<![CDATA[Sex on the first date??]]>I've been going on a lot of dates lately, trying to find Mr. Right, and a lot of the guys have been seriously fucking HOT!!! To me, first impressions are everything, and although I love sex, and am a huge freak, I don't want to come off as a total whore. So I pose 2 questions today.

1. Is talking about sex on the first date inappropriate
2. How long do you wait before having sex when you're looking for a steady mate/ dating? 😕

Thanks in advance for your input.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/11478/sex-on-the-first-dateRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 13:02:55 GMTTue, 09 Sep 2014 16:57:46 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Wed, 28 Jan 2015 03:41:28 GMT]]>There isn't a rule. If the person is right, you should feel free to talk about sex right from the start. Having sex on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date doesn't change the prospect of the relationship.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118399https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118399Wed, 28 Jan 2015 03:41:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Tue, 27 Jan 2015 06:15:18 GMT]]>I usually wait 2 ou 3 dates before sex, most of my relationships started like that. The butterflies on your stomach while waiting for the first time. But I had some awesome relationship with guys I had sex on the first date. It depends on how the chemistry works between 2 people.

I'm not a puritan I love sex, but I'm also a romantic. So if the guy is also a romantic like me I prefer to wait and explore it otherwise why not sex 😛

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118335https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118335Tue, 27 Jan 2015 06:15:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Sat, 24 Jan 2015 08:28:58 GMT]]>🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118022https://community.gaytor.rent/post/118022Sat, 24 Jan 2015 08:28:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Sun, 18 Jan 2015 11:02:08 GMT]]>It comes down to chemistry. If it's there and the communication is clear from both sides, then go for it. >:D

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117632https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117632Sun, 18 Jan 2015 11:02:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Thu, 15 Jan 2015 19:25:44 GMT]]>don't! it'll only make you seem as average

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117455https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117455Thu, 15 Jan 2015 19:25:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Sun, 11 Jan 2015 12:06:44 GMT]]>All pretentious and fabricated bullcrap aside, almost every single tool/enabler between two men and their sexuality is influenced almost exclusively if not completely 100% decided by nature…

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117135https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117135Sun, 11 Jan 2015 12:06:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Sun, 11 Jan 2015 08:45:25 GMT]]>:bravo:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117117https://community.gaytor.rent/post/117117Sun, 11 Jan 2015 08:45:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Thu, 08 Jan 2015 15:51:22 GMT]]>i don't have problem with sex on first date, really.  :cheers:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116735https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116735Thu, 08 Jan 2015 15:51:22 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Wed, 07 Jan 2015 22:04:12 GMT]]>Why not, I have a friends for nice and long talks,and if I want a bf beside the psychic understanding we need to be compatible in bed. So, he must be good enough to go to date with him and if he pass that I need to check him in bed  ;D everything after comes itself  ;D Maybe it looks cruel but it's seems to be good for me. Last guy I check like that is still with me, 9yrs  :hug2:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116641https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116641Wed, 07 Jan 2015 22:04:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Wed, 07 Jan 2015 21:40:52 GMT]]>need a date first :-X

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116634https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116634Wed, 07 Jan 2015 21:40:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Wed, 07 Jan 2015 21:39:39 GMT]]>@jrsite55:

I don't see any problem about sex in the first date….

Neither do I.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116632https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116632Wed, 07 Jan 2015 21:39:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Sat, 03 Jan 2015 07:15:40 GMT]]>@thekingdom:

1. I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about sex
2. This is my general rule: if the date went well and I want to see the guy again, I avoid sex on the first date. I guess it's just my way of seeing whether he's serious or just in it for the sex. If, on the other hand, the date was just meh and I don't see the relationship going anywhere, I might have sex on the first date. Because if I'm not going to see him again I might as well have some fun.

Ditto.
1. It's important to talk about sex. Discuss number of partners, how recently they were tested, results of the testing, favorite positions, turn ons, ect ect….If talking about it gets you both "hot", wonderful. If talking about it can help give you both an idea to make sure you're both being safe, great!
2. I also avoid sex on the first date and this may be my personal opinion....but a lot of gay guys are really sexually charged. Many of them just want to be with me because they think "OH! you're gay. I'm gay....we both like dicks, haven't had any action in a while...let's FUCK!" I've been in relationships where the guy just wanted me for sex and the second I realized this, I ended it. I'm looking for a long term relationship with someone to love and someone I can count on, not some fling. Plus I'm paranoid about catching an STI and having mushrooms grow all over my dick......once that happens...GAME OVER.  :afr:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116014https://community.gaytor.rent/post/116014Sat, 03 Jan 2015 07:15:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Fri, 02 Jan 2015 23:56:17 GMT]]>:angel2:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115998https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115998Fri, 02 Jan 2015 23:56:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Wed, 31 Dec 2014 15:07:42 GMT]]>I don't see any problem about sex in the first date….

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115695https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115695Wed, 31 Dec 2014 15:07:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Mon, 29 Dec 2014 17:53:58 GMT]]>If I ready I can do sex in first time 🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115471https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115471Mon, 29 Dec 2014 17:53:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Mon, 29 Dec 2014 11:47:13 GMT]]>Yes sex on first saves a lot of time. I happen to be lucky to have sex on very first date with man twice of age and we've been living together for the past 6 years now and apart from smaller bumps life is just great. I hope and pray for everyone else to find their perfect life partners. Having sex with a person you love is just amazing or at least what I think 🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115431https://community.gaytor.rent/post/115431Mon, 29 Dec 2014 11:47:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Mon, 22 Dec 2014 14:42:55 GMT]]>@rickydrexel:

I've been going on a lot of dates lately, trying to find Mr. Right, and a lot of the guys have been seriously fucking HOT!!! To me, first impressions are everything, and although I love sex, and am a huge freak, I don't want to come off as a total whore. So I pose 2 questions today.

1. Is talking about sex on the first date inappropriate
2. How long do you wait before having sex when you're looking for a steady mate/ dating? 😕

Thanks in advance for your input.

1. For finding Mr. Right, probably sex is not the first topic that comes to ming
2. Physical attraction and sex is important, so I would say things should lead to it around date three or so.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114601https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114601Mon, 22 Dec 2014 14:42:55 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Mon, 22 Dec 2014 14:33:23 GMT]]>Sure!!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114597https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114597Mon, 22 Dec 2014 14:33:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Tue, 23 Dec 2014 02:52:31 GMT]]>I guess for me it's not exactly a cut and dry thing. The biggest factor involved would definitely be the chemistry between me and the other person. There are some people that at first sight, the primal animal instinct kicks in and the sexual juices start flowing. For other people on the other hand, I find it better to go a little slower and take my time before just rushing into bed. It's really hard to say actually…

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114594https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114594Tue, 23 Dec 2014 02:52:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Sat, 20 Dec 2014 19:03:50 GMT]]>sex before the first date is better 😛

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114399https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114399Sat, 20 Dec 2014 19:03:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:39:59 GMT]]>:true:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114318https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114318Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:39:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Fri, 19 Dec 2014 08:45:01 GMT]]>I guess sex on the first date is fine, but I wouldn't use it as a barometer to pursue a relationship other than a sex-based one. From my experience, sex on the first date has led to either: 1. unsuccessful attempts at a relationship (having realized over time that the two of you are not compatible outside of sex) or 2. awful sexual encounters (which primarily occurs through meeting someone from the internet for the first time– mystery grab bag sex, lol).

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114310https://community.gaytor.rent/post/114310Fri, 19 Dec 2014 08:45:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Tue, 02 Dec 2014 06:45:07 GMT]]>@mcmxc1983:

Yes, I always start with sex, if it works then next date 🙂

Interesting turn of events there. :cheesy2:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/113210https://community.gaytor.rent/post/113210Tue, 02 Dec 2014 06:45:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Sex on the first date?? on Fri, 28 Nov 2014 17:36:43 GMT]]>Yes, I always start with sex, if it works then next date 🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/113010https://community.gaytor.rent/post/113010Fri, 28 Nov 2014 17:36:43 GMT