Sex on the first date??
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This guy and I picked each other up on the sidewalk after the bar had closed for a one night stand… and it lasted for 18 years. We talked on the walk back to his place, and then for another two hours before we took our clothes off. The sex is going to happen at some point and I do not think it matters when. If the relationship lasts depends on if the sex is good enough and if you have things to talk about before, after and even during the sex. In my limited experience, it is when the talking stops that the relationship ends (or does even start).
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
LOL!! You so funny!!
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
I want us to be connected both physically and mentally
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Whatever floats your boat. I guess intimacy also adds some spice.
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
I want us to be connected both physically and mentally
And what's the reason that makes you think you can't be connected in flesh & mind with your sex partner at the first date? Your personal experience? If this the reason, I respect you, but mine, it's totally opposed of yours.
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i had sex on several first dates
… and most of it was awesome ... -
I envyyyyyyyy! :cry2:
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My friend has a saying about sex on the first date. Try it before you buy it. It is better to know early on if the physical connection/fun will be right for you.
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Sex on the first date is a must unless you met on internet and suddenly the guy appears to be really unattractive.
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On second thought, if you planning a one night stand, then sex on first date works just fine.
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I'm afraid that I ALWAYS have sex on a first date, just discuss it and do it, if you are sexually incompatible then the relationship might struggle on for a bit, but it's not going to last properly.
Open frank discussion is far better than being coy -
Preferably I would like sex on the first date. you can just break down so many barriers after a fuck and things just seem so much more open. That being said I don't mind not having sex till after the first date but don't keep me waiting too long
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Sex on the first date?? No, thx
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I don't think this question has a universal answer. I guess it all depends on your cultural surrounding… your country, province, city. Some places are more conservatives. Having sex on a first day in a big metropolis such as NYC, London, São Paulo, etc will be judged by society in a different way as doing the same in a country village of - I guess - nearly any country. But the most important thing is: who is actually judjing on that? Society or yourself?
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:true:
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Sadly there is no definite answer to your questions. Some people will meet up and immediatly have sex before they even say two words to each other and will be together for decades. The truth of the matter with regard to sex is that it largely will depend on the societal background that you are in as sexual hangups are usually a personal reaction to societal influences. Really it's whatever feels right for you. So if you are comfortable having sex on a first date that's fine or if you would like to wait a year that's fine as well. Remember that sexual compatibility is a major factor in the subconscious cues that will attract you to a potential partner so if you start feeling too rushed or that you're waiting too long that is most likely what your partner is thinking as well. I guess to summarize this little report society's role in the sexual scripting process (yes I went to school for this stuff) "just go with the flow" and use plenty of lube and protection.
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In my experience, so far, it was always sex before anything else. All of my relationships were with guys I just met and had sex with, then it turned out we really liked each other and it became something more serious and permanent.
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true
nice
but lately all my sex encounters actually happened on a first date, like "nice shoes. wanna fuck?"
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