes pot/tobacco etc. But smoking pipes hookahs bongs etc, does too much damage to the body and kissing them feels like kissing an ashtray usually so no smoking.

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                                    fishie
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                                    If it was weed, hell yeah, light me up a J  :hug2: If he did it casually I'd be fine, but
                                    if he was a hardcore stoner then no.
                                    If it was cigarettes then absolutely not…

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                                      Masonmason
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                                      @fishie:

                                      If it was weed, hell yeah, light me up a J  :hug2: If he did it casually I'd be fine, but
                                      if he was a hardcore stoner then no.
                                      If it was cigarettes then absolutely not…

                                      I here you I once dated a guy who smoked an ounce a week NEVER AGAIN.

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                                        nordicblue
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                                        I say keep it up because it culls the herd.  Vape on my friends, waste your money. $$$

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                                          darkdream7
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                                          No  :afr2:

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                                            groovedware
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                                            Fortunately none of the non-smokers here will have to worry about dating the smoker in me because I tend to not date guys who have set up boundaries for themselves.  Excluding yourself from possibilities be they based on smoking, age, race or any other wild generalizations only limits you.

                                            "Look at me don't look at me beep beep"

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