Is a friend Gay!?

[tertern]

Hello, I believe a friend is gay, but I'm not sure…
He don't know that I'm (I never told him)
I would know strategies to know if he is gay.
When he was drunk, he makes me a toast in my birthday, telling some things like "You are my best friend,..., u have a sexy beard,... good ass..." Was all jokes? not sure

[2222]

To make sure that he is gay or not is by having a good and effective conversation, and ask him.

I suggest that because guessing someone is gay or not just too exhausting, because many strategies but there is no valid and reliable way.

It happened to my once, one of my best friend. I'm tried of my suspicious mind and people that asking the same question to me about him (because I'm his closest friend). So, in one cloudy morning I asked him. Its hard, but then its clear, he's not gay. I don't care if he's very closet guy or true "straight" guy, but I heard him its no and I believe him.

PS: I came out to him long time before asking him about the issue.

[mcmxc1983]

is it important?

[masterjackha]

you may just go with it or directly ask him… after all he is your friend.

[chocho]

lol, i thought my friend was gay too…i tried all my strategies to see if he admits or tries anything...but in the end he really starting freaking out and realised i was gay...there came a point where he actually said "im not gay"...instead of going for a friend like this its better to go for the ones you're absoultely sure about...with confidence and PRIDE  :crazy2:

[nordicblue]

I don't think asking someone if they are gay is the best way?  It is possible they are a closet case.  I know someone that is married to a woman and seems to be extremely charismatic with the ladies but acts extremely tongue tied or says awkward things when he talks to me.  He has trouble looking me in the eye when we are talking.